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writes:Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he started acting up. he told me he's not into relationship with me, told me that he isnt into emotions. ever since he's picking fights when i call him when ever i call him, why is he treating me like shit and i never done anything wrong. he talks about me to his friends and what we do in bed then he has the cheek to give out my number to his friends. i feel so used i why cant see that i want him he hasnt called me for 2months but i foned him 3weeks ago asking why he gave out my number he told me to f-off then hang up on me. he makes me feel so low. he used me for sex i cant get over him now he wid sum1 else whats wrong with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): you have done big mistake by having sex with him, before falling you must have thought about him, he is worst fellow, he used you, forget him
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 How about STOP LOOKING FOR HIM and move on with your life?
It's obvious he used you for sex and he's a jerk. Of course he's not interested in you anymore, since you can't do what he want you to do. He himself said that he isn't into emotions. He doesn't have feelings for you. Why can't you understand?
It ain't worth it humiliating yourself in front of him, asking him to contact you or anything. Just move on with your life and find a guy to respect you the way you deserve it. It's not easy, but it's the right thing.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Nothing wrong with you. This guy used you for sex, he shows you no respect. He dosen't want you for a friend, he actuallly just wanted to use you as a porn doll who can actually move.
There is nothing wrong with you. But there is something wrong with him. He shows no respect for you as a human being and is very, very, cruel. Please do not call him again, ignore him if you see him on the street. Do not give him the chance to say that your harassing him, do not allow him the chance to keep treating you badly.
Some guys are like this. This actually just want the sex and do not want to be friends. Please stay far away from this man from now on.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 First of all, this guy is a jerk and doesn't know it. There are no excuses for his rudeness. He's mad because he thought every girl swallows her boyfriend but when you refused his ego was bruised. Rather than saying sorry for being crass, he was focusing on himself only, pitying himself for not being able to cum the way he wanted to. If you are not sexually adventurous then I don't see why you watched porn with a guy you don't know well. He thought you wanted to be playful with him but then you held back. That confused him. He felt he's not attractive enough or not good enough for you to be subservient to his demands.
Just so you know swallowing is not dirty, it doesn't make you a slut. However, no one should make you do what you don't want to do. People should respect your wishes and ask you about what you want regarding relationship before having sex with you. You have to be careful and always talk before you fall in love with someone.
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