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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Problems with my step-children; am I in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) - My step kids are 37 -34 one is a female and one is a male The daughter was marred and has a child she is now divorce. And the son was marred and divorce and now re marred and expending there first child ... I have three girls 37-34-30 They all...

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

Why am I not married yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - While I wait and hoping to marry someday, as to I'm in my mid 30's, seems have decline. Next thing I knew, everyone asked, why am I not married?? I want to tell them, I'm ugly, miserable bitch that nobody want. All I could said, I don't have the ...

Did she only marry me because she got pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I have been in love with this young woman for 2 years. We had been schooling in a local college training as P1 teachers.Accidentally in one of our happy moments she concieved while in college but since we were near to graduate and l loved her l ...

Will my husband ever move back in with me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My husband is happy to live seperate from me and the two kids and just pop in and stay a couple of nights a week and chat for 5 minutes on phone per night.... Am I crazy to think he will ever come back after living the life of a batchelor. And week...

What do you do when you want to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am very confused, please help. What do you do when you find yourself in a situation whereby you feel you have to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse? I feel we should work on our issues, go through ...

What do married men think of women who are friends with his wife, but flirts with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife? ...

Riddled with guilt, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a 35 year old woman married for 3 years now. I had a lapse of judgement a few months ago and had an affair with a man in the town that I live in. I saw this man for three months and we were very sexually active. I broke it off after I thought ...

Husband is a good hard worker, but, he drinks a lot! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi I need some advice I been married for almost three years, we have 2 kids. My husband is a good hard working dad, but also drinks a lot I try to tell him not to drink so much but he always tells me I exaggerate. He never likes to talk about our ...

Married and yet falling in love with my mistress....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I have been, I guess, just looking for someone I could talk to who might have experienced what I am going through. I have been married for 6 years. I always thought I was happily married, but I think I have just been content and maybe we are just...

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...

Can't forget about wife's past lovers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Before my wife and I were married she was close friends with my sisters and I would occasionally meet her with her boyfriends or hear stories through my sisters. I personally met three of her ex-boyfriends. She also had a brief couple night stand ...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...

He makes me feel like a good wife and friend, but not like an attractive woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I've talked about this once before here, and if it's a complete repeat, I apologize. My husband is good about expressing his appreciation for things that I do around the house or for him. He talks to me about work things, etc. We have conversa...

I need to stay strong for my family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Back again. I have bored everyone with mt tales before of my Husband who cheated lied was not good with my kids he had started to get better on some things not on others when he came out with kids and i he still lookedlike it was a chore. A week ...

Husband texting his ex personal info on facebook, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - My husband and I will be married 15 years tomorrow. We have three beautiful children together and are expecting our fourth this summer. Today, he received a friend request from a girl he used to date in high school on Facebook. He once told me that ...

Is no sexual attraction to husband a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Can you guys tell me what you think...Is not being sexually attracted to your husband a deal breaker in a marriage? We have been together 14 years and have children. There was a spark and chemistry between us when we first met and into the first ...

It makes me sick to think about my husband going on a work trip with a female co-worker. How do I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I hate being jealous, but I don't know how to change! I absolutely admire people who never get jealous. How do they do it? My husband will be traveling out of town next month with a female co-worker and I'm trying to be cool about it, but it is ...

My husband flirts with other women, and it makes me feel terrible. How can I get the strength to leave this miserable marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I'm thinking of leaving my husband. We've been together for nearly 7 years and dated for 5 years before that, but I feel like my life revolves around him. My husband loves women, and the more attention he gives them, the less I feel about my...

Husband cheated with multiple women...I am struggling and need input.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I found out almost 2 years ago my husband was on internet dating sites behind my back for 6 years and met with some of the women for sex. I am having a difficult time still trying to get past this. I've been to marriage counselling, personal ...

Should I continue to sleep in the same bed as my soon to be ex wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - My wife of 25 years notified me several months ago, that she doesnt love me anymore and wants a divorce. We went to marriage counseling for a few months, and she told me yesterday, the counseling hasn't worked, and she still wants to divorce me. ...

I've found out my husband has been having affairs for years, so many questions..........

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hi I have a few questions i would like your views on so please take the time and reply ty. A little about my situation. Iv been with my h/b for 32 yrs married for 22yrs every 1 thought we were the perfect couple until 3 yrs ago i found out that...

I love him but I feel like I am being used......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I met my husband in online dating website we were married 5 years and 4 years living together.since, we live together his friend introduce him an online game since then he get really addicted.I thought at first it was okay but then he stopped ...

We have grown apart and want different things......should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - ive been married for almost two years and we have been together 4 years. we have a daughter together he wants more i dont right NOW. IM 22 hes 38. we dont get along anymore and have different wants and needs! we have grew apart! I dont have a job or ...

3 months ago I hadn’t looked at another women in 14 years, now all of a sudden we are planning on leaving our respective partners for each other!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hi, so this is my story…been married 14 years, have two boys aged 12 and a daughter from wife’s previous relationship aged 20. I thought everything was fine and loved my wife until a couple of months ago, and I am now so confused. I met a girl 2 y...

Should I attempt to get my ex back, even though he's married and I was the one who left him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I left my ex husband/bf (we lived together as husband and wife for 7yrs but we weren't married)for another guy just because I got bored with the relationship. He was totally heartbroken when I left. We were eachother's first true love. I met him ...

