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anonymous
writes:I've been in love with my xwife for over 3 years. We are divorced. When I try to come forward she says Im crazy or scewed up. she wants nothing with me. We have a child of 3 years old together. I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a family again. She is single but thinks of me a complete trash. I never beat her, have a job that pays child support, and try to be her friend. She wants nothing more than texts and info about pic ups, drop offs, and money. She is rude and mean to me always but I still love the woman. When I try to get closer and help her..She uses me to be single. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): Why did u divorce?Why doesn't she want anything to do with you?Are u certain she doesn't have another man and you just do not know it?What has made her 'hate' you?Too many unanswered questions.Too many gaps here.LoveGirl
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reader, chocoholicforever +, writes (21 February 2011):
You need to move on. You are divorced and she wants nothing to do with you, for whatever reason. Not to judge you since I don't know you, but you may not have ever beat her but you probably did do something really bad to hurt her in the past to make her really not want anything to do with you. Whatever it is, it would be much healthier for you to move on.
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reader, TexasTexas +, writes (21 February 2011):
She is not into you right now. You didn't explain why you divorced or provide any details, so it's hard to read into this situation. Why does she think your trashy? Are you well-groomed? Dress nice? Is your vehicle clean? Are you educated? Do you intellectually stimulate her? Is your home clean? Do you have interesting hobbies? Did you take her to do partner-type activities or did you spend a few years drinking beer and watching TV?Why are you chasing a woman who is clearly not interested in you? That makes you appear desperate and weak...which is very unattractive.My advice is for you to stop chasing her IMMEDIATELY. Pay your child support, be respectful to her, and be a good daddy. Dress nicer, do NOT be available when she calls, and get yourself involved in activities that will put you around women. Take cooking classes, join a running club, plant flowers in your yard (she'll think you are trying to impress another woman).Good luck :)
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reader, Thisdizzle +, writes (21 February 2011):
Don't fool yourself; it's over. It has litterally been made official (through divorce). Time wasted on her is time not finding somebody you can be happy with. Move on, start anew.
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Respect her wishes and move on. She feels you’re crazy because you’re acting crazy! Only crazy people want someone who wants nothing to do with them. Ijs!
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