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writes: My step kids are 37 -34 one is a female and one is a male The daughter was marred and has a child she is now divorce.And the son was marred and divorce and now re marred and expending there first child ...I have three girls 37-34-30They all have there own family too ..I am not the best speller in this rule world ...I found my husband on face book ...we went to school together...1965 1972 he like me and i like him but never told each other .. Went on with our life got marred and had children got divorce date other .. one day got a computer 2008 and when on face book and look him up , and found him .dec 4 2008 .. We talk and i meant with him talk some more sun up to sun down He ask me to move to alabama with him ...so i said sure i still had my house in michigan just in case it didnt work out for us we are on the road we are trucker and get a long very well we enjoy each other .. Well now to go on with the story i was getting a long great with his kids . Made dinner for them every time we were home . His son went to michigan where i from and meant my oldest daughter and her family had dinner stay the night there with us then went on with there life ...well him and his girl got marred and move to pa.2010 at there wedding they where going to have family picture taken ..now at this time my husband and i where not marred yet but they knew that we where going to get marred soon ..well i was ask to stay out of the family picture..so i did ...then we got marred july 31 2010 and didn't tell anyone about it because when we ask them about coming to it they all had a reason not to come , we when on our own and did it not telling anyone about what we were doing..Well on face book my husband chang his face book to marred .Well we got a call from his son saying that it was nice that he had to fine our on face book that his dad got marred the week end then it was even more funner that his ex wife wrote on face book that it is pretty bad that he cough not tell his kids that he was getting marred...well my come back was i did not know we had to ask our kids if we could get marred ,i am over 18 and white and single ... Then christmas came and we went to the daughter house and had christmas with the family and ex wife ,went good Then one day the daughter wanted to talk to her dad about this land that he got when his mother pass she live on it and wanted it in her name Like now ,so she could build a house on it and was telling her dad that if he didn't do it she would move off it and never come back to that land again ...well he never did any thing about that a few months went by and she call her dad and tell him it would be cheaper for her to buy a house then to build ,and he said yes that would be right with the price of house today ..so she bought a house and move well the place that she live in was a trailer that her mother bought for her and she was moving out and her mom wanted to sale it but it sit on the land that my husband own .. So she told the daughter to ask us if we would like to buy it ? Well we talk about it and said sure how much dose she want for it ? Well they came back with this price way to high for what year it was and the daughter was taking the appliances when she move ... I said no then i said ok on payment .. Then the ex wife said no cash only ...well who is she think she is it on our land and i said then move it off the land ...well the daughter wanted to know if they could leave it there to sale ,i said no but she talk some shit to her dad and yes it sat there for 2 month .. Not even thank you kiss my ass nothing ... Well one day i was on face book and wrote on my page about alabama people how they cant drive when it snows well the daughter jump my rear about what i said and got so mad at me i just laugh at her i told her i did nt say anyone name there nor was i talking about her or any one that she know ,Then i wrote on the daughter law face book and i got told the if i did nt Know how to spell hie wife name that i should ask his dad how to spell .i went back to see how i spell her name and no it was spell right just not the way he spell it ...oh please god help me .. Some time went by had christmas again with his kids and now mine you i have three girls and there kids too..but the daughter has such fit that her daughter should have christmas with her papa ...please so this next christmas i am going to michigan ...and every time the son come home to alabama we have to come to alabama ..see we are trucker always on the road ..and we have to stop every thing just to see him for 1/2 hour ..then i wrote on the daughter face book again and the ex wife wrote under my note and said should i check her spelling and english well that just piss me off ...so on my face book i wrote if i was in alabama i would be taking care of thing ....and what i meant was that she works for the school supernatant i would let them know how she makes fun of other with a hand cap ...so the son got mad at me the daughter got mad and now i am the bad one again ... I cant say amy thing about any one nor any thing about where they live ,then the daughter was having a birthday party for her daughter wanted my husband to come to it so home we went again . Went there after the little kids left and the grand daughter was not there and she look at me and said and you i do nt want to even talk to you i just laugh at her .. I did not a thing wrong but she piss because i was going to take care of thing with her mother to bad so sad i have had all i cant take now the daughter law is having a baby shower and i sent her a rocker it cost me 190.00 she call me tree day in a row to see when it would be there and her shower is this sunday and i was not even ask to come.. Nor has she even said thank you to me nor my husband and the grand daughter did nt even call us to say thank you for her gift ether it is all about give me give me its like we own them our life my kids never want a thing because they know it is ruff today and we need to pay our bills not buy there love what would you do in this case? Please if you think i am wrong please tell me ... thank you for r
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Hold your ground. You are not wrong. And it's real good you have a sense of humor about all these people around you. I wish you all the best! Stand your ground.
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