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writes: Hi...i am almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for almost a year now and both very happy. We got off to a very slow start because we go to different schools and didn't see each other much. We are both very happy together and now things are starting to really pick up. I am comfortable about it and everything...it's great.We are pretty big about the foreplay and I kind of want to move on to the oral sex. Thing is, I'm not a big fan of the whole running to the washroom to brush our teeth and stuff before kissing again. Other than the fact we are kind of sneaking it at sleepovers when the rest of the family has gone to bed. I want to do it for him because the whole hand job thing is kind of difficult. Basically should I just go for it and wait a while before kissing him or what? Thanks
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reader, MLP86 +, writes (23 July 2005):
if your that worried, when hes cumming, stop at the right moment and collect with a paper towel or something while continuing to please him, just not the tip of him.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (21 July 2005):
 You have to do whatever makes you happy. Some people like to freshen up after giving oral sex and some don't mind! If you feel better brushing your teeth or getting drink, do it. See how he feels, he may not mind kissing you straight after you have done it.
That's the beauty of close relationships; you can talk about anything and not be embaressed. If you think you're ready to give oral sex, surely you're ready to have an adult conversation about it?!
Things will relax once you get used to it. But for now, do whatever makes you both feel happy and comfortable. Good luck :)
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (21 July 2005):
 This is one of those decisions you can make with your boyfriend. You need to find out what his feelings are about post-oral sex kissing, and work out what you both agree on and what either of you might find disagreeable. He may be much more squeamish about things than you are, or he might be much more open-minded.
You also might want to discuss how important to him your swallowing his semen is. If he doesn't have a strong opinion, you might do what some women do and let him climax against the underside of your tongue, so that you don't feel obliged to swallow it all. Another option is not to have him cum in your mouth, if you don't enjoy that... but the point is that you need to talk about what you both like and want, so you can continue to both enjoy the sexual experience.
Maybe it will just come down to having a bottle of water handy, so you can rinse your mouths afterward!
Have fun...
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