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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My bi-sexual, drug addict husband gave me an STD!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Two years ago, my dr said I had trich, and that someone was messing around. I wasn't a happy camper. Then in Oct 09, my pap smear came back normal with the HPV virus also. I was devastated. My hubby hasn't been working since Dec 03. I suspected he ...

My wife has gone off sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Hi i need help! me and my wife heve been happily married for 16 years, My wife is 37 and i am 40. we have two lovely girls no money worries what so ever, everything is fine apart the fact she has gone from little sex drive to none. she has gone off...

My husband and I are reconciling, but his g/f won't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for two years. He cheated on me after about 3 years of me pushing him away and suffering undiagnosed post natal depression. It was a nightmare. Anyway he moved in with her. And has been with her ever since. ...

My husband says he loves me, but I just can't figure out if he's still interested!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I feel very confused about my husband's behavior. To the point,where I might lose my mind. I'm originally a reasonable person, but my husband puzzling behavior really puts me on the spot. I can't figure him out. He says he loves me, but he does not ...

I want to change my negative behaviour, and fix our marriage, but she won't change too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - I think I am verbally abusive. I have caused a lot of pain to my wife and a lot of problems in our relationship. I used to blame her for a lot of our problems because she would never follow through with what she said she would do and she would ...

What the hell is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Sex has always been an issue in our marriage. I've always wanted it more than my wife and it'll often only happen if I initiate it. But I find I'm quite sulky about it at times. If she says no I'll become moody and if she says yes, I'll someti...

My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...

Torn between myself, two men and two kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So I have an issue. I have a husband for 4.5 years now. We get along fine with eachother's family, and we have two kids. Just like in every relationship he has promised me many of things and only a couple where fulfilled. Like the movie "The ...

My wife wont share all my sexual fantasies and called me a bully

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. Sex life has been a bit hit and miss down through the years, mostly due to her low sex drive. Leading up to Christmas, we'd been arguing a bit and hadn't had sex for about 6 weeks. The argue...

Finally I'd rather be single and happy than married and miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I am done. After our fight tonight I have finally seen him for what he is. He is selfish, emotionally abusive, chauvinistic, and paranoid. I want out of this sham of a marriage that I have tried so hard to save. I realize now that I can't save it ...

Could a phone be more important then your wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) what does my husband want from me? why cant we watch a tv program with out him texing someone? we go to dinner and his phone is in his hand the entire time, he sleeps with it underneth his pillow, he is a 48 year old ...

Needing help working myself out. Husband keeps breaking me down.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for many years to a man who has disrespected and abused me ever since I met him. At first I thought I could take or leave him (before we were married) but slowly it seems he and some tough breaks robbed me of my self esteem ...

If he cheats and lies about it does he really love you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Does a husband who cheats,lies,watch porno and never admits cheating really loves his wife?...

Why is he sexually abusing me? We're married, but he demands sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My husband of many years has always acted as if I am here for his sex needs. He has also said he married me for sex. He expects I will give him sex. Not that he doesn't tell me other things to do. The best he has improved on is to tell me hours be...

I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - How do I go about asking a friend if he has nude pictures of my wife? I have reason to believe he does, as he alluded to it once years ago. They would have been made years ago when she was younger by an old boyfriend {not the guy with the pictures). ...

I'm pregnant and worried my lack of sex drive will force hubbie to see it elsewhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im 36 weeks pregnan and sex has become a bit painful and uncomfortable for me and i no longer enjoy it. My husband realizes this and hasmade it a point to refrain from kissing and touching too much so that he doesn't crave sex altthough we still ...

There is no joy in my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I feel my family life is driving me crazy. I have such a dysfunction in my family,that is almost hard to believe it. My husband works all the time and my grown kids are in trouble all the time. We have no intimacy, fun or joy in our life. My ...

My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do...

My previous boss wont leave me alone and wants sex with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Howdy all well se i have been married for about 12 years now. I did make a mistake a few years ago i slept with my boss. Now he keeps on phoning me and tells me he missed me. me and my husband moved a few months ago to another city somehow he moved ...

