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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

What should I do?? wait till marriage or not? seriously need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - so am 21... i loved my exes (3) i gave them everything..i loved them. but they all disappeared from my life without goodbye. ive been hurt soo much.. ive been single for 2years now.. the guys i meet just want sex and obviously i dont give ...

Condom tore, the drug I've used in the past isn't good for me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - [I'm 19 not 26] I've got a serious problem :( Me and my bf had sex and just when he finished he took it out and saw that the condom did tear! This happened 3 times before and I took "escapelle" but this isn't good for my body, I have no idea wha...

Husband no longer watches porn and now goes too quickly. How do I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Trying to keep this short and to the point: my husband used to get so turned on just by looking at me. Then I got pregnant and he didn't want to have much sex (i can understand, there's a baby in there! lol) I just had my baby 3 months ago, and I ...

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, be...

2nd time I have sex will there still be a burning sensation/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi im 19 and have been wondering, i jst had sex 4 da 1st in da lst month, it was very painful n i had dis intense burning sensation wen he trusted. So its been month since i had sex hw bad is it going 2 feel da second time and wil da burning ...

Can't reach orgasm without my vibrator!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hey peeps. Basically, I am finding it really hard to reach orgasm without using my vibrator! I love the sensation of it and feels so much different from sex. I use it a lot with my fiance but have reached the problem that i can't orgasm without it. ...

I had sex with my brother's 31 year old friend. My brother will kill us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - okay this is gonna sound well bad but here goes i went to my brother's friend's wedding this sunday just gone, and my brothers other friend who i have just recently fancied was there, i got really drunk like really drunk and randomly he started ...

Should she fight through the urge to pee during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, so my question is when my GF and I have sex, she gets that sensation to wanna pee. So she'll stop and literally go pee(She actually pees) and comes back so we start again and she gets the same feeling again after a few minutes. I tell her to ...

How can he be so calm and want sex when I might be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I told my bf today I'd been feeling strange and he looked worried, asked me if I thought I was pregnant. I said I didn't think so (though I was trembling) but he insisted I take a test soon because he thought there was a strong chance. On his lead, ...

Does anyone think I'm guaranteed to be pregnant now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and i've had a misscarriage before and it really hurt me as i'm a loving person i'm not a mad teenager who take's drug's or is out every night of the week drinking. I'm a quiet type of person i don't go out unless it's with my family. i like ...

Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anyt...

I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...

My little sister wants to have sex in the church! what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church ...

My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of ...

Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to ...

It takes SO long for him in the bedroom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been with each otehr over a year, and we're having trouble when it comes to sex. This isn't your usual... it only takes him three minutes! This is.. oh god, it takes him nearly three hours. We've tried to work each other up ...

Is it me or is it ED?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months. He is 30 years old and we seem to be having sexual problems. Some time I can not make him get hard, other times we start to have sex and he goes soft or we go forever and he never cums. I have only had ...

Sex with an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I'm curious about something, and getting different perspectives on it, this is a hypothetical,primarily girls, cause I already know how men think seeing I am one, but can someones sexual ability's be overlooked at the expense of your love for them? ...

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...

Did she lie to boost my ego?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - So I told my wife the other night that she's the best lover I have ever had. She smilied, waited a bit and then said, "me too baby." I don't know what the pause entailed though. Just taking in the moment or deciding whether or not to tell me a ...

Ideas to help my orgasms!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I just wanted to know if there were women out there that can't seem to reach orgasm at all or most of the time. And if there was anything they did to be able to. I can probably count the number of times I've orgasmed on 1 hand. And I've been in long ...

Can I live in a non intimate relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My husband never wants sex. Why is that? I have a neighbor,and they are having wild sex,I can hear them every few days. I think ,it is rude, to leave the windows open, but it is like a reminder,what is missing here. Am I guilty to feel deprived and ...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

I don't want to depend on porn to keep me horny

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (?) - I am having a problem with maintaining the right thoughts during sex. Sometimes, I get so preoccupied with other thoughts, I actually lose my erection or dont orgasm. I look at porn online often, and find that it stimulates me mentally and helps ...

Boyfriend doesn't see sex as important, says its just sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - hi Again Having already written to you in October 2009 about my realtionship with my partner as being very nice but no sex/love making, playing; fondling and the rest. Although I have tried to get to the bottom of it all through talking and moan...

Is the DEPO shot making her less interested in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - me and my fiance use to have sex 2-3 times a weeks. (a lot of times she started it) but now shes on the DEPO pregnancy shot and we now we have sex maybe once every 2-3 weeks, and i have to kinda work to get her in the mood, and i feel guilty, cause ...

