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Archived questions from: July, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend wants to try oral sex, but I can't get past my revulsion...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and only in the last week or so, he's voiced his desire to attempt oral sex. The act has no appeal to me whatsoever and I am highly reluctant to attempt it. He says that whatever I decide w...

My girlfriend enjoys it when I want to do something sexual, but she doesn't respond in kind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and our love for each other is as strong as ever. But when it comes to sexual actions she seems hesitant. She lets me do things to her and she enjoys it, but then she doesn't do anything ...

Seems like my internet bloke only has time for sex. Is this going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

30 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I just got into a relationship with a bloke I met on the internet. We've met about 5 times but chat every day either on the PC or the phone. I really like him, but am getting mixed signals from him. He says he wants to try and make a go of it...

I don't feel like I'm sexually adventurous enough for my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

30 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now (but we have been friends for about a year before) and things are going great, but I am afraid that I am not open enough sexually for him. I have never had a problem experimenting or giving o...

I can only have an orgasm when I'm masturbating or during oral sex...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 July 2005 (F) - I am a 17 years old female and I have had sex in the past and recently but I have a problem with having an orgasm. The only way I know I am cumming/have a orgasm is when I am receiving oral sex or when masturbating. My partner have told me many ...

If I can't get sex from women, I pretend they don't exist for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

29 July 2005 (M) - I am 23 yr old single guy. I have some anxieties about myself. Whenever I think about women, the first thing that comes to my mind is sex. I mean I don't see any point of women existing on this earth if it was not for sex. So all my relationship ...

I was worried that the passion in our relationship would die. It looks like it's happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7046 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend since February since meeting online. I moved in with him almost a month ago. Before there was so much affection and we made love regularly. Since moving in we don't make love and affection is limited, though w...

My dressing up sexy for him does nothing. He tells me he's too tired for sex. Can our relationship survive this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Does my boyfriend lie to me that he loves me if he doesn't want to have sex with me? We`ve been together for almost 2 years. But recently we just stopped having a sexual relationship. The reason is not me. He says that he is tired and doesn't ...

My wife only goes through the motions of sex to "keep me happy", but it doesn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7046 days ago

27 July 2005 (M) - I have a reasonably high sex drive but my wife seems to have lost hers. I am 45, she is 39 and we have been together for 8 years. She admits she has lost it and only goes through the motions to try and keep me happy but it doesn't....

I was a virgin until recently, and I want to make having sex with my girlfriend as good as I can for her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

27 July 2005 (M) - I'm 17 and I've been dating my girlfreind for about a year. I just recently lost my virginity to her and now I'm worried that im not satisfying her because she has much more experience. I'm not bothered by that fact, it just makes me wonder if im ...

My husband's constant fantasising and talk of his fetishes is driving me away!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6845 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I love my husband dearly and we have been together for over 18 years. The physical attraction is still there even after all these years. However, for well over a year now, our intimacy is becoming destroyed by my husband's constant fantasis...

I don't know why I've just lost interest in sex, even though I love my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7049 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for 21 months now. Our sex life was great at first, however over the last 12 months it just seems to have fizzled out. My partner has a very high sex drive and it seems like i don't anymore. Whenever he comes on to m...

His idea of "let's be friends" seems to include some fringe benefits...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6989 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - Me and this guy have been fooling around for a couple months now. I really really like him and he claims to like me too but says that be doesn't want a girlfriend. He'll say "let's just be friends" and then 10 minutes later we are back to fooling ...

I got drunk and did something totally out of character for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - I have always been the biggest "goody two shoes" in my school. I recently graduated from high school and after I did I tried my first bit of alcohol. Later in the summer I went to the beach with a bunch of my friends. All of them have ahd sexual ...

My lesbian partner took advantage of our open relationship for sex with a man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7049 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - My girlfriend and I have a great open relationship. It's open because we're experimenting with the whole lesbian thing. We share the shame interests and values. When we met we made a pact that we would wait to have sex with each other as well as ...

I found out he'd advertised naked on a sex site! Now he wants me to forgive him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - I have found out that my fiance has put a personal ad on a sex site with a naked picture of himself and asking for responses from men and woman to have exciting sex sessions. He also said some pretty nasty things about me to make people feel sorry ...

