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help with my "squirting"issue

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Question - (29 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *ady9944 writes:

My question is about squirting. I know there is a bit out there on this subject, but nothing I've found that really tells me what to do if I've been having g-spot orgasms for years.

So to be more clear, I've been having g-spot orgasms for a while, but I've always held in the sensation to pee. Lately I've been solo practicing and I find it really hard to orgasm if pushing out since I'm so used to squeezing in. It's actually rather frustrating because I'm about to climax and then push out and it just kills the orgasm. I know that when I do go solo and use my toys without trying to squirt they always come out with ejaculate that looks more like male semen than the girls in porns ejaculate.

I just need help! It's so frustrating. Should I pull out the vibrator when I'm about to climax? What am I doing wrong, why is pulling out and pushing killing my orgasm if this squirting is supposed to be amazing because my regular g-spot orgasms are pretty fantastic.

Please help!

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A male reader, Rav attack Germany +, writes (9 September 2010):

Rav attack agony auntidk if this helps, but i heard that women with alot of stress tend to squirt. which makes sense why porn stars are able to do it. im sure they have alot to be stressed about. as for the color not matching porn videos. i wouldnt worry. with men that have alot of sex there semen and sperm count can dimisnish or be a lighter color. im asume itd be the same for a woman. but im not positive. sorry. try waiting till you are having an orgasim before you try to push out. and try focusing on your clit. i dont know if this helps at all. im a guy what do you expect! :P

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