Should I be the sneaky boyfriend or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have a problem! Here is the story. I have known this girl for 6 months and became an official couple in early July and we're currently still together. When I met her she said she was seeing someone and was trying to get over this person, this ...

My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were togeth...

He refuses to touch me down there but I don't want to have shame and limitations in my sex life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2071 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hi there, This is the first time I am asking for help with the sex problem. I would really appreciate your help guys and girls. My boyfriend and I have been together for about couple of month but we have been friends for a year before that. We a...

Do women really have oral sex after having regular sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Do women really do this? I know I watch too much porn. But, do women really go down on a man after having their penis inside them? I see it all the time on some "reality" porn sites and it makes me believe them even less....

Why won't my wife do sexual things with me that she did with men she claims to hate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - So my wife has a promiscuous past and I don't hold it against her. When she asked me about my past lovers, I was an open book. No problem. She, however, doesn't convey much. She is defensive about what she did. I'm ok with that. However, I know she ...

I can't stop fantasising about my wife having sex with another man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I can't stop fantasizing about my wife having sex with another man.I've asked Her but She's afraid it might ruin our marriage.I think about this everyday. How do I move on ,or better still how do I convince My Wife?...

Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't ...

Could I be pregnant? I'm crampy AFTER my period!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I have question and im curious... can u really help me please? i start my period on 17 of aug and finish on 23 or 24 of aug this month and i had sex with my boyfriend 4 days after my period and i had sex on 28 of aug this month and my questio...

help with my "squirting"issue

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - My question is about squirting. I know there is a bit out there on this subject, but nothing I've found that really tells me what to do if I've been having g-spot orgasms for years. So to be more clear, I've been having g-spot orgasms for a while,...

Why is my cum green?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - ok so like my cum came out light green why whats going on ,what is it help...

What is myth and what is real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like ...

I haven't had sex in over a year and am getting worried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I am 25 and I haven't had sex in over a year. I also have never really had a relationship (unless u count my first one of a few months with a guy who turned out to be gay or a few month long distance thing). I am overweight nd always have been...

We had sex and now he treats me like crap

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he ...

She wants to try oral sex but then again she doesn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend won't let me eeat her out because she says she don't know when to stop, she is afraid that she will have an orgasm and she says she will het too wet... What do I do, she also says she wants to try it out, so im really confused. I ...

Phone sex turn ons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - What's the best way to turn on a guy during phone sex? ...

Our baby is 6 months old and my girlfriend wants another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi my GF is wanting another baby but i dont know what to do as. 1. neither of us have jobs 2. she has realy bad PND 3. finds it hard to cope with our son 4. i think she also had PTS 5. doesnt do much with our son now 6. our son is currently 6 m...

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

We had sex but she cant remember her last period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi i had sex with my gf,but i didnt use condom.i didnt ejaculated in her.i gave her "ipill"a emergency contraceptive pill within 30 mins. i had some secretion on my penis when i entered her is it possible that she can get pregnant. plz. tell i m ...

Retroactive jealousy regarding my wife! How do I deal with it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I need to ask you all about my wife. She has a very sexually chequered past that haunts me, but to be honest, at other times turns me on too. What I need to know is how to deal with it and get over it. She is a beautiful woman, 30yrs old ...

The sex with my g/f is very one sided...hers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is not efectionate she does not like sex she does not like to make out and if she has sex and comes first sex is over ...

Getting married and just found out boyfriend doesn't believe in any kind of birth control!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

29 August 2010 (?) - Hello everyone. I feel like my problem is a bit weird and I don't want to go to my friends or family with this, so I'm coming to you guys. Anyway, I'll be getting married this December. My fiance and I made the decision to wait until our wedding ...

He takes forever to ejaculate!! What's wrong..is it me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - help! me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and everytime we have sex, he takes forever to ejaculate. Is it me ? Am i doing something wrong! He always says he loves it when were done but still it takes awhile... Help?!...

Knowing that he won't let go of this female friend, hurts me a lot. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend when I was 19. At the time, still a virgin, and not wanting to deal again with losing a man or constantly fighting over having sex... I agreed to a stupid arrangement. He was able to have sex with other women, so long ...

Confused ex-Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I have several questions. I recently had sex for the first time (as in lost my virginity) with my girlfriend, but had difficulty getting the condom off. The first night that we did it, the condom ripped on our second go at it and on the second night ...