Tried everything, but I can't make my girlfriend climax. Now she wants to get a vibrator...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 July 2005 (M) - I can't make my girlfriend come. I've been with women before who have said that sex was very good and they came but my current girl friend won't come. I almost kill myself trying to make her. I've asked her what I can do to make her come but she ...

For six years I've been having a sexual relationship with my aunt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6773 days ago

24 July 2005 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I am a 25 year old guy and a few years ago I noticed my aunt (48) was flirting with me quite a lot. I have been attracted to her for some time but have controlled it. Anyway we would be alone and she would casually touch me or gi...

I'm too fast and I feel like I don't satisfy my girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - Hi, my main problem is that I ejaculate very fast when having sex, let's say between 2 to 5 minutes. I feel like I do not satisfy my girlfriend during sexual intercourse. Please do assist in solving my problem. Thanks a lot. sid....

I thought "big" was supposed to be good, but sex hurts my girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I were both virgins, until about two months ago. I knew it would hurt her the first few times, but she still cannot get that much pleasure because it hurts her so bad. I thought big was suppossed to be good. What should we do? We ...

We want to try foreplay, but we have no idea what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - Hey everyone I'm 16, and so is my girlfriend. We are both virgins, and haven't tried anything with anyone else, but we have both admitted we want to try foreplay, but I am really worried as I have no idea how to do anything right ..... help me ...

No sex, because my boyfriend is too tired or stressed. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

23 July 2005 (F) - In love, but have no sex life! My boyfirend and I have been going out for 8 months. He's turning 24 and I'm 21. Although we have only been together for a short time we are very close- we talk about everything, spend heaps of time together and were...

We use lube, but I still get sore! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having sex a few months ago. At the start it was uncomfortable but we decided to use some lubrication. Now however after sex finally getting good and enjoyable, it's starting to get sore when ever we do it (with the ...

I love my girlfriend and the sex is great, but I just can't stop thinking about her previous lovers!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and am very much in love. Our relationship is great on every level. However she is 8 years my senior and far more sexually experinced than me. She has had at least 4 times as many lovers as me, s...

He starts asking me awkward questions when we're kissing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Ok. Here's the thing. Basically when my boyfriend and I are doing some heavy petting he starts to say/ask some things. I don't they are like normal things like "Do you like that?" and "Are you wet?" but to me they just seem kind of corny. I usua...

Both of us had an STD and we don't know who gave it to whom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months has just finished with me. I hadn't seen him for a few weeks as he was on a course, but we spoke to each other twice a day and werer making plans for a holiday. During his time away he had to have a medical and discover...

Ready to move on to oral sex, but what if we want to kiss afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7053 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Hi...i am almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for almost a year now and both very happy. We got off to a very slow start because we go to different schools and didn't see each other much. We are both very happy together and now ...

My partner is looking at porn again, only now he's lost interest in sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

20 July 2005 (?) - Hi.. I wrote a few weeks ago about my concerns about my boyfriend's interest in pornography and him saying that he just does it out of boredom. Many thanks for the very helpful replies. Things have since developed with my boyfriend and I discussi...

I'd love to go out with the new guy, but will I risk contracting herpes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hey there. I've been with my boyfriend, Paul* for 18 months now and he's a great guy but I've fallen for someone else. Craig* is older than me, 27 (I'm 18) but he's amazing and I want to be with him. I've decided to finish with Paul* but I'm worr...

Everytime I even hug my girlfriend "something" comes between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have be seeing each other for 3 months. And every time I see her, it's like falling in love all over again. But I have a problem. I get hard, even if we are just hugging. She gets me excited, too excited. I need help. I want to ...

What about casual sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Does anyone believe in casual sex or should it only happen with someone you love and care about? Is sex an expression of love? Or can it just be fun?...

We just can't have sex. It's too painful for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - I am virgin and my bf is not. Recently, we have had several attempts for sex. The first time, it seemed that he could put it in about half way. I didn't bleed at all. Since then, all the times we attempted to have sex, I feel pain . We were not ...

How do I have cybersex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

16 July 2005 (F) - I'm a pretty mexican lady and I have my cyberboyfriend and he ask me to have sex on the computer now I'm scared to dead because I never have sex like that on the stupid computer can somebody tell me what I can do sorry for my english!!!I'm a 43 ...

