His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!

A female age 30-35, *ostinconfusion writes:

so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when he asked me out one day i was a bit shocked, id been crushing on him from the day he added me. after we started dating we didnt meet even once, whenever id bring up the topic about meeting up he would say he was busy or would just change the topic alltogether. we still chatted online everyday and talked on the phone alot. all thru this relation, he was mean and demanding, he had terrible mood swings and would only talk whe he felt like still i would agree to everything he said, cause i loved him..he made me feel complete. when he felt low, whether day or late night, he would call me and i would answer and we'd talk for hours. then it started to get worse, he didnt call on my birthday, he sent me a text though. the next time i talked to him, he was just returning from a party, drunk, and he said he desperately needed to meet me. i told him i would meet him after i was done with my extra class and we agreed. i turned up just ten minutes late and he told me that i was not ready for a relationship and that we should end it. somehow i got him to forgive me and we went on to spend our day together. that day he told me i was the most important person to him and the sweetest girlfriend he had ever had. he made me feel special that day. three days after we finally met, he stopped calling, replying to my text, or sending me text. when i asked him why he said he needed time alone cause he was disturbed and busy. i still sent him text everyday, but no reply. i sent him a really long mail online asking him how he was and telling him how i felt. he sent me a text telling me to stop sending him text till he called or texted me first and then he blocked me on facebook.its been 3 months now. im broken and i miss him so much!! i cry everyday thinking about what went wrong and about the day we last met. i really love this guy. he seems to be happy from what ive heard from friends about his facebook updates. why doesnt he just call me? or if he doesnt want to be together cant he just let me know? i tried forgetting about him but i think its nearly impossible considering how we knew everything about eachother. please help me, what do you'll think went wrong? do you'll think i should wait for him to call? thanks in advance.

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