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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where ...

Why doesn't my husband want any children??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have 2 children although only one is biologically his. we have currently come across a problem. when i bring up the subject of another child, he says he doesnt want anymore. he knows that this ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - My husband of 7 years started using drugs again. I truly love him but with his recent actions I am torn-what should I do stay with him and help him through this and hope for the real him to come back? He tells me to leave but I know its just the ...

Is my marriage over already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I'm 22 and married for over 1 year now and been happy through out. Of course in life we all argue with our partners once in a while and usually it will be over something petty and we learn to forgive and love each other in most occassions. N...

Yes I cheated but will he ever put this in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been struggling in our relationship for 5 years ago we have been in a relationship for 10 and married for going on 2 well 5 years ago i got really drunk and really don;t remember the night and i cheated well for 5 years we have ...

I believe he never physically cheated, but things are unresolved. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Unfortunately when I was pregnant with our son my husband took it upon himself to seek out other people on craigslist and sent private pictures of himself to one of them, well I found out and confronted him. He swears that he never met with any of ...

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...

Problem with husband's communication

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I really need help with this and I don't need anyone to tell me that I need to leave him because I have had enough of that. I'm having problem with my husband's communication. He asked me what I don't like about him and I told him bu...

My world fell apart when my husband started this affair...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My world fell apart when my husband began an affair on the 23rd of December 2009. As far as I knew all was well! Its made harder by the fact the girl is everything he has ever tried to change about me.. she is a large girl who is covered in facial ...

How long do you wait until you simply agree to divorce this person and move on with your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - If your spouse came to you and said they did not want to be married any longer, moved their stuff out of the house and began separation procedings. Months after the initial discussion, this same spouse tells you their feelings have grown platonic, ...

I played with fire and I got burned!

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...

He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...

How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...

My husband of 10 years had declared he no longer loves me. Is he just in his cave emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for 10 years. I love my husband. I love our family(three children).. I believe we are truly blessed. He told me a year ago that he didnt love me. I have been trying my best to keep it together. I t has been ok until recently. We ...

I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...

Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...

Help!!! How do I end this affair?

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29 March 2010 (M) - I've just turned 21 and have been working at my job for about 18 months now. It started at last years work staff party. Everyone was dancing, drinking and partying, because i dont drink or smoke, i kept myself one side and chatted to anyone ...

My married best friend is in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My best friend and I have been inseperable for the last 13 years. He has just recently gotten married. since then I have distanced myself, do to the fact that all women are not as comfortable with their other half having a female for a best friend. ...

Evidence of a possible affair from years ago, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts Please can you give me some advice. To cut a long story short, I am recovering from finding out that my husband was having an affair - this was over two years ago [2008] and we did the counselling thing. And to date things have...

My wife was cheating with her cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - My wife cheated on me with her cousin. They had sex multiple times and she was staying at his house. This was all while she was on vacation visiting her family. She just started getting to know them all including her father. He ran out on her mother ...

Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband ...

Help this stressed out hubby whose wife was sending naughty texts to another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - A few months ago I started suspecting my wife was sending naughty messages to one of the truck drivers that delivers to her work. I asked her about it and she said it was just a friend and they talk about their day and nothing more then that. We ...

Any advice as I am hurting my husband but I just can't force myself to participate.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My husband has a child from a previous relationship. The mother of the child is very protective of him and really does not like to let him out of her sight. He is her only child. The child stays with my husband alternate weekends. when the child is ...

Married for 21 years and the spark is gone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - i been maried 4 21 yrs the love andthe spark is gone i dont know wat to do i am so lonly ...

Old love still stirring....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 4 years...we have one child and another one on the way. We dates for a long time before we got married. Before I met him I knew another man. It was love at first sight for me. We never dated because it was never ...

Bored with married sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - Hello My wife and I have been married for 9 years. The last year and half the sex has become boring and we both admit that. We have talked about it and she is open minded and so am I but we both can not figure out anything new to try. Has anyone e...

I fell asleep so the mood was broken. I'm very disappointed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband nine years. We are having tough times. Tonight I wanted desperately to feel closeness and a comanionship with him, I wanted to make love desperately. I started the mood and he was rubbing my back. I fell asleep. I have an ...

