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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spi...

Did he want to break up with me? Why not just tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I was in a casual relationship during the last seven months. He was so happy with me and always caring. It was a long distance relationship and we knew from the beginning we cannot have something serious. I have feelings for me and i thought...

I trusted him completely and all he wanted was sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello All~Thank You beforehand for taking the time to view and possibly extend me a bit of advice. I befriended an individual on an online dating site who I had come to trust at the highest level that I had ever trusted. With tour very first conve...

I need my willpower back so I don't reply to him online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - Hi, recently i've finally come to the conclusion that having a certain person in my life is not a good idea anymore. I wish i could change that, believe me but i know i just have accept that it's not going to work. A little info: this guy i...

Online guy wants a serious relationship and we have never met

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Iam 27 years old TS woman from the Philippines. I have a premanent job working in a big American company here and I can say I am ok financially and I am presentable. I met this Aussie guy online and he said he wanted to have a serious and exclusive ...

How can I tell if my online friend is the right guy for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - he is my online frnd from past 6months...v both love each other.i had bad past relationship experince...so dis time i want to be cautious .suggest me some ways to check dat dis is d rgt man of my life..n loves me...v both r working...talk online ...

I'm 26 and have never been in a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - The title basically says it all. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 26 and never been in a relationship. The closest I have ever been to being in a relationship was a two year thing I had with someone over the internet. I found her on a ...

Is he just being sweet with me to get a leg over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, Ive met this really nice guy over plenty of fish we speak on the phone everyday have done for around maybe 2 months or coming up 2 it but weve never met but seem to get on he goes on about moving in and stuff and already ...

Facebook lie has gotten out of hand

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He ...

How do I find a foreplay/fetish partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a fetish for cotton, namely cotton petticoats/underskirts. I also like foreplay and doing it partially dressed...I'm not interested in intercourse. I've been attempting to look for a partner to share my desires with, but almost ever...

Why can't I find a girlfriend? I'm tired of being so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Well alright...here goes! I'm a 19 year old Asian American. Throughout my childhood, I have had my string of girls that had a crush on me but I had followed my parent's strict code of "no girlfriend before college" and just sat idly as those girls ...

Sexy chatters don't know they are neighbours who don't speak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Is very strange but its truth one of my friend from 2months chatting with a girl he'll ask her everything about sex dirty talk everything and she didn't see his face and never know him even she know he's stranger also ready to have sex with him but ...

Hopelessly single! Should I call my long distance interest instead of texting him as I'm in his town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I live in a small town where dating is a bit of a challenge. The population of decent single men is pretty limited. So I decided to take a risk and try a popular online dating website. I began emailing a guy who is pretty great. We then exchanged ...

Will I remind him of his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - we have been bbm the whole entire time and been sending pics. i do know what he looks like with all the new skype things and stuff like that. he was married for 10 years and separated early this yr. i really do like him (by that i mean with his ...

I am scared to meet him because I might fall in love and then have my heart broken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I met this really great guy online. we have been dating for three months now. i am eight months older than him. i am 15 and he is 14 at the moment. i love him and we want to meet face to face when i turn 16 but we fight so much i am scared of ...

He is checking up on me online, that must mean he misses me ... right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - My lover decided to end our relationship because we were having arguments etc,although we still love each other.I did email him to apologise for the rows and that i would leave him alone...that was a week ago.Anyway he hasn't contacted me but he has ...

He always has excuses why he can't come see me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Ok so I have been dating this American guy for about 6 months now and he promised me he would come to see me on halloween but he said he can't come anymore because he just had a car accident and needs to go to a court and if he doesn't he will have ...

Love on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I love a girl on facebook, I have never meet her. She is away from me. I tried to tell her that I love her but she always say "Please don't kid at me" How can I tell her that I love her very much...

Should I meet online guy in Cabo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I meet my online bf in august 1st we've emailed, called, you now the thing is that right now i'm in mexico finishing college (senior yr) and he lives in cali. he was in cabo and i wanted to meet him the day he left in mexico city just you know get ...

What if we like each other and then cant afford to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - A while ago I met someone online who told me that he liked me about a month ago. I know to be careful on the Internet as people may not be who they say they are, but given the site I met him on, as well as seeing photos and talking through Skype, he ...

Chatting a year online, does he love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - im women from philliphines, 23 years old,im chatting a guy from georgia, we know each other for a year in chat, and i fall inlove with him...he always teling me that he love me..what is the posible sign that he really love me? how can i know that he ...

Help, my girlfriend may not love me! Suspicious things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...

I am 15, want to be with 24 year old online guy and feel depressed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am 15 yrs old. i am in love with a guy he is 24 we met online...i hate my life no one loves me i don't have any friends i am always depressed my parents hate each other my dad is having affair...i can't talk about my problems with my mom bcoz she ...

I don't know if I should tell my parents I am meeting my online friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a chat room and after 2 months of talking I found out that he was different to other guys on it. I added him on msn as I do to some other people. It was quite a shock when everyone else who I added on the chat room to msn wanted me ...

Since we had sex I have heard nothing from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 20 year old with little dating experience and very very confused! Please help! I met a seemingly great guy, Steve, online. We messaged for five months and eventually met offline. I felt we had a really strong connection and would get along ...

