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writes:Hey there peopleI am friends with a girl on facebook whom I really like. I am sure she likes me as well as we often exchanges playful messages on facebook. I however don't have her number yet.She recently updated her work information and I know the place where she works. I bought her a scented candle and a small card and want to send it to her workplace as a surprise gift, just like that.Will she like it? Is it a good idea? I am a person who does things on impulse and would have done this already but I really don't want to screw up things with this girl.Any thoughts please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): well, I am the one who originally asked the question here. I sent the gift and there was not even an acknowledgment from her.
I guess the lesson learned here is that don't jump the gun like I did :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): Hey, I am actually the person who asked the question here. I wanted to say that I have already met her in person. She also knows that I spent a lot of time looking for her on facebook as I told her about it openly. I actually told her that it took me a few days to search through to facebook to find her.
So, I don't think the creep issue is going to be that much of a problem.
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (25 January 2011):
Naahhh. Bad idea. That's too much, too soon. Take her out a couple of times before you start doing that sort of thing.
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