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writes:ok so my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months and everything is amazing. we are both 19. and we keep talking about me moving into his house and i want to do it, but i dont know how to tell my mom. the big thing is though that i'm pregnant. we just found out about 2 weeks ago and although i know my mom is going to want me to stay so she can help his house is bigger and there's more space for a baby there. i just think she's gonna be nervous about the whole thing. does anyone have any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Off course she is going to be nervous, you are her baby girl. You may be 19 but in her eyes you are still her child and always will be and she will always worry about you. You both have only been going out for four months so this must be a lot to take on for the both of you. You just need to be honest with your mum and tell her the truth. Sit her down and tell her you are pregnant and you are going to be moving in with your boyfriend. Yes she will be shocked and it will take a while for her to come around but explain to her that she will always be welcome in the house and she can come around as often as she wants to. Am sure this will make her feel at ease. Plus when she sees that your boyfriend is sticking by you and is also going to be there to help you with the baby this should settle her mind a bit. Just be straight with her and tell her. Good luck sweetie.
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