| A
male
,
anonymous
writes: Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and our love for each other is as strong as ever. But when it comes to sexual actions she seems hesitant. She lets me do things to her and she enjoys it, but then she doesn't do anything back. I feel a bit used and empty at times. I've talked to her about it and she says she needs time. I feel if I wait too long that I've just been used. Should I wait? What should I do? Thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2005): I think maybe it's nerves. Some girls are reluctant to do things that they haven't done before. She could also be afraid that something she does is wrong in some way. When you guys are wound up I would either tell her I want you to do this, or simply direct her on where you want to go (i.e. put her hand on your penis). I don't think she's using you probably just inexperience, but I've been wrong before.
A
female
reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (1 August 2005):
 Girls often take a lot longer to settle into a relationship before they feel confident and comfortable enough to enjoy sexual activity. We're not like you guys! It seems to me you really care about her so give her the time she wants and she should come round. You never know, she may have had some bad experience in the past and doesn't want that to be repeated. You haven't been together for too long, give it time and see how things go. The great thing about a good relationship is how, over time, love and trust are built up and, after a while, it seems you can do anything. Good luck and hang in there, it'll be worth it in the end. :)
...............................
|