My wife wants to have sex with a black man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - I am an average size guy and my wife is large down below after having our child and since I have noticed that she has become frustrated as I am not satisfying her, We have toys and have fun but she has asked if she could sleep with a black man to t...

I rarely feel satisfied after sex with husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - My question, my husband and l have sex but he never really releases inside of me. That to me is a real turn off and makes me feel very unwanted, and somehow full of emptyness and feeling pretty much down. On the other hand once in a blue moon when ...

His mum says jump, he asks how high! How do I stop this ruining our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - this is my second marriage been married for 17 years I have 2 grown son's they live on their own and my husband has a daughter that she's married, after 10 years of our marriage my husband's mother moves into U.S. from middleast, our life has been ...

I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms a...

Love at work place

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M) - I am married for the last seven years and I have two kids, however my marriage is loveless. Last year I met this woman at work she is divorced with kids. From the first moment I saw her, I felt attracted to her and she was to me and in no time we ...

How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The prob...

Why does my husband always cause me to lose my temper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I feel so horrible. My husband and I were fighting and I scratched him. I was minding my own business and he came in the room bitching about how bad the dog smelled and that he is allergic to the dog. All of this was said to get a rise out of me ...

Is it just hormones, or is it reasonable for me to be angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I live in a two bedroom apartment with my husband and I'm nine months pregnant. A little over a month ago I asked my husband to clean the second bedroom out so I can clean the carpets and put up the nursery. I even went out and rented a storage unit ...

I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on ...

Do I believe what this woman said about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Last night I got a facebook message from a woman that is my husbands ex-wifes friend. I had requested to be friends because I remember her from my hometown and she was a friend incommon with someone else. But it turns out that was a bad decision ...

My wife seems in a dream world, while I feel I don't have time to think of myself. Are there others like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M) - I am in my 40's and married. We have 4 children who I adore. We live in a place which is where my wife grew up and where she wanted to live. She lives near to her family and is very close to her mum and sister. I do not really feel like I belo...

Should I tell my wife to stop mailing the guy who has a crush on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M) - Hi everybody, My wife of 6 years went on vacation with her aunt for a week recently. Apparently she met another guy (I don't think anything happened between them, at least that's what she told me) but that guy had, and still has, a crush on her. He ...

With whom do I live my life with? My Husband or this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I'm 18 year old married girl from Mumbai and studying in second year at commerce and my husband living in Allahabad doing post graduation from Arts .i'm ALSO DOING JOB.my husband don't like i'm doing job and he also want I'm settled in villa...

Should I live with him and start a new life with our son...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - here's my story...I had a boyfriend 6yrs ago..we've been together for a year and then when he met my family..I kinda left him..meaning I didn't talk to him or see him anymore because my parents didn't like him..he's been calling me but I never ...

My wife pre empts all lovemaking by saying what she wont do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 March 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been married for 20 years, love my wife dearly, we have a good sex life. I would do anything for my wife , sex wise too. My concern is everytime we want to have sex, foreplay , the first thing she says is I am not giving you a ...

My husband says I do not please him sexually. I'll try harder,... but what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 March 2010 (F) - Hi I'm having an problem with my huzzie....Our problem is in our early year or two married i use to lie to him alot and the reason for that is that he never wanted me to do anything for my self or go anyway things like that he never liked me to go ...

I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 March 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...

Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...

Am I being too paranoid or maybe... too naive, here? You tell me.

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24 March 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been close friends with another couple for years. We spend holidays together, go on vacations together and I feel like they are more family than friends. I knew the guy years before he met his wife, he's been like a big ...

Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got ...

Married and dating a married man for 5 years... am I wasting time thinking he will leave his wife when the kids are older?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - I met the man that I am currently involved with at my job. I had been married for 8 years and he had been married for 6 at the time we met. (We are both still married to our spouses) We both have children the same age range.(but he is 10 yrs older ...

Threesome with husband & best friend gone wrong... I think??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 March 2010 (F) - Hello, My husband and I had a threesome with my best friend the other evening. I wasn't exactly into it and I told him but he kept insisting and finally when we were all watching tv he made the move. I wasn't exactly expecting him too but I thought ...

Will this marriage make it???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 March 2010 (F) - Hello My Cupid Friends, I'm here again asking for advice, I have been here a couple of times asking for advice on my husband.. My husband and I meet March 2009 then got married May 16,2009 I know that was fast but knew what I wanted and our 1...