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female
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51-59,
*essy
writes:My question, my husband and l have sex but he never really releases inside of me. That to me is a real turn off and makes me feel very unwanted, and somehow full of emptyness and feeling pretty much down. On the other hand once in a blue moon when he actually does and l feel great and very satisfied. Does that by any chance have something to do with the hormones that are in his sperm that make me feel some how saticfied when he does?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Dear lady
At your and your DH's age, it may be quite normal that he has got some issues in the sex drive and harmones.
So you should not take it seriously.
Most of teh times these things are temporary.
he will be normal soon
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Women who were directly exposed to semen were less depressed.
This is because mood-altering hormones in semen are absorbed through the vagina.
Semen does contain several mood-altering hormones.
When you have sex, your body produces those serotonin which are happy mood chemicals or endorphins.
As to why he cannot cum , it has nothing to do with you at all. It is beyond his control. Either he has a low sperm production or he has been masturbating too often.
reference;-
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-antidepressant.html
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reader, lilacfox  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Have you spoken to your husband about this? Have you asked him why he does not like to "release" inside of you? I can understand how this can make you feel unwanted, as there is an emotional closeness involved here, when a partner who loves you will release while still inside. Also, many (but not all) women can feel it when he does. This creates a closeness too.
Have a read of this page: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/41578 - these are just other people's personal experiences of this.
But, at the end of the day, it's best you sit and talk openly to your husband about this, and how it makes you feel. And ask him how he feels too. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): I'm not a doctor, but no, its just a psychological thing that makes you feel satisfied, not a biological thing. Sperm has lots of zinc, but that's the only noticeable thing about it that I know of.
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