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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Should I accept that I may not be able to lose my extra pregnancy weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I'm 27 years old, and I just had my first child, well, not just almost a year ago. I m not nursing anymore and droped about 15 lb since I had my daughter. I m 5.4 and I weigh about 135-137 lb. Everyone around me tells me how beatifull I look and...

Question about the chances of getting pregnant from sex immediately after period

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - What are the chances of getting pregnant when you have sex immediately after period? And when does ovulation usually happen?...

Is my boyfriend just overwhelmed by my miscarriage and shutting himself off because of that? Or is he a jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm new here :) I am pretty distraught right now. My boyfriend and I have only been dating a few months, though we've known each other about five years as friends. We were supremely happy. I have two daughters; he has a son. We are both ...

Can we help determine the sex of a baby by the position we have sex in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - Ok guys . I hope you can help me. My husband wants a little girl. Right know we have 3 boys. My mother in law and her sisters told me to do all the work in bed. My husband should just lay there while im on top. Is that true? Apparently according to ...

Father or not? Should I remain focused on a legal resolution? Or arrange the paternity test through the Courts now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 August 2012 (M) - [Mod note: is there some reason you haven't had a DNA test done to establish paternity? Get that done and most of the problems go away. So please advise as to why you haven't ordered a paternity test.] OP follow up: She just gave birth this month a...

How can I handle my abusive toxic Ex? Makes out he cares to my mother. Then abusive tirade at me,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - My ex bf of nine months dumped me in a text message after I had a nervous breakdown. After the breakup we kept having arguments and he blocked me from phones, emails and facebook. I then went on to have an early miscarriage. I didn't know I was pr...

I want to have my child with someone other than my boyfriend, is that bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Hi all. I just need an advice. Is this normal when your boyfriend cheated on you an had a child with someone else. I've have forgiven him an love him but I feel like making my first child out of our relationship an I don't think I'll be doing ...

I had 12 sexual partners in the 4 years prior to my steady relationship. Is that bad? And why did a doctor conclude my relationship wasn't monogamous without asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Yesterday I had my annual, I was expecting to get on the Mirena (birth control IUD that last 5 years) but when the dr came back she said that I couldn't get it because I'm not a good candidate for it, being as its for people who are in monogamous ...

He won't sleep in the same bed with me! How do I get him to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Me and my partner have been together nearly 1 and a half years, im 20 weeks pregnant with his child and for the past week he has been sleeping on the settee and claims he doesnt feel comfortable sleeping in the bed. Its driving me mad as I struggle ...

I still haven't had my period after changing my method of birth control. Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I recently had my IUD coil removed as I was having trouble with it and the new method I chose was the Mini Pill (POP) which is the Cerazette one. I must stress me and my BF have never had any luck with condoms so we don't use them, hence why it's so ...

I had an abortion two weeks ago and feel lonely and depressed ever since

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I had an abortion two weeks ago, and Im feeling so alone. I got pregnant by this boy I know, and when I told him all he said was get rid of it and I didn't hear off him after (still haven't to this day as he blocked me on Facebook and blo...

Can this relationship be repaired?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Am with my bf for nearly 2 years now - we have a beautiful son together who is nearly 1 years old - our relationship has in the past been v rocky and not as stable as both of us would like it to be..we have though gotten much better with time. He ...

Dad does not know if we are sexually active. But if Dad turns him in, will there be consequences if we were sexually active? My mom does not mind.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I am currently 15 years old and I'm dating a 21 year old I've known for 3 and a half years, we've been together for 6 months and my mom approves but my father doesnt. if my dad tries to turn him in will it work since Mom approves and he doesnt know...

Years ago he was my foster Dad. No blood relationship. No legal adoption. Can we now legally have a relationship? I am pregnant to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I grew up in foster care bouncing from home to home and shelter to shelter. When I was 16 I was placed with foster parents that were very close in age 23 and 25. I remained there until I aged out of the system at 18. While living there my fos...

I love kids but I don't want to give birth because I'm just terrified of the pain of delivery!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - I am 23 years old..I have always loved kids,I see them around I make it a point to go to them,play with them..I would do anything to have one..and I used to always tell my friends that I would want to adopt a baby.. Now fast forward to my current ...

How do I avoid becoming pregnant by my husband who won't allow me to use birth control?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - My husband of 6 years won't pull out during sex. We are catholic so he refuses for me to use any birth control. I do not want to get pregnant. Please give me advice...

Will he grow to love our child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am separated from my husband for a year. Had an affair meanwhile and now I'm pregnant. My bf doesnt want anything to do with me or my pregnancy now. Will he ever love my child if I go on with my pregnancy, I don't want my child to be de...

How do I learn to love myself with a body that still hasn't recovered from having a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Don't know how to love myself anymore. I have a 3 year old daughter and have been really struggling with the weight ever since I had her. My stomach is COVERED with stretch marks still. And I feel as if my body is ruined. I hate this feeling of ...

My baby's father has cheated on me and come in and out of my life for years. I met a new stable guy now. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Hi everyone,i love all my confidential friend because they always support me when needed.I need more help than ever,i have been in a relationship for 5 years,i love the guy so much,he was my first and we are very confident to each other.At a certain ...

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...

He's not responding..will he be around for the baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with bf for 2 years, we live on different cities. I visited him few weeks back and we had nice time. We used condom but it broke, anyway i got pregnant now. I was thinking about keeping the child, even if it means i will be a sing...

Pregnant and scared, I'm making the wrong decision.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - I am 7 weeks preganant and very scared. I am due to have a termination on saturday and am very confused if its the right choice. I am in a stable relationship. When i found out i was pregnant i thought i would be happy but i have become more and ...

