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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): Its about the same for me, but I'm happy just seeing my partner happy. the reason I get so turned on by that I'm not sure, I've always been like that. When I see my man having an orgasm its like I'm the one having it, I know it feels so good for him. Its perfectly normal to be turned on by this, its carnal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): I love pleasuring my partner as well. It is a HUGE mental orgasm when I see my partner getting a lot from what I can do. It's totally satisfying. What's further satisfying about that is that I know my partner can satisfy me back physically as well. I don't mind if I give her more orgasms than what I get. However, if my partner is unable to do that sort of thing for me, even if I can satisfy my partner, I would eventually find it tiring and even boring.
YUM! Great, now it got me thinking about it at work! 8X
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Hi there,
Hmmm. I absolutely love pleasuring my partner,but I equally enjoy receiving!
There is no 'normal' or 'abnormal' about anything to do with sexual preferences, desires and if you get turned on more pleasuring your partner that you do when they pleasure you.
You have absolutely nothing to worry about! What a lucky partner, as it's a win-win situation for them isn't it!! You turn them on by doing whatever it is you do to provide pleasure, and at the same time you are getting way horny! You go girl!
I always look at things this way... you would have a big problem if you couldn't get turned on giving your partner pleasure OR by them giving you pleasure, so really, you are just fine!
Enjoy it and don't think too negatively about this, as, in my opinion, you have nothing to worry about! xxx
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