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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Was it Implantation bleeding? or just a really light period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex twice about a week and 2 days ago(it was a Friday and Saturday). The day after,which would have been Sunday,my period was supposed to start. I am on birth control,and was on the last set of pills at the end,which are supposed ...

Am I experiencing a phantom pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Recently my body has been acting REALLY weirdly. My stomach has bloated out by a HUGE amount (I keep getting asked if I'm pregnant it's that bad) and it's rock hard. I honestly look 6 months pregnant. I'm getting cravings for strawberries, my boobs ...

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went ba...

How do I know if he came in me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - this morning, at about 4 i was rather drunk and ended up having sex for the first time with one of my ex-boyfriends. it was kind of a rushed thing, just happened out of no-where, i wasn't pressured into it and i know it was stupid to have sex with ...

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

My lover and me are both trapped in loveless marriages and are hopelessly in love with each other...and now I think I'm pregnant with his baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if I could get advice any would be appreciated. Where to start... I have been with my current Partner since I was 18 years old we met in college. We became best friends and fell in love we know we are soul mates... this i...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

I'm pregnant and want a family but BF doesn't want to get married, although he says he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always said that he loves me, that i'm the girl he wants to be forever with but he doesn't want to get married, now i'm pregnant and he still doesn't want to get married. Honestly i feel he's never going to change his mind and i really ...

How do I move on from this jerk who got me pregnant and now wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! You may remember me from the guy who got me pregnant on purpose and then completely got disrespectful and wanted me to have an abortion... anyhow, I'm now 10 wks preggo, I've seen the guy a few times (being dumb) because he has acted ...

I'm pregnant and nearly married but my partner has changed;

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Well i have been with my partner for 3 years. ^ months ago we split up dor 6 months but he said he loved me and wanted me back. When we got back together all our previous problems seemed to have dispppeared and he proposed. Wedding is in 9 weeks and ...

Trying to pass off another man's child as my husbands....Is this really such a big deal?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I have been married for 2 months, but pregnant with another man's baby. i dated by husband for 3 years, but he really treated me badly for a while. I fell pregant by him and he "forced", me to abort, which i regreted.I resorted to cheating on him ...

Would GF leave me if we can't concieve a kid? I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) - My girlfriend is desperate to have a baby and I'm scared she'll leave me if I can't give her one. I'm 22 and she's 24, we've been together for 5 years and I love her to bits. We've been trying to conceive for nearly 2 years. People have said we're ...

Confused and looking for answers....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - hey guys.ill try keep this short.my ldr wants a baby so bad i dont know what to do.im not on birth control and i will go this week for that.my problem is that i told him that im preg and he is happy but i didnt just lie.im not sure if i am.im scared ...

Will the depo shot stop me getting pregnant with a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Okay well, I've been on the depo shot for about a year now and I have a couple of questions about it. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 years and after I started the shot, we stopped using condoms, actually my gyno had told me to stop usi...

I can't figure out how far I am along in my pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Okay so.....please help people of dearcupid. I simply want opinions. I am about 15 1/ 2weeks pregnant (or so they say, every doc has given me a different date and when they told me how far along I was it was impossible) I was with someone ...

When is the best time to have sex so she doesn't get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't want kids and I'm not ready for them. We have just started to have sex. I do wear a condom but I want to make damn sure that I do not get her pregnant. but we don't have the money for birth control not to mention if her family ...

Movement in my stomach, What could be causing this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Okay I am VERY sure I am not pregnant. About 11-12 weeks ago I had sex. Anal none the less. It was 3 days after i started a new pack of the pill (which i have been on for over a year now) Off and on I feel movement in my stomach...I am n...

I can't seem to become attached to this child inside me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Please help me people. I'm 4 months pregnant and this whole time I've been up and down. But lately I'm really feeling resentful to this thing in my stomach and don't know what to do. I'm not with the father we really can't stand each other. That's ...

Getting pregnant from a handjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - i gave my boyfriend a handjob and some semen got on my hand.i wiped it dry with kleenex. after 15 minutes i went to go have a shower as i was takign off my clothes my hand touched my vagina accidentally. could i be pregnant?? pleas help me i am so ...

How can I deal with unwanted judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Im a 15 year old teen mum. I have a little boy who is 7 months old and the father stuck around so thats all good; but something that really bothers me is how everyone judges us not adults but people at school, like they are always telling me how i ...

He left me with a baby and I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - okay this is hard for me to write but here it goes my boyfriend of 7 years left me a yr ago when i tld him i was pregnant. He said he didn love me anymore and that we never be together again i was so heart broken. I ask him to give us another go ...

Questions on sex and pregnancy.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Hi all i have some questions i don't know whether its african culture or what but i saw this as important 2 me not to make an mistake. 1st how long shall we wait 2 have sex again with our partners after the baby is born especially when it was oper...

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a ...

Do I keep my baby and raise it with a man who won't even let me finish school because he is afraid I will "meet" someone new? Or do I abort it and go back to the guy who possibly fathered my child, denies it, yet wants to rebuild our relationship? ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I'm not on here to be judged. I'm here to get honest heartfelt opinions from people who don't know me. Here is my story, I'm 18 years old, high school drop out, been through the bad and the good. My life is not one to be judged, I was in court bat...

I am still madly in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - I'm only sixteen, but when I was growing up as a child, I was always around my older brother (who is now 20) and his friends. I grew up with one of his bestfriends, Josh (who is now 19). Me and my brother had been living at my grandparents, and ...

Does an ultrasound carry the father's name?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I want to know something about baby ultrasounds. When a copy of the ultrasound is printed, does it carry the name of the baby's father on it? ...