His Mom undermines my ability to discipline my child. We live with her. Would it be wrong to leave my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years, the last year and a half has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster. Earlier this year we had financial troubles and so we moved back into my mother in laws house. I have a daughter...

So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...

Together 7 months, are we rushing it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - I haven't long come out of a 2 year relationship, we split up because I had a miscarriage and it was the worst thing I've ever been through and my ex partner was not supportive at all, despite that I tried and tried to make the relationship work, ...

What else can I do? Worried I might be infertile, but the Doctors have said come back later. Do not want to test me yet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - Hi. I know this isn't a health forum but I have run out of solutions. I am worried about my fertility and the doctors won't do a thing until I am "trying" (which won't be for a good few more years!). By then it could surely be too late? I started ...

He's 14 and I'm 15 and we are cousins. Is it wrong to have these feelings? Should we have sex and what are the consequences?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - Im a 15 year old female, and my cousin is a 14 year old male. We've always messed around, like flirted. We have like dry humped, had oral sex, basically everything but real sex. We have a cottage, and we're always at each others houses. We went...

Trust? Betrayal? My Girlfriend cheated and got pregnant so now what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

17 August 2012 (M) - my GF cheated and got pregnant and the father of the baby died. now shes begging me not to break up with her.and wants me to help her with the baby... i feel like im just being used should i kick her to the curb help her out or what... and im...

Should I be upset about planning an abortion?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

15 August 2012 (F) - I just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. I'm going to have an abortion. I don't feel guilty about it at all, in fact im actually happy about it. Shouldnt I be crying?...

Sex every other day for 2 months, but I'm not pregnant yet!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Hi! I'm almost 32, my hubby is almost 34. We've been trying to have a baby for 2 months now, having sex every other day. We're both healthy and in good shape, don't smoke and don't drink alcohol. Unfortunately, after two months, I'm not pregnant and ...

I'm five months pregnant but he made me walk 8 miles plus home. I love him but he stresses me. Should I give him up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I am 17 years old and I'm pregnant. I am 5 months pregnant and the boy who got me pregnant was my boyfriend of a year. He has now decided to choose alcohol and drugs over me and my little girl. I'm not really sure as to what I s...

My relationship has hit rock bottom and to top it all off, I missed my period this month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Last October, my bf and I broke up after 7 years together. It was the most difficult time in my life. A few months later, we started talking again and he begged me to get back together with him. He said he would change. I foolishly took him back and ...

Can a woman be impregnated by precum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - hello just wanted to get a few opinions on my situation...I slept with both my bf of 3 years and some other guy around the time i got pregnant. just to be clear i hooked up with the other when i was single and we didnt use a condom he also said he ...

How do I tell my mother that I miscarried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

11 August 2012 (F) - I miss-carried at 8 weeks but lied to my mother who doesn't care enough to make sure i have prenatal care. I'm naturally heavier than most females my age(17)so it has been easy to play it off. Now at this moment I'm supposed to be 35 weeks pregnant ...

Family? when? Am I destined to be alone and never know the joys of being a father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

9 August 2012 (M) - so I am not sure whats wrong with me. I will be 41 next month and have been single over a year now. before that I was single 5 years and so on and so on every single woman I have dated has cheated on me, lied to me stole from me abused me physical...

Things have gone from bad to worse since I told the truth. What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

9 August 2012 (F) - I hurt my husband badly and I apologised for that, but his reaction makes me feel like withdrawing my apology. We have been married for a year. We dated for two years before marrying. It was a terrible time for me. During this time, I did the begg...

Consumed with guilt and shame over Paternity issues. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

8 August 2012 (F) - I am so ashamed of what I have done. I have been in a common law relationship with someone for about 20 years. Very rocky relationship with him suffering from drug addiction. Long story short I had an affair with someone from my past it went ...

How could he just abandon someone he has been through everything with? What was he thinking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

7 August 2012 (F) - Ok here it goes and please no rude comments really looking for a solution not to be bullied. I have known my ex for 11 years. He was my best friend and the guy I always ran to for help. We did date a few years ago but went are seperate ways bu...

Should I tell him he Isn't the father and risk losing him or keep it from him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

7 August 2012 (F) - Ok I hope this doesen't sound too shallow...I recently got pregnant with an ex who is a complete and utter ass as well as verbally abusive to me. Shortly after the break-up my best friend introduced me to a friend of her's who is the sweetest most ...

Does the father of my kids have a right to know my situation I'm going through

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

5 August 2012 (F) - I got myself in a complicated situation. I just found out that i am pregnant with my third. The problem is i am not too sure if i want to tell the father of my children if i am because i have been with him during this month and some other guy i ...

I have an urgent desire for a baby but it's not the right time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 August 2012 (F) - I have a question for people who are going through, or have been through, what I am feeling right now. Up until a few months ago, I was pretty much anti kids. My husband and I discussed kids before we got married and agreed it was something th...

How is it that I still haven't gotten pregnant? Am I just lucky? Or is there a problem that will affect my getting pregnant in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 August 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years. i am 20 and he is 21. we have been having unprotected sex at least 4 times a week for over a year and he does ejaculate into me almost everytime. i was on birth control when we first started dating ...

He's cheated on me emotionally and I want him "marked" with a tatoo of my name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

3 August 2012 (F) - I'm 5 months pregnant now, and I've recently found out that at the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend had been mentally cheating, still in love with his ex, planning on going back to her and leaving me. Never found out if he cheated ...