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writes:I'm 22 and married for over 1 year now and been happy through out.Of course in life we all argue with our partners once in a while and usually it will be over something petty and we learn to forgive and love each other in most occassions.Now my main concern is that no matter how much I love my wife and all her beauty and her personality right now we don't seem to be getting along at all, we can't seem to hold a conversation without it turning into a arguement in some way, not intentionally there always seems to be some sort of angry agressiveness in our voices at the moment I don't think my wife can even bear to be in same room as me at the moment i'm relegated to the living room while my wife stays in our bedroom.I feel this all slowly started when she miscarried early last year with that we've had housing issues, money issues (but who don't?) and I can't hold down a job as I only seem to get temp work and since my wife's miscarrige she seems to have struggled with depression and not been in work for over year.those I guess in the light of things are just excuses but i'm starting to get rather scared as to how this marraige seems to be heading.all I want to do is make her smile everyday and let her know I love her with all my heart but I can't even seem to do that right.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (31 March 2010):
 If i were you, id address your wifes issues regarding the loss of the baby and her depression. The feelings she has concerning the miscarriage can last a long time, years even. So her health should be your main priority now. Talk to her about visiting the doctor or ask her if she would go to counsellimg with you. She may not want to and may get angry with you for mentioning it but be patient and try to understand she is probably suffering from depression. If you can get her to speak to someone it would help her recover properly. I think once that happens your other problems as a couple, will resolve themselves. Good luck
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