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writes: I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like blow-jobs,and so on. He has a very hard penis, and can keep it up for several intercourse. So he is highly sexual. He is better ,than my 20 year old ex... He also wants a baby with me, however he is 30 years older. But his ex- wife is very upset, and told me that he was impotent with him, and she says all 50 year old guys are on pills.So , I wonder if she might be right. Maybe he is limp, and he just gets it up with a pill? That would confuse me. Also is this true ,that in your fities, you cant get hard? Or is it only with your wife,who you might not find attractive enough? I just want to know the what is a myth, what is real.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (30 August 2010):
He could very well be taking vigra, or maybe it's just because you turn him on! and his ex- didn't? you say he's 50 and you are 20 no offense but they try and find a younger woman to make them feel good about them selv'es!
they go through the change too!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 August 2010):
 As a generalization, yes, men tend to become less active as they grow older, but this is hardly unviersally true. I've known several men in the fifties and sixties who were as eager to enoy themsevles as men one-third their ages.
As for the ex-wife, as you said, maybe he has stopped enjoying her company. Obviously it's hard to get it up for someone you're not attracted to.
A little warning though- if you're looking for a long-term relationship with this guy, don't forget that you'll grow older too, eventually, and he's not very good at sex with older women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): If he is 50, having rock hard erections several times a day and having sex like crazy, there is a possibility he is on something...but not absolutely. Some men have raging erections and hormones well into their 60's and beyond. But for a 50 y.o. to be outpacing 20 year olds is rare indeed...not impossible, but rare. I think the key is how many orgasms he has and how fast he recovers. If he is not having a lot, that may be a sign hes on somehting. If he recovers super quick, that may also be a sign. Note I say MAY be.
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 August 2010):
 What is real is that his ex-wife does not have your sex life as a priority to assure it's a good one. Don't take advice from her. Of course she's pissed. He's with someone, she may have been 30 years ago. I'm sure their is raging jealousy with her, even if she has accepted them being over, and has no other intent with him. It's the fact of your age, being with her ex-husband.
I saw a show once, it was about sex and people who are older having sex. This guy, must have been in his 20's, thought people over 40 having sex was to old, and gross. lol This lady stood up and said, "My husband and I have had better sex after 70, than you've ever had." This, btw, was before viagra.
If he's the one you want to be with, ignore her and enjoy now. You understand what is real by what you experience. No one can tell you that what you two share is myth.....so don't allow their perception to interfere with the truth you two share together.
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