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writes: I am having trouble keeping an erection during intercourse but not during oral or masturbation what is my problem?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 Maybe its a bit of nerves. The fear of having to perform can sometimes cause you to lose your erection. If could be a number of things, but maybe your not relaxing enough when having intercouse, too busy worrying about whether shes enjoying it, whether your doing it right. Try to get some feeback from her as to what feels right and try and get some tips from her as to what feels good. There isnt a right or a wrong way to have sex, we all do it differntly. Try not to give yourself such a hard time, we never know what to expect with sex, thats what makes it so good. Go with the flow and try not to focus on how your performing, stop worrying, the more you think about it the more its likely to happen.
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