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writes: I have never had an orgasm with my bf before, or with any bf. We haven't had sex yet, but we've done just about everything else I can think of, and it's sexually arousing but he just can't get me off. I thought this was perfectly normal, until I started discussing such matters with a close friend, who seems to orgasm regularly. Am I normal, and how can I improve things?
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reader, guyniru +, writes (22 June 2006):
My wife always gets her orgasm either by oral sex or shes on top. The trick is try to have a pubic to pubic contact with girl on top so full control is yours.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 We are all different and it can take a long time to find just what brings you to orgasm, with some it is penatritive sex, with others it is masterbation or oral sex, sex toys or the playing out of fantasies.
Some women orgasm with some men but not with others, so dont worry and just relax, be your self, experiment and say what you like and what you dont like, there is no rush you have the whole of your life to discover the wonders of intamacy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2006): Hi i just wanted to say that i feel the same way. I have had an orgasm but never with my boyfriend even though he turns me on. We've never had intercourse but with other things he hasnt made me orgasm. I think in my situation its because i havent told him what would get me off, ya know, so comunication is huge when it comes to achieving climax with a partner. I suggest figuring out what makes u orgasm by yourself then helping ur partner along next time it gets hot and heavy, but i just wanted to let u know ur not the only one...
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