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writes: Should I be concerned ? About a month ago I stopped by my wife's office to see her. I could see that one of her female coworkers was in her office so I waited in the hallway until they were finished. While waiting I overheard my wife describing a new sales rep that had been stopping by. She made reference to how nice he was (turns out he's African-American). The tone in her voice made me feel she might be attracted to him. My concern ... the last few Fridays she's gone out right after work (drinks with the office girls) and gotten home pretty late. We've been married eight years and typically when we have sex it takes some foreplay before she is stimulated to the point I can comfortably enter but these last two Fridays when we go to bed, she's seemed to be more in a hurry to just do it and get it over with with no foreplay at all. I've literally slid in all the way without any effort. She's been extremely slippery and loose which is not normal. I'm wondering if something might be going on.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Men hit their sexual peak in their late teens, women hit it around their 30's.
If this is around the age of your wife then she could be hitting her sexual peak. Try to remember your sexual peak and then enjoy the ride with your wife.
This is the time she will be more willing to try out new sexual fantasies. Keep sex open for ideas and break up the routines and try new things. Women normally don't cheat during this time especially if they are in a loving commited relationship, and where they can try out those sexual thoughts that keep popping into their heads.
Have Fun!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 I think you may be reading too much in to the fact that you overheard her mentioning some other guy and how he was nice and so on. We all like the look of or fancy other people other than our partners, but it doesnt mean we are going to at a drop of a hat cheat. I think you hears this felt a little jealous and then this coupled with a few late nights has made your mind go into overdrive. She could very well feel more relaxed about sex lately. A womans hormones are always changing and depending on how old your wife is, our normal secrections and the like (trying not to sound too rude!) change, especially at certain times of the month. I know that im different now to what i was a few years ago. Anyway thats just one possibilty. Maybe you should just mention to her that shes a bit wetter than usual and that you like it! And just generally have a chat and ask if shes noticed too and if she knows why it may have changed. After being out for drinks she will also be more relaxed, so maybe shes just coming home and really pretty horny, and a but amourous... Ask her, it may very well put your mind at rest.
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