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writes: Hi, I am 20 and have had a relationship with my neighbour. It was just a fling to satisfy each other (sex) but he started dating my friends and I started to get jealous.I have developed feelings for him but they only lasted a few months and then we got back to our fling. He doesn't love me, he only likes me as a friends. I know this coz I talked to him, but when I had a bf he lost it at me. I dont get it and he cheated on all his gfs with me, but now he has a new gf and I think he loves her. He hasn't cheated on her with me and they are always together. I am upset and I don't know what to do. Please help me.
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reader, nadine hillside +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
I think the reason you are feeling this jealously is because you want to find the right guy and you think he is the one because of the flings you have had together. even though your neighbour has found love and you haven't you will still feel the love and desire for him as you always did until you feel strong enough to move on. I think he cheats on his girlfriends with you because you give him the satisfaction he needsand he knows you will be there for him but when it comes to the fact you have a boyfriend he won't like it because he wants you to himself maybe you need to sit and talk with him again and get this thing sorted out or it will go on forever. You don't need to worry about not having that special someone yet because soone or later that specail someone will turn up.
hope everything works out. Good luck.
Nadine
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): get yourself a man then he will probably also be jelous! :D ;) :P
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reader, Smiler +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Hi thereWell where to start yeah i can kinda understand your jealousy cause thats only natural purely because you have had a fling with him and its kinda like you don't want anyone else to have him right? but babe life just doesn't work that way realistically as i'm sure you know, after all you can't pick and choose who he should be with. but i know your sat there thinking what if he is the one and i let him slip though my fingers? thats hard but babe try and focus on the fact that this thing with your neighbour was after all just a fling.... you need to concentrate on the fact that this fling with him is over babe, try to move on and forget all about spend your time looking for mr right cause sweetie believe me you will find him he does exsist, and without realising it you'll probably bump into him when you least expect it.You Take Care X
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
I am under the suspicion that your so called Jealousy is not as bad as it seems. You are so eager to find that special someone, that you will do anything to find him as fast as possible. This sounds bad when infact it is very sweet of you. Wanting true love so badly, that's all this is. Your feelings for your neihbour may have been your heart thinking, "is he The One?" So when he got a girlfriend, it reminded you of all the times you had together and makes you want your someone even more. Meanwhile - your heart is still buzzing that question,"IS He The One????" So yes, you are hosting jealousy, but only a little. You are a little jealous of the fact you spent time together, thought he was the one and then it looks like he found true love before you did. But things like this are not a race, if you rush into something as big as a relationship, it is more likely that it will have a messy out-come. There is the one-off occasion where things work out just fine but it's best to take things slow. You will find your Special Someone, it just takes time.
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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