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writes:hey, i ask my boyfriend, (who wants sex) why do you want it, whats the main reason, he replys, because its the next step in a relationship.is this a good enough reason? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): because it is a good reason to prove that you both love each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2006): you shouldnt have sex unless you both love each other and are ready sex is an important thing and it should be saved for the love of your life
hope it helps hun xxxoooxxx rachel
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Sorry shoulda read... You "shouldnt" need a reason for sex. slight typo! x
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (1 June 2006):
I agree with Dr Pete. You should need a reason to have sex, you should both be ready enough to have sex. Just because one says "well it is the next step" doesnt mean it means anything. You should be at a comfortable stage of your relationship, love one another, and want to both be intimate and loving before sex occurs. If your asking this question then I dont think you are ready for the next step. Hang back until you feel it right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): hello,well it might be the next step but you need to know if he loves you and u want it to be special
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): No, no, no! Your boyfriend looses a point for that answer :)
He should want to have sex with you because he loves you and wants to express his love in an intimate way!
Sex is not about a guy wanting it, and you giving it. many young (and older) girls think like this and it is wrong, wrong, wrong.
If you love him, and you are ready, you will want to have sex with him too. And if you arn't ready, DON'T have sex to please him. You will not enjoy it and it will be a bad start to your sexual relationship with him.
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