If he went soft when we were having sex, does it mean he wasn't enjoying it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - If 2 people are having sex and enjoying it, what does it mean if the guy goes soft half way through?? Does it mean he didnt like me? or wasnt enjoying himself? I'm filling my head with lots of rubbish and just need someone to tell me what it ...

My tears during sex turned to laughter... What was going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Hi I have a problem. The last time me and my boyfriend had sex, I found myself crying. The crying soon turned to laughter as I became hysterical from the shock of it all. Please help, is this normal? My boyfriend was very concerned, and I...

My abstaining from any kind of sex is affecting my girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

14 July 2005 (M) - Ok, I know it sounds weird but although I'm 16 I preach, a lot, and it means a lot to me. Because of what preaching means to me I cannot have sex or anything resembling sex, or I try at least, and I think it has an affect on my relationship because ...

I'm too quick! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7062 days ago

13 July 2005 (M) - My problem is that I'm unable to last long in bed and it is starting to get worse the more I think about it. HELP...

When I think of my boyfriend losing his virginity to his ex, I get sad and angry...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - I've got a problem that I can't seem to get over. I love my boyfriend more than I could explain, but I can't seem to get over his past. A few months before we got together he lost his virginity to a girl he didn't care about. I can't stop thinking...

Give me some tips on new and exciting foreplay to please my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - Hey, I am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. I want to try some different ways of foreplay. I was wondering if anyone could give me some tips, also when giving a guy a hand job is there any different ways of doing ...

Sex stopped cold turkey in January and my boyfriend won't say why...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. Im 21 hes 22. We have a great relationship with each other but we havent had sex in the past 7 months. We had a great sex life up until January when he just stopped cold turkey. He was always initiati...

Our sex life is about half what my boyfriend would like, so he gets moody and I feel guilty!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7062 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. he gets very moody when I don't want to have sex and acts like a child. I do not like to have a lot of sex and so feel guilty that I am not interested enough - do I have a problem? If we ...

I'd like to try some new things - even sex! - with my boyfriend, but he couldn't care less!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7049 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I am 21 and I don't have the most experience. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and the most we have ever done is some heavy petting. I don't know for sure but I think he might be a virgin (he's 27). We have a great relation...

If he's not a cross-dresser, why does my boyfriend want to wear my bikinis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7063 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public. I know he isn't a transvestite, and he doesn't get a sexual thrill out of it, so I don't understand why he does this. What sh...

My partner is texting other women with sexual suggestions and searching for brothels on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost a year now - I am totally in love with him. Neither of us were the marrying type, however he proposed at 4 months into our relationship. We are both very happy - Well I thought we were. Recently I have fou...

The threesome with my husband was a total mistake... I just don't know how to fix it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

9 July 2005 (F) - My husband wouldn't touch me after I had our son. So, after trying everything I could think of, I agreed to his request of a threesome with another man. Now I am completely destroyed. What was I thinking? That is not a choice I would have ever ...

I called out the wrong girlfriend's name during sex, even though I'm not in love with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old lesbian and a few months ago I was with this girl called Ashley. We split up. Now I'm in a relationship with this other girl. Problem is, sometimes when we are having sex I call out for Ashley. I think I love the girl I'm with ...

Just not interested in sex with my bf anymore. Should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7063 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - Me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 1/2 yrs and he & I have been through a lot of difficulties and made it so far. He is my best friend and we have always had an amazing sex life but recently I have found it increasingly difficult to have sex ...

My boyfriend drools over porn photos, then needs Viagra to get an erection... Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - I need some input into this question. My boyfriend has erection problems and he uses viagara. Now I know men lose their erections for a variety of reasons. But he's a very healthy man so I am wondering if his problems are psychological even going so ...

I'm getting the cold shoulder from my fiance ever since we had that threesome...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I had a threesome with my fiance and his friend. He stayed with me and now he's giving me the cold shoulder big time. I love him to death and I don't want our relationship to end but I have no clue how to say I am sorry or how to make it up to ...

We're long-distance and I'm trying to understand why she won't talk about sex any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I am deeply in love with a younger woman, and we're trying our best at a long distance thing. We were sort of friends and then one day things got a bit intimate( ph sex) so I took it to mean she wanted more which I did too. So upon discussi...