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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is cybersex with others considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy many years ago online and we started to have cybersex. It became very intense and eventually we fell in love. We spent many hours talking on phone, IM, email etc. We plan on getting married but due to some unforseen circumstance have not ...

I feel like I have to give him an ultimatum now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok heres my situation. I met this guy online about 2 months ago. We met after talking for a month. And hit it off. Since then weve seen each other one time. Because everytime we set something up to met he backs out at the last minute saying hes ...

I'd like to meet up with him, but I'm worried he might like me more than a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy friend I talk to online. He's the same age as me and he used to go to my school. He's a really nice guy to talk to and I would like to meet up with him just as a friend, but I feel like he has much stronger feelings towards me. H...

I don't think I should date this online man, seeing as he exposed himself to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I met a man online 3 years ago. We chatted along time before meeting he seemed normal other than enjoying exposing himself to me. We were seeing eachother approx 5 months when I felt something was up. We would chat online and his responses...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

I'm fourteen, he's nineteen, should I arrange for us to meet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - ive been talking to this guy he is nineteen and he lives in south carolina and i live in california but like im really starting to like him and i cant help but smile wen he txt me ive never felt like this before and im not sure what to do im ...

My real life friends want me to delete my online friend from my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - what do i do! i met this guy online and we really like each other. however i told my bestfriends and they were like what the hell. I have been talking to him for 7 months , we talk to webcam etc etc and we both like each other. We cant be together...

How to tell if he likes me or is just looking for a booty call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Ok i met this guy from the internet and weve been talking for awhile but he tells me that he doesnt want to rush into a relationship, because all his other relationships never worked out. Well we use to text each other everyday and now he wont even ...

We met through an online game but now things have gone bad, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - well im a 31 year old woman who has been playing this game online for almost 3 years, ive meet a lot of great people there. well ive been playing with this one guy for a lil over 2 years we have always gotten along really well . and back in may he ...

Dating site guy turns out to be someone I already know!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I recently signed up to an online dating site, having been single for too long. Now, I messaged a guy, as he was local, works in the same profession as me and looked nice. BUT I have just realised, I do...

Should I see him when he comes to town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Okay so like 3 days ago i said that most guys bore me and that the guys i like are jerks...but there is this guys his 21 and lives in Florida has two kids and is coming to town to see his kids. Now he says he is in love with me but i dont feel the ...

Online dating? Experiences and advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - I have never tried online dating. I am moving to a new city and am considering it to meet people. Like cellphones and facebook I thought I would defy the trend of online dating for a while before I join the masses... I've never met a person w...

Should I tell my online friend my real name? And was it wrong of me to lie about my name?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I started exchanging messages with someone I 'met' on a internet forum. Completely against my expectations, we still 'talk' about a lot after 3 weeks. The problem is that I didn't tell him my real name and he did give me his. (first names only, ...

My online boyfriend wants to marry me, but my parents do not approve! Should I listen to what my parents tell me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I'm feeling like giving up right now, it's too much I could handle. People surround me keep telling me what to do according to the law in my country and stuffs, it seems I have to sacrifice my own feeling. It is about my relationship ...

Do you think we are meant to be? I never felt this way about a man ever, but I don't know if its the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and politics. It was just 2 people talking about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and I live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong ...

How can I be romantic with my on line crush, and show him that I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hello! My on line crush says that he likes romance, and to show him that I care about him... My question is how can I be romantic with him? And how can I show him that I care and like him? I already said that to him, but how can I prove it...

What do I do with my blast from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and polotics. It was just 2 people talkign about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and i live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong ...

Conversation starters and tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers ...

A little puzzled regarding an article I read.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a LDR. We talk every week on Skype and get on very well and in September when I was staying close to where he lives (have my mother and other friends there) we went out and about quite a lot during the 6 weeks. I'll be going back in April. ...

Does she like me any more? Is there anything I can do to rekindle this friendship?

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26 January 2011 (M) - I am a 26 year old guy who has never been in a relationship, I am new to liking girls. I'm currently trying to date a lady who is 32 years old. She has had two relationships, one lasted 10 years, the other less than 1 year. She said because of ...

Do I fess up to my real age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I am 16 years old and recently went on a dating site (which i no i shouldnt have done) and have got chatting to a 22 year old. We are getting on really well and he seems to like me. Only problem is he thinks i'm 18. So do i tell him my true age and ...

Is it ok to send her a surprise gift while she's at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey there people I am friends with a girl on facebook whom I really like. I am sure she likes me as well as we often exchanges playful messages on facebook. I however don't have her number yet. She recently updated her work information and...

Should we tell our good friend that we saw her new husband on an online dating website?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am in a group of 8 women that travel and play a sport together. We have known each other a very long time and are good friends. One of my friends divorced her husband of 25 years to be with another man. This man had been single ...

I used fake pics online & met a girl. I want to tell her the truth, but I'm scared. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I recently met a fantastic woman over the net but i made the stupid mistake of using someone elses (who looks like me a bit) pics as im a little insecure on how i look! we chatted over the phone for 4 months and we've been talking about seeing each ...

He had a way out but didn't end it and I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I am so confused about a relatonship that I recently got into. I met a guy on an online dating site in September. I was really taken with him he swept me off my feet and was so romantic we spent about three days a week together and we start...

