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Confused ex-Virgin

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Question - (29 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have several questions. I recently had sex for the first time (as in lost my virginity) with my girlfriend, but had difficulty getting the condom off. The first night that we did it, the condom ripped on our second go at it and on the second night they kept drying out. Also, I had trouble comming the on our second go at it each night. I'm just wondereing why I couldne't get the condoms off and why they keep drying out.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

Are you buying quality condoms? Are they new? Are they lubricated? (they don't need to be, but if you like lubed condoms that's fine).

The second time you make love in an evening your orgasm is likely to take longer to achieve. Enjoy this while you're young as it changes with age!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

Get extra large condoms.

They are all the same length but the width is a mm or so different... This might help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

Practice makes perfect. Like any other learned task, it isnt easy at first. Remember learning to tie your shoe?

Buy a box, and practice when you are alone, until it gets easier to do. Thats the only way.

Another helpful thing is if she will help you put it on...

I would guess you had trouble because you were nervous...it make for clumbsiness and butter~fingers. The first few times always feel awkward, but you will get more comfortable with doing it all. Im glad you are being responsible. mal

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