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female
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30-35,
*aria rubi
writes:Hi!okay here I go--- For the past 6 months I met a man online, we've lasted for 2 months,and after that unreasonably he stop connecting me, well I understand it so well that maybe he found another woman, I am openminded lady and can understand things, but this man is so much different from other man i met online, once i told my friend, he's gonna be my man, I don't know if I'm insane but when he suddenly left me, I cried out, I feel that I lost a precious gem. After 3 months I'm still longing for him, when I opened my e-mail full of sorry apology, and ask me for my forgiveness, because of being longing to him I accept him again. We are planning to meet each other this year and enjoy the moments together, but I must go there in his country, because he can't leave his office and i understand it, but my parents would'nt allow me. what shall we do?and is he serious? and how will i know if he is serious too?thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Hi ok well first off just remember that having an online relationship sometimes is not always honest. He could be anybody and the interent makes it so much easier for people to pretend to be somebody they are not. Have you spoke to him via webcam so that you can actually see him? There are so many risks from the internet and so many people can lie so easily through it that am afraid there is no way for you to find out if this man is genuine or not. Some people are very good at playing a game.
I guess your parents are just worried about you going to another country to meet a man that you dont personally know. I can see there point. If he really wanted to meet you and get to know you then he would need to make some effort as well and meet you half way. But first if you want to ease your parents worries then ask him to have a web chat with you and your parents and let them have a chance to see him. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Hi there..
We are have same kind of relationship. I have a boyfriend that i met 1.5 years ago. And our relationshp is 1 year already.
If you ask is your boyfriend serious or not, that's difficult question.. But in my opinion, if he loves you trully, he will come to your country..
He will sacrifice some of his days for meeting his princess..
And because we are in same position, i will tell you about my boyfriend.
He lives in india while i live in indonesia. We always keep in touch everyday. We talk on phone or video call.
I also don't know is he serious or not. But till now he has proved it enough.
He introduced me to his big family and friends through video call. He even gave his mom's phone number.
Everytime we gt fight, i always talk to his mom. His family know about me already..
And so do i. I introduced him to my family. He also usually talk to my brother if we have some problems.
Last month also sent me a cute doll and beautiful ring..
And next may on my birthday he will come to indonesia..
I don't know about your condition there.. I just shared my story because i hope it will help you..
Good luck.. :)
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