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writes:My girlfriend won't let me eeat her out because she says she don't know when to stop, she is afraid that she will have an orgasm and she says she will het too wet... What do I do, she also says she wants to try it out, so im really confused. I want to try it!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Be very patient and move very slowly. Please do not nag her too much about this. Act with her like she a frightened pussy cat, you need to tempt her, she is truly very scared even though she's trying to try to be brave.
Don't talk about "eating her out", that sounds very scary. Instead you say that you'd like just to kiss her, because you think she's beautiful, and you'd just like to adore her.
Think romance here, not sex... the more you make it romantic, the more you make her feel loved and adored, the easier she will find it to relax and let go. If she does get to the point of agreeing, please start with kisses on her leg and then work your way up. Do not be greedy and do not jump right in, you will frighten her and she will be embarrassed and want to run away.
Once she starts to feel the pleasure... hahahaha.. well your on your own with that. But it's always nice to keep asking her if she likes it and if your doing good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Take it slow--some of us are very self conscious about what goes on "down there"--things you can see, smell and taste that we cannot control. I personally have to be completely clean--freshly showered and legs shaved before I feel relaxed enough for it. He couldn't care less about my leg stubble LOL, but I cannot bare the thought of it--we all have our prerequisites.
The comment about "too wet" leads me to believe she is self conscious about a possible female ejaculation (which can be very wet and some men hate that).
Encourage her by being patient and kind about it. Try not to act disappointed if she stops you. And try not to push the issue EVERY TIME you guys are intimate.
I promise: once she relaxes (barring any past abuse related to that particular act), she'll love it and want more of it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): You don't say, have you had sex with your girl friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Ok I am sorry but her reasons actually made me laugh.
So basically she is afraid she will like it to much?
Maybe tell her that you wont go long? Until she gets use to it?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Well she doesn't want to orgasm? Let me tell you when you first do it she will get hooked! I was a little scared my first time too, you're young you don't know what happens, or how it's going to feel. Not every guy is going to make you orgasm from oral, unless they know your spot..but after a little practice you will get there. Just tell her that she may or may not orgasm from this, that you will take it slow and will stop if she wants you to stop. With that being said, you can't force into it she'll do it when she's ready.
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