Girlfriend thinks I am too nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hello, theres a girl i know from the internet and I've got a problem now. Well, I know her for 3 months now and i felt in love with her. We have often contact through chat, skype and webcam. Anyway we're in a relationship now and now she asked me...

I have never asked him because I don't have the guts, but do you think he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - met this online guy around an year back and since den we have been chatting nonstep as in nonstop but the thing is now he is moving to another country for studies he says he will never forget me , he says me trying to stop him makes him cry he says ...

Our relationship has changed since he wants me to come be with him, not the other way around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, So here's my story.. I met my boyfriend online about a year ago. Ever since I met him, I felt the spark in him though we never met in person because we live at the different side of the world. I knew him from the picture he sent me. ...

I like two guys, but I need help choosing the right one. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'm so confused. I met a guy on an online dating site. We exchanged numbers and have been texting... he lives about 2 hours drive from me and we haven't met up yet. Recently, I met another boy who I do like. However, the other day, the boy I met ...

Facebook use by my husband is destroying our marriage. What can I do to fix this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I found out a week ago that my husband of 16 years has been comunicating with Facebook Poker young women, that look, well..."slutty", he doesn't know them, in fact, some are not even American. Some of the things that I saw that he wrote to these ...

We text, and I've told her I love her. But how do I escalate it to a face to face relationship? What do I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I have fallen in love with a girl, I'm always sending her text messages telling her that I love her, but I don't have the courage to tell her face to face. how can I tell her and what should I say? ...

I don't feel his erection through his pants, does this mean he is really small?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have recently met this guy online whom I like quite a lot. I wouldn't say I am in love with him since we have only been on four dates but we have reasonable chemistry and get along otherwise. We have made out twice already, pants on but I don't ...

I was supposed to be visiting him for the first time, but he doesn't seem to want to include me in his birthday celebrations!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have been talking to a guy online for the last 18 months on a regular basis. I haven't met him as yet but was going to visit him in March this year on his birthday which I mentioned to him about a month ago. Yesterday he said I could stay with him ...

Confused about my feelings and his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - hi ok i met this guy online a while back wen i was away and we chatted alot had a lot in common and then when i came back we met and hang out loads and basically the relationship was great it still is, we both wanted a non comitted relationship and ...

I stripped for him on webcam and now I'm worried about what he'll do with the video!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I met a person on an online dating site. I never join such sites but I don't know why I joined it, maybe just for deleting it the next day. I didn't even fill my profile at all. I was contacted by some guy who appeared good and decent. I replied him ...

I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to eac...

Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has ...

Why would he now act distant after showing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused...recently met this guy offline and we met once, had one excellent connection and have been writing and texting daily..We live about 200 miles apart. He came on very strong and showed great interest, we also have such a ment...

How will I know if he's serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi! okay here I go--- For the past 6 months I met a man online, we've lasted for 2 months,and after that unreasonably he stop connecting me, well I understand it so well that maybe he found another woman, I am openminded lady and can ...

Could I really be that off about how the date went? Title

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - So last night I had a date with a guy I met on a dating site a few days ago. He's the one who actually contacted me first and after quite a few emails we decided to meet for drinks. I thought the date went well and I found him attractive despite the ...

Are we going to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hello Agony Aunts! I am driving myself mental and need some advice. There is a particular girl I am interested in, we have been chatting, seemingly having fun (its still online only so I can't tell body language), but I am sick of just having ...

Is my online friend more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I'll try to be succinct! I'm learning Italian and I met an italian online many months ago through a Language Exchange Website who wanted to improve his english, so we have been engaged in a 'tandem' language exchange since the end of september...

Is he sincere with me? Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - i am on date with a guy thought by dating internet, we both keep on touch around 2 years, but we never meet in real, 2 years before, he plan visit me, wanted to meet in real to start a relationship with me, but the time I am not yet ready ...

His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when ...

Online dating and lots of space inbetween communicating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been online dating this guy for a few years now (we haven't met yet but we plan on it). Anyways i think i'm being insecure (even though i never have been insecure about anything in my life other than my looks). But i have this gut feeling...

I'm scared he won't go out with me if he knows my real age!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - Ok....... I need some help... I am a gay guy and have started taklking to this guy online, who I am really interested in, but theirs a couple of issues. To get on these websites I've lied about my age, I'm 17 but I say I'm 18 to get on these web...

If they've lost interest then why don't they just say so?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - About a year ago I met someone online. We seemed to hit it off immediately and, after a few months, I travelled at a fair amount of expense to meet up (it's relatively long distance). However, since then contact from this person has become ...

Her family don't want us in contact after we texted. I'm wondering how I should address this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. They say she has memory problems, which she does ...

He still checks an online dating site, I wonder if I am being played

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I met a man on a dating site, we have been dating a little over a month. I really like him and he said he really likes me too. He brought up deleting our accounts, I deleting mine, he said he can't figure out how to delete his. He said he is not ...

Is she losing interest in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I have a question I love this girl to death, and she loves me to, altleast I think I think she has lost intrest in me or is having troubles. because she's acting completly different. she used to tell me that she loved me and gave full on sent...