I have feelings for a former flame, but I can't leave my wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - My screen name describes me, i really do feel like an asshole. I married my wife when i was 19 before i joined the military. Before we got married things were great. We only knew each other for 4 months before we married. When i went to bootcamp...

How can I regain self confidence so she'll be excited by me like she used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been having issues in the bedroom, she's "not sexually excited" by me anymore. We discussed the idea of sleeping with other people on a trial basis to see if we liked it. We both love and trust each other very much and so we ...

Husband blocked me on facebook because he was talking to another woman about having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I have been married for 10 years. I thought all was great, until I got a facebook acct. I wanted to put all my info in there, but to my surprise, I couldnt list my husband, because he has me blocked. When I confronted him he said he did it a ...

Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...

Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a ...

Why does she persist with this behaviour when she knows it is a conflict trigger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - What is my wife's game? Hi myself and my wife have been married for 3 turbulent years now. After numerous bust-ups I moved out on new year's eve but am still in daily contact to help out with our 2 children. In the past when we have rowed my wife ...

Should I get divorced or revamp my married life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I m a 28 year old female, tall, fair and good looking. Right from my school days I have been into various relationships, college, and at work been involved with various men emotionally and physically with almost al of them. May of them were affairs ...

I love my husband but want to keep the friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - i have a vvery good male friend which ive known for 27years. since met and married my husband i have been banned from any form of contact with him. it hurts me so much and i do miss speaking to him. my husband is worried that there will be mo...

I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a ...

My husband doesn't show affection and only lets me contact people he chooses

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - i have known my husband for three years and married just one year. i am entrily fed up of my situation. he used to be romantic and take the time to please me. but now he nearly speaks to me. i am a stay at home housewife. i do everything for h...

Getting over forbidden fantasies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I am married. My relationship with my husband is comfortable. Almost too comfortable. We only have sexual contact a couple times a year. We never fight about anything and have a very strong platonic relationship. People who don't know us think ...

Husband agreed to counseling until I made the appointment. Then he backed out...help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I found out that my husband has been on sex webcams and been getting erotic massages and spent over $200 in 8 days. I confronted him and to my supprise he did not deny it or blame me and agreed to go to counseling. Well I made the appointment and ...

Husbands going to the clubs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I've been married to this guy for 3 years and he doesn't want to work. We have three kids together and I have a daughter thats not his. I've lost my job and he claims he's working selling cds form sun up to late at night. He's also trying to be in ...

My wife won't let me move on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - My wife and I separated 3 years ago when our son was 2. She was caught cheating and I left our home. Almost a year ago I met a woman who took my breath away. She was in the process of divorce and we became best friends. 4 months later our ...

My wife cheated on me 2 days ago, would you agree?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - It hurts so much to write this right now. I never imagined being even remotely close to cheated on but from the investigating I've done, the mere thought appears to be the inevitable... I've been with my wife for 9 years. She's 26 and I'm 30. ...

My wife who is separated from me is now engaged to her ex...while we're technically still married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Well my wife and I been seperated for 8 months now. I still love her with all my heart. We have 1 child together which is 3 years old. Just recently she anounced that she is engaged to her x boyfriend that she dated twice in the past. The problem is ...

Married six month and already the marriage is crashing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I'm 21 my husband is 26 and we have been together for 4 years and married 6 months before we were married we went out had fun and enjoyed eachothers company. After being married he doesn't talk much he doesn't go out and we don't have sex like we ...

I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a family again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I've been in love with my xwife for over 3 years. We are divorced. When I try to come forward she says Im crazy or scewed up. she wants nothing with me. We have a child of 3 years old together. I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a ...

My husband hasn't had sex with me since getting our genitals pierced recently. He stills masturbates and I feel unwanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My husband and I got our genitals pierced 3 weeks ago. He says that he is too sore to make love to me, but he will go and masturbate in the bathroom 4 times a day. We used to make love 5 to 6 times a day before the piercings. I miss him so much, but ...

My husband's masturbation problems...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My husband has had an issue with playing with him-self at work and outside the house. Mostly at his place of work. He worked alone at night in a gym setting and got busted and didn't know it and they fired him. I asked him why and he says he does ...

My insecruities and imagination are ruining not only our marriage but me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - MY husband and I have been together since we were both seniors in high school. We got married after graduation. We both have jobs, great friends, 3 wonderful children (5 years, 3 years and 3 months). Our relationship has always been great. BUT now ...

Should I tell my 9-year-old daughter that my wife and I are separating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - My wife and I are going through a separation after 26 years together. We have a 9-years-old daughter. Should we tell her the truth now? I have been transferred to another town for work for more than a year and during this time I went home to see my ...

My wife is blaming her unhappiness on me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Okay, so I've been married for 27 years. We have 3 children, all now over 20. I've come to the conclusion that my wife's low self esteem - even pure dislike of herself, makes her take out her disdain on me. She is never happy. And it's not abo...

My husband has been leading a double life, he promised he would go to counseling but is it just another lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I recently found out my husband has been leading a double life. We have been together for 7 years. Married just 2 1/2 months. He has had a girlfriend for the past 3 1/2 years. He was a co-worker with her. She did know about me, but he said I had ...