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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is this a good reason to want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

31 May 2006 (?) - hey, i ask my boyfriend, (who wants sex) why do you want it, whats the main reason, he replys, because its the next step in a relationship. is this a good enough reason?...

i love him but i want someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - hi, i think i want to break up with my boyfriend,gary, but i just dont know how or when? we have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. we split breifly after two years as we both agreed it wasn't working,we were constantly arguing and sex was virtually non ...

She doesn't want to talk about this, but I feel alone.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

31 May 2006 (M) - I am a 26 year old male who has been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over four years. When we entered this relationship she was physical and sexual, but shortly after the official commitment, the sexual activity dropped. I love her, I ...

What's making these guys fall for their booty calls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - It seems that more and more girls are controling bootycall situations.Girls are taking control of the bedroom with a new sexual independence. I have noticed a trend in the forum where the boys are falling in love with their bootycalls ,where as the ...

I'm scared I may have HPV now or even be pregnant!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Okay im turning 16 june 26th and i really need help with a problem i have...My aunt was messin around with her friends husband(a 36 year old man)...so i hear about this guy for awhile then i meet him...well on my aunts birthday he calls and ask me ...

I am in an abusive relationship and he makes me do things I don't like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - i am humiliated i am back again with the same old problem.the situation is unbearable my relationship is seriously faulty.everytime he looks at me or speaks to me he either shouts critisizes and has an obsession with my bum.he is continuously ...

I've had sex 6 times and I can't orgasm! Is this a psychological problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (M) - I'm just going to come right out and ask my question... I'v had sex about 6 times and haven't cum once... The last time she felt so bad that she gave me a handjob after intercourse and i didn't cum then. I don't know what to do or think. I feel ...

Never had intercourse with him, but am I pregnant by being fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Please help me by telling me what you think. I havent had sex yet, but my boyfriend and I do fool around. Fool around meaning he does finger me. I am about 6-7 days late for my period, I got sick recently, and now I am really worried that I am ...

Will he lose respect for me if we go to a f***-buddy type relationship from just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hi im curious if there are any guys to give me some perspective. im contemplating a strictly sex/friend relationship with a friend of mine who has wanted to for some time now. i have no worries about it, i know about the attachement problems and i ...

What does premature ejaculation mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hiya just a quick question that im concerned about...what does it mean when a man ejeculates too quick during sex?...

I don't understand what is going on in his head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been casually seeing a freind of mine for a three months now. We had been freinds for a while and kissed one night when we were out drinking. We are both single and happy to be single. We kissed the following weekend have been kissing and ...

He never hurt me before but now is playing games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - dear cupid the situation is as follows my relationship with my b/f is hanging on by a thread it has been a v difficult relationship to let go of.i have had quite a hard time with people so far in my 26yrs but i am not bitter or anything and don't ...

My boyfriend found out I lied and it's ruining our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I am 20 and two years ago I met such an amazing guy, he was the first guy who respected me for who I am but because of various past experiences I was afraid to commit to a relationship and treated him quite badly for a long time. Last April we were ...

I fantasize about my girlfriend having sex with other men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - Please help! I dont know whats wrong with me and Im really considering professional help for the sake of my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year now and we both love each other INSANLY. I have had loads of girlfriends ...

Sex hurts and i just don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - At the beginning sex was very wonderful and passionate and i was very turned on. But i still feel those ways but it somewhat hurts. I feel myself being streched or he hits something and it hurts. What should i do. I stil think its wonderful, ...

Am I wrong for loving it hard and rough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - i can only cum when i have hard, rough sex, i was with my ex partner for almost three years and she loved rough sex and didnt like me being gentle to her. anyway im now in a new relationship with a great girl and i find myself hurting her when we ...

Worried about private parts.. Any advice appreciated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - would a female be detered by my penis? it is just under 6 inches erect but i cannot pull the foreskin back. i am afraid that i wont be able to have sex properly but i can still have good orgasms....

Am i going too far for a 13yr old?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - im really frustrated.....some ppl think that 13 is too young to have there bf go yup your shirt.......i dont think so!! i need some opinions!!! i dont feel like im 2 young!! i wouldent let some random dude do that!! me and my bf have been going ...

Cant keep it up during sex... whats the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6743 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I am having trouble keeping an erection during intercourse but not during oral or masturbation what is my problem?...

Why do people want to have threesomes, and how do they work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Are people ment to like threesomes? os if you and your boyfriend had a threesome with another girl wouldn't his girlfriend get really jealous watching her boyfriend with another girl having sex with her right next to her? Second question is, is t...

I slept with my mums boyfriend, Now im Pregnant! What do I do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I made a big mistake of having sex with my mums ex boyfriend who is 35. I am only 16 and accepted the fact that i am pregnant with his child. But it is to late to get an abortion. What can i do? My mum will be devastated if she finds out. ...

My lovers wife found our sex tape, hes turned to religion and doesnt want to know me, but I cant be without him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I'm married. it was an arranged marriage. i live with my husband. i have 2kids. one from my hubby. and a one year old kid from my lover. have been in an intimate relationship with a married man for the past 3 years. my hubby knows about our ...

I'm jealous of my fling's new girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 20 and have had a relationship with my neighbour. It was just a fling to satisfy each other (sex) but he started dating my friends and I started to get jealous. I have developed feelings for him but they only lasted a few months and then...

How can I find a relationship where the sex doesn't leave me feeling disappointed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I met a guy really liked, but met him in a club. Met him several times, thought I could really talk to him. Eventually met him again at the club, this time tipsy. Went back to his place and had sex with him (protected). Got up next morning and felt...

