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Archived questions from: 10 August, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What steps should I take to find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - how can i find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex? One saturday me and him argued about some girls on his friends list online, he got mad and decided to ignore me all night. Three days later his ex arrives just to tell me that she spend the ...

User's title How do I ask for a third?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - [Mod Note = OP's own title] I need a little help. My Girlfriend and I recently decided to try and have a threesome. We both agreed that one of my high school friends (female) should be the third party. My question is, how do I go about asking m...

Why do I not enjoy foreplay? I mean, I don't care that we're not having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - [OP original title] Hey all, I've got a little bit of a problem; it's about me and my girlfriend, we do everything apart from sex and I don't feel like I'm missing anything (we've both agreed on no sex for personal reasons). When we do stuff, I...

Am I having mental orgasms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (?) - [OP original title] I am only 13 and I have never had sex, and dont plan on it until I find someone I am in love with. But of course, being a teenager I think about sex a lot. Whenever I fantasize, it feels like my uterus [or another female body part...

I want to take it to the next step, but everything clenches up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, and I really want to take the next step with him, but I;m a virgin. Every time we start, I tighten up and i mean i know its going to hurt to try. It always ends up with him not being able to enter. I really ...

Should I tell my sister I saw her husband with a hooker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - I picked up a hooker and took her to a motel. When we were done I was taking here back to where I picked her up. A door opened just a couple doors down as I passed by with her and it was my brother in law with a hooker of his own. He just ...

My son listens to us have sex! Now I'm labeled a bad person.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - My son who is 13 is always hanging around my bedroom door when my friend and I are intimate. We close and lock the door for privacy but he stands there and listens. He then went and told my mom what he heard and now I am labeled as a bad person. He ...

I was taken advantage of so I dumped my boyfriend. Not sure if he's moved on or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - about four months ago i was at a party and got drunk and my boyfriends friend took advantage of me and had sex with me but never 'popped my cherry', i never told my boyfriend because my friends told me it was for the best that i dont, my mind was ...

What's the best way to ask a girl if she's interested in casual sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - Is there a proper way to ask a woman you meet if she is interested in casual sex? I know there are many ways, and simply asking over the phone "Hey, do want to just sleep together?" Would not be acceptable. So if you experienced and mature men a...

I love him but he flirts with other girls, can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I am absolutely in love with an idiot and i don't know what to do. I don't want to dump him because i know i cant live without him but i think it would be better for me if i did leave him. but i cant. I think he takes me for granted. he gets off ...

Are there are any men left that won't just use me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - How do I find a boyfriend? Iv only slept with two people and they weren't even my boyfriends, they got what they wanted and left me. Iv been used twice now and just want a boyfriend who'll want me for me, not just my body. Are there any men like ...

Does our age difference make this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 34. We met on the Internet, but met at the mall to go see a movie where there were alot of people. At first I thought all he wanted from me was sex, but i was wrong he treats me right, doesn't pressure me to do anything ...

Older boyfriend's fetish is all he wants to talk about.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I have just started dating a man who is a lot older than I am (20 years). He has told me that he has a "golden shower" fetish. I'm okay with it, don't understand it, but ok with it. The only thing is now it seems that's the only thing he wants to ...

Does semen volume impress the ladies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - Hi aunts, All the questions about penis size and female squirters got me wondering about another "size" related topic that many men obsess over...semen volume. But I wanted a womans take on it. Men are sometimes obsessed with producing a volu...

I've got stong feelings for this guy but he's using me for sex...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - few months ago ive been seeing a guy who i have strong feelings for but he's been using me for sex, and i told him i want more than this. its very hard to get a smile from him he wont have a normal convo, he's very disrespectful, why does he hate me ...

Was I not a virgin because I didnt bleed when I had sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hi, i want to ask that when i had sex with my boyfriend first time then i was not bleed. But that was first time i involved in the procedure so i want to know was i not a virgin? Please help me because this thing has completly disturbed my life...

How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had sex twice now..and he keeps worrying about how he hasn't popped my cherry and that hes doing something wrong. Is he doing something wrong? How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed? And if he's doing ...

There's a chance I could be pregnant to my 18 year old cousin, but he already has a pregnant girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I need help when i was 13 i lost my virginity to my cousin i know what you are thinkin EWWW GROSS!! but i dont wanna hear it! well now im 14 and my cousin is 18 now and we still have sex once in a while and we use a comdom but im scared because i ...

I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried ...

Is it normal to masturbate so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - ok so i am 15 now and gonna be a sophmore in highschool and i masturbate quite often usualy 1-2 times a day if i can and during the school year not so much so that causes me to get really horny and a lot of the times (usualy once every other day) i ...

Casual sex, is it just a phase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - In the last 3 months i've slept with 16 men and there's no true sign of my sex life slowing any. Lately i've been sleeping with guys, taking names, and sending them on their way. I dont want a relationship and love disgusts me (i used to love ...

I'm done 'having meaningless fun' but just so worried that when I'm faced with the next guy - I won't refuse!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Ive hooked up with prob 10 + guys in my lifetime, but never had sex with them...I had sex ONCE with a guy (that i didnt know well) and never had it again....after having sex i realized that I had lost my self respect and that even making out with a ...

I just want good sex like I used to have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hello :) my boyfriend and I have only been together for about 5 months and things were obviously great in the begining.. but not as much anymore. I don't tell him this yet but I do love him. Things are starting to seem a little complicated now tho....

Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...

Should I test again???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hello i could really use some smart advice right about now. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex(were both clean and std free!) ;but the next day i think i got my period it was very light to the point where it didn''t even take up one pad? I had ...

Is my cum normal???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - I am a man 22~25yo. It seems like that i feel horny everyday. Is that ok if i just masturbate everyday? If i do so, does that effect to my sexual life later on? I mean my sperm will be weaker then i cant get girl pregnant? And also my cum doesnt ...

Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know? I have been in online dating chat rooms. and all the guys want to talk about is sex. It makes me feel uncomfortable since the guy is a stranger. If anyone knows the answer to this ...