I'm pregnant and worried about losing my scholarship, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I am a college student with a scholarship and in december 2012 i will finish my career, but now i'm pregnant. My boyfriend also goes with me to college and decided to support me but I'm very scared about this situation (and about my relationship ...

Promotion at work and planning for a baby and now my boyfriend is panicking.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

13 July 2011 (?) - Hi there. Here is my problem. Me and my bf of 18 months have been trying for a baby, we are also buying a house together. We both work full time and this would be our first house, our first child. It’s an exciting but stressful time. Here is the t...

My boyfriend has been telling everyone about my miscarriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - Hey, do you think I am right to be annoyed with my bf - we had a miscarriage last week. He told his mother and best friend (and told me he'd told them). I didn't want to tell anyone about it, but was fine with him telling people as long as he let ...

Alone and pregnant???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I've been seeing someone for around 2 weeks now and there is a chance i may be pregnant already, however we have used contraception each time and i am going to take a home pregnancy test tomorrow to be sure, i need to get a chance to tell him that ...

Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, an...

I really have my heart set on a child but my fiance is not ready. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - So I have a fiance that I love dearly...We live together now but we will be moving into our very first apartment on Friday:) the problem is,I really want to carry his child..he has me on birth control but I'm not really happy with it..I'm just doing ...

Do I really know my guy? Now that I know he looks at Gay'Tranny and SheMale porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My baby's dad and I have been together off and on for 6 years. It hasn't been a good past 6 years. He has 2 children with another woman and yes, they were both during these last 6 years. We are currently not together but he has come over and...

We want a baby. How can we when our sex life is kind of difficult?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are trying to conceive a baby. however we are both little over weight and well...he is kind of small down there. I'm not very comfortable being on top, but everytime we have sex, his penis doesnt stay in. We both very much want...

Why would a man still enjoy watching porn if he was truly affected by a miscarriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd like some advice on how to deal with my feelings of anger towards my bf who has been watching porn while i've been coping with a miscarriage. We've been together 9 months, and I know he's been watching porn occasionally (like one short ...

How can I stop being shy about telling him what I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Okay everyone i have terrible relationship problems! i am 18 and going to me a new mom any day now. i am going to try and make this as short as possible. so i broke up with my boyfriend/baby's father Saturday.He was hanging out with his friends ...

Why do some guys date pregnant women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - I've heard a few stories of guys dating pregnant women, who are pregnant with someone else's baby. Meaning she got pregnant and then they met/ got back together after she got pregnant. Why would a guy want so much baggage? You would always be put ...

Why does he treat me like this, I'm carrying his baby !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - I have a big problem im 7 months pregnant from a guy who is now disrespecting me, hes very abusive emotionally and physically. He calls me names the after day he told me he made out in a park with a girl he met on blackberry messager group. he keeps ...

Spotting but still no period, am I pregnant ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - hey i need some help urgently and i would really appreciate if someone answered this. okay so im 17 and i had sex a week ago(28th june). i was supposed to get my periods around the 4th to 7th july (my last period was on the 4th june). On the 7th of ...

Am I Pregnant ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - i miss my period in june and its now july and my period has not arrived as yet.... i took a preg test on friday and its negative..do u think even though it negative at that time i'm pregnant?......

My fiance is demanding I have a DNA test, even though I only cheated once back in 2010!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, Me and my fiance are expecting our 1st baby. He wants a DNA test, just because I messed around just 1 time and that was last year (2010)! IT'S A NEW YEAR! I mean, he's actually "insisting" that i get a DNA test... I just got pregnant...

What are the chances of the baby not being my boyfriend's?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and myself broke up around the 12 of may, in that time i slept with someone else, however my boyfriend and i were still on and off, got my periods on the 29th of may and it hurt more than usual and lots of lining? came out. Since then ...

Is it me or are they crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7yrs at the beginning it was horrible cuz he cheated and I forgave numerous times and I think the reason I did was because of low self-esteem issues which now I am in a different place in my life. He is always ...

I know we're young, but I want a baby! Is this a good idea?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - im 16 and i want to have a baby me and my partner been together some years now and im ready to have a bby i know a baby comes with alot of expenses but we both are working and he's a senior and im a junior. and we have a lot of money saved up ...

I need to tell my parents that I'm pregnant, but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we started having sex 2 yrs ago. im 16 and now im pregnant. ive told my partner he's going to do all he can my only problem is how do i tell my parents?...

Should I marry a guy I don't trust just to please my family???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

6 July 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, Am I wrong for holding off on marrying my fiance? I am currenly 5 months pregnant with our 1st baby, and a week or two ago, my grandmother came up to visit us and insisted we go ahead and get married. But, my fiance has some growing ...

Not ready to be a mom but also won't consider abortion! My boyfriend is an alcoholic and my family is extremely religious. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - ok so if you have been keeping up with my other questions you will know the whole story but if not i will make it a 'long story cut short' ok so i am in a lets just say 'rocky' relationship and i have now wound up pregnant. i have just turned 19 s...

Pregnant and want to move in with him. How do I tell my mom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - ok so my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months and everything is amazing. we are both 19. and we keep talking about me moving into his house and i want to do it, but i dont know how to tell my mom. the big thing is though that i'm pregnant. we ...

How to break up with someone I love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - Been in a relationship for 4 and a half years now. I love my bf because he is everything I want in a man. Only problem is he won't have sex with me yet. He wants me to be patient til his paranoia of pregnancy goes away. But it's not fair to me to ...

I'm feeling emotional. Last week I had a miscarriage. So why is he not supporting me and still watching porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on how to stop feeling angry with my bf and to understand his actions. We've been together 9 months, and a few weeks ago, we found out we had an unplanned pregnancy of 7 weeks. We spent a lot of time trying to decide whether ...