Why is my wife so turned on all of a sudden? Is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (M) - Should I be concerned ? About a month ago I stopped by my wife's office to see her. I could see that one of her female coworkers was in her office so I waited in the hallway until they were finished. While waiting I overheard my wife describi...

Three in a bed, but I don't want to!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I'm 26, my boyfriend is 29, and he wants us to have a threesome with me and another man. I told him no, and said it would cause harm to our relationship, but he still wants it to happen. I asked him why he wants to do this - and he refused to s...

Alone after abortion and feel so low.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I have recently split up from my boyfriend of a year because he wanted to go back to his home country. I offered to go with him but he said he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment because we would have to get married. This was back in feb that i ...

having sex is physically damaging me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I recently entered into a new relationship and have not been sexually active since falling pregnant with my 3 year old son. My partner is very well endowed and when we have sex i tear each time and am left in pain and feeling very uncomfortable. ...

An emotive issue - support please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I found out 2 days ago that I am pregnant. My boyfriend has 3 children already and I don't want us to have anymore children around the house right now. He's asked me if I want to have an abortion and we have both agreed. I made an appointment, but ...

Whats next in the game of sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I am 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a few months now and all we have done is kissed n he has fingered me.problem is i want to go further with him but i dont no how to! i really want to though. he is really experienced and i aint..can you ...

Have I taken the Pill correctly, could I be pregnant ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - hi there, I need some advice please!! I have recently started Cerezette pill (mini pill) and am 2 1/2 weeks into taking it. I am discovering very very sore breasts and bloatedness, very tired and moody. Im assuming these are all related to the pill...

What should i expect for my first sexual experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19... we have been together for nearly two years and i really think he is "the one!" He's always there when i need him, no matter what time of day/night. When i met him i was 14, and totally not ready for sex. He unde...

Never gotten off with my boyfriend, no matter what we do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have never had an orgasm with my bf before, or with any bf. We haven't had sex yet, but we've done just about everything else I can think of, and it's sexually arousing but he just can't get me off. I thought this was perfectly normal, until I ...

I'm afraid of penises... Even the word "penis" scares me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I am afraid of penises; they scare me. The way they look and how huge they are. The word "penis" scares me to death. I am afraid I will never have sex! What can I do?...

I am not physically attracted to me but shes wonderful!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - Hello. I feel sad just typing this in. My problem is that I have been dating a brilliant girl for a year now. I am in my 30's and she is a couple of years younger. I have never been treated this special by anyone before. Back to the problem: I a...

I want a better sex life with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - im 17 and me and my boyfriend skipped the oral stuff + went straight to sex. but i want to do the oral stuff now but dont no what to do! can you help? i think its important as i want to pleasure him more. we have only slept with each other + we are...

We want to go further, but I've never done this stuff before...I need advice..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Im really worried because my boy and i want to go further but i keep getting scared to take the next step. Also Ive never had anything done to me before and ive never like given head or anything what do you do? Another thing is that i know we are ...

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with his friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6746 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for 6 months. He's a virgin, and surprisingly, doesn't want sex at all but suggested to me that I should sleep with his friend instead. I'm not a virgin; I've had sex once with my only other bo...

Sex isn't painful anymore... it just feels numb. Is that all there is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I have a problem with my relationship. I'm 22 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We broke up last year because I found out my boyfriend had someone else. He said it wasnt important to him, he just enjoyed the attention he got f...

We're both shy and neither of us knows how to take the Next Step from making out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend (almost 19) and I (19), have been official for about a month now, but have basically been together for about three months (he was just too shy to ask me out). We are very alike in personality, quiet and shy, but do love each other. ...

My husband has a low sex drive, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am very frustrated. I have been married only 9 months and my husband seems uninterested in sex. I am 26 and he is 28. We have no children yet.Our relationship was long distance for a year before the wedding and we only saw each other once a month. ...

We need post-natal sex tips

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Me and a friend have recently had children and are experiencing similar problems regarding sex lives, and lack of. Do you have any advice? including medication/food......

Did he take advantage of me? My patience never paid dividends because we've split up now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I have a question to ask about breaking up? I was in a gay sexually active relationship, where we made love, and did most things that any sexually gay active couple would do, although I was the one most experimented on. My partner has eczema o...

Sex was a horrific experience but now he won't try it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - hi, i hope someone can help i love my boyfriend very much as he does me but we cant have sex when we attempted to have intercourse his foreskin burst in 2places the blod loss was horrific he says it cos he's to big and i'm tight now he wont attempt ...

The sex isn't great and I'm not sure I'm in love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfiend and i have been living together for 2 years. Our sex life is not happening- he's not really interesting. I like him a lot but feel I'm not in love with him though I'm not sure what "in love" really is. Everything else is fine. ...

I've been having sex with the band teacher and I'm not excited about it. Should I stop going out with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am 16 right now and I have my own car, OK. Well I have band class and our band teacher asked me if I would come to his house after school for something. Well I trusted him because he is a family friend. Anyways I drove over to his house the othe...

He wants me on top, but it just doesn't work!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend always likes me to be on top when we have sex, but I honestly can't do it! His penis keeps coming out and I can't keep control and rhythm at all. I've tried it a few times and I just can't do it. I hope this question gets posted o...

Can a condom cause pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Can using a condom make sex more painful? I'm planning sex and I'm on the pill. I'm aware of the STI risks of not using a condom but I don't want to use one if it is going to make anything less pleasurable. ...

Is it like Xmas? Better to give than receive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Is it normal to get more turned on pleasuring your partner than it is for them to pleasure you?...

Tops or bottoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - First time sex-I've been recommended being on top but having someone on top of me turns me on. My guy says he likes more dominant girls. suggestions?...