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writes:My husband has had an issue with playing with him-self at work and outside the house. Mostly at his place of work. He worked alone at night in a gym setting and got busted and didn't know it and they fired him. I asked him why and he says he does not know. Now is he just stupid or what. He knows right and wrong. He has me at home and loves me but I told him he had to go to see someone and talk about what this problem is,that he cant stop fiddling around with himself and its driving me nuts. He does not drink nor do drugs and I just don't get it. He says when he did this he was thinking of me. Well if that is true he would not have done it cause now he has no job. They kept it hush hush so he can get unemployment.
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reader, L.Snyder +, writes (23 February 2011):
L.Snyder is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy husband is getting help,he has just started.I have asked him and he why and told him what could have happened and he knows this could have been very bad.He is a little slow in mind but not retarted.He is good looking man.I have known that he has had problems in life but why would he do this.The biggest thing is that he lied and swore that it was a bunch of crap.I love him and he does not cheat,but he lied and that is what bothers me the most.
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reader, L.Snyder +, writes (22 February 2011):
L.Snyder is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree with the answers and he is getting help.I gave no choice.I guess he doesnt know right and wrong.I just cant wrap my mind around this.He will not tell me anything about why.I wrote his counsler a letter to let him know what I think.He gave it to him and I got no answer.I need to know something.I love him and cant just give up.But what the hell is wrong with him and why,why,why.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 He knows right and wrong... odd statement when he has so clearly demonstrated that he does not.
Which leads to the question, how is his general common sense? And please answer it a bit more realistically. Some people just never learned the difference between what happens behind and in front of closed doors.
Please note that he got lucky. He works at a gym? Say it had been a kid who walked in on him. BAM, child molestation charges and registered as a sex-offender.
Professional help is definitely called for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): This is not normal behavior and he needs to get treatment to help him to stop doing this.
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