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anonymous
writes:this morning, at about 4 i was rather drunk and ended up having sex for the first time with one of my ex-boyfriends. it was kind of a rushed thing, just happened out of no-where, i wasn't pressured into it and i know it was stupid to have sex with no protection but, i was just wondering if it's likely he came in me? he was still hard when he pulled out from me because he knows better than anyone that i don't want to end up pregnant. i didn't feel any kind of gushing and when i stood up i didn't feel anything leaking from me apart from my own lubrication but that's only just stopped; i didn't know if that's normal or not seeing as i've never had sex before. i'm just a little worried; could someone please tell me if it's likely he did come in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): There is a possibilty he could have cum in you. As anon stated guys can cum within a few seconds after penetration (in fact I had an ex who sometimes came before he even got in me, he was that excited). You stated that your ex was still hard when he pulled out -- that is normal. Guys don't ususally get soft for a few seconds/minutes after cumming, if at all. You can't always feel cum inside of you so you won't necessarily feel it "leak", and if you are still wet then it's impossible to tell which liquids are yours and which are his.
If you are concerned about pregnancy then get the after morning pill ASAP. And next time be more responsible.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 Male Anon is right on the money.
Go get the pill and next time use condoms and then the worry will be gone.
All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): Get the morning after pill and take it.
You simply cannot know, remember, you were drunk.
Guys can come in a few seconds after penetration occurs, really, a few seconds.
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