How do I know? What Should I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - ok i met my boyfriend on myspace... we fell in love over the internet and became very very close! after about 5 months of that i moved down to texas to be with him.. and we have a great relationship, good sex, very open and we both love each other ...

Afraid that he'll run again -- how to play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I meet a guy a week and half ago on a dating site. in his profile he said he is looking for long term have a family etc . so we went out and after that he was all over me, sending cute text msgs, hanging out every other day saying how pretty i was ...

Should I try to move over there or just forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Ok so I met this guy online around 2 and a half years ago and for the first few months we talked every day (some days for hours some days not very much) but as friends. He was just someone cool to talk to and chill with, nothing more and I wasnt ...

How I can make her mine???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - Hi Cupid, My question is that i recently met a girl on a dating site we have had a good time together, she lives about 2hrs from me,we have seen each other 3 time and I've been making the drive to see her as she is recovering from a broken leg. We...

I didn't tell my online guy that I had a daughter till after we met, now he won't talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy online he was in iraq at the time.I never belived in dating sites before,it was my first time chatting with someone oline we start chatting and he was so sweet the more we chat the more I liked him,on one of our chats he asked me if I ...

I worry that I'm forcing myself on my online friend of 7 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I've had a friend for about 7 years now, we have never met in real life, and we have been through a lot. Mainly because of me being somewhat of a liar when I was younger and I felt that I was too ugly to be with anyone so I used a fake ...

My ex wants me after I moved on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - 3 years ago now i fell totally head over heels for a guy i met. We instantly clicked and had a lot of positive energy to the poitn where at times we we're inseperable. We had the same hobbies, interests and goals in life and i was smitten. After ...

Do I need to clarify or just let it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - Today i was talking to a girl that i like via email. We were exchanging notes for close to four hours. We got into a conversation about a friend of hers who loves to talk about her ex husband on facebook. we both think its funny. but then she said ...

Is it over? Have I been played?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed ...

Since he dumped me he stalks my facebook page

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I need big help. I met a charming fellow on a dating site a year ago and it seemed we really hit it off but there was something about him that didn't sit quite well. One week he aadored me and the next he would unexplainedly treat me like crap and ...

Should I believe him about this online dating account?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I feel like I'm being stupid about this, but the other day I found out my boyfriend signed up for fling.com. He says he thought it was just an adult site where he could look at pictures, but it clearly is a place to find a fling. I questioned him ...

I am fed up of doing all the chasing with her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - i have been seeing this lovely woman whom i met on a date site, i like her a lot although we dont see each other much she lives 15 miles from me. when we do meet i always treat her nice ie meals etc however my problem is she will not get in touch ...

Will losing my virginity hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks who I met online. He's really nice and everything, and I want to sleep with him. The thing is, I'm a virgin, but havnt told him. All I want to know is will it hurt? I do masturbate which I hope helps me...

Facebook is becoming a problem between me and my husband! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for almost seven years we've been married for almost 2 . Here lately he's been on facebook a lot and it's really starting to bother me he adds women he claims he doesn't know and comments on their posts one woman ...

This new guy online has me questioning my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and we had until recently a great relationship we have a 3 year old son and live together.we have always had a passionate relationship however he has hit me twice(drunk both times)and recently we ...

I need some advice for online dating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I'm interested in online dating, and want some advice as to how to go about it. Frankly, I am a novice to dating in general and would like some advice. Also, please don't post answers saying NOT to do online dating. ...

Should I explain to him or call it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - hey, every boy i met it doesnt go any further then dating and once it begins to get serious they get out as fast as they can. so i have decided to try a online dating site and met this boy i do like. i have gave him my number and we have been ...

Boyfriend is cheating on-line, but I still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am really at a loss as what to do. My boyfriend has been very distant to me these last 3 months. We broke up for a couple of weeks about 5 months ago (my instigation because he was being unsympathetic to me while I was miscarring our b...

Am I being spun a line online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I have recently met a man via a dating site (something I am not proud of and feel rather ashamed by). We have exchanged phone numbers and emails and seem to get on pretty well. However, recently his words have got more flirtatious and ...

Me and the guy I got a crush for ended up talking as strangers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - hey guys. this question is about a guy I met online 8-9 months ago. We live in different countries,and it all started off as someone i'd enjoy talking to. We would flirt ocassionaly,and he would some nice things that were special (considering we ...

After 1 week online guy wants to meet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi Guys. My first day here. OK here it is.... I met a guy online who ive been talking to for one week,not long i know but, for some reason i really like him and my feelings grow by the day. He says he likes me too, but wants to meet before dec...

Why did my ex send me a link, then not respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi All, I havew a question. I have recently split with my BF, and not contacted him at all for 6/7 days. Why did he send me a link to a search engine / toolbar thing on IM on the 6th day of my no contact? then when I responded with ' Thanks' ...

Teenage crisis, I fell in love with a guy online who tells me how much he wants me sexually, really confused, please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - hi, so i know someone online, i met him through a friend and hes generally a nice guy, and i love him really, but i dont know if i should let this carry on? he loves me too. but the thing is, hes 22 and im 6 years younger than him. and when he talk...

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

We've been out twice, we talk everyday non-stop, but does he like me the way I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's...