My husband is very rude! Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have noticed that when my husband goes away for work 1day or so and he is coming home he doesnt call me nor let me know he is save. Then i kinda freak out and say to him if been worrying if you're ok. I will kiss him then if he say something like ...

I love "IT" he literally hates "IT"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - okay i'm 19 and i married a 30 year old.(yea i know i'm crazy). but as a child i was sexually abused for 10 years strait and now i can't go a day with out getting off at least once. now here is the problem my husband has literally told me that he ...

Competing with alcohol!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I love my wife very much. But she drinks so much she was put in a cardiac care unit six months ago. The doctors said she had almost depleted her body of iron and her blood count was six. Yes that's right six. I was shocked as well as the doctor who ...

My husband has gotten his ex wife pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for five years, lived together for ten. His son has lived with us for five years, and we have a child together (adopted). My husband recently had an affair with my step son's mom. This is the fourth affair, all ...

Is it my fault that he abuses me? How can I leave him now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hi There, I really need some advice - even though deep down im sure I think I know what to do.......but while I am writing this - I dont I really dont know what to do. I am in a relationship - we have been together for 10 years and he is my first. ...

Sould I stop talking to this married man for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hey, I need your help. Please don't be so mean against me when you read my story, because we all make bad choices and I never planned on being with a married man nor do,I want to break up anyone's marriage. So, here's the story. Some years bac...

I am afraid of the consequences for my family if I leave my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - my husband and i fought 2 days ago because i let my maid wash clothes...my bad relationship started 10 years ago when he started womanizing with about 5 different women....i was submitted to slaps,kicks,gunpointing,shouting,black and blues,all kins ...

Everything I have done has been for him, now I find he is having an affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I found out very recently that my husband was having an affair for the last 6 months. I am not sure if I can forgive him or ever trust him again. It's not like it was a one time thing. He wasn't even the one to tell me, I had to find out when I ...

He seems to have lost feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Married for 19 years, love my husband with all my heart but can't seem to continue to deal with him always being in a bad mood. He never seems happy. He says it's all due to finances but we both make good salaries. He is constantly talking about ...

We often go out as a foursome and I fell in love with the other guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - So i fell n love with someone that is not my husband. I know it does not sound possiable but it was. Im still n love with him but we broke things off. One reason cuz he and I both know that im still n love with my husband and i never would leave hi...

I've lost the urge to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I dont get aroused or excited by my boyfriend of eight years we have a five year old son and it seems the enchantment to be next to him and the need for sexual gratification has become harder to deal with because I always want it but not from him. i ...

My husband has cheated in the past and now I think he may be having another affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I hope you can help me I have been married for 22 years and have 2 teenage children. I think my husband is having an affair he is very secretive with his phone I have found txt messages he has sent to a woman he denies everything. He has had an ...

I'm in love with my husband and another guy. Which should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I am in love with 2 different guys. One is my husband. We have been married almost 4 years. We have spent more time apart than together. He has a record for cheating on me. He's cheated on me more than count. He says hes changed. He is also the ...

She never says anything bad about her husband. Will she ever leave him for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating a married women for some time she says she is leaving her husband but when. She tells me she has no feelings for him. She also says that she has told him already and she says she is not leaving him because of me. She say he is ...

I think he is having an affair with a colleague of mine. How can I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for the past 3 years to a man who is also my work colleague. We lived together, at my house, for 5 years before that. I was wealthy when we married; my husband was not. Since my marriage, due to a very bad investment, I have lost ...

Does my ex still want me in spite of our current relationships with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Just after some advice really. Known my ex-girlfriend since 2005, split in 2006 because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend. However shortly after this we had sex on 2 occasions after a few too many beers Since then I've been married and now ...

My husband isn't interested sexually in me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - What could be wrong with my husband ,and what am I suppose to do? I;m in my late forties, looking 30 something ,taking care of myself... But my husband just does not care about me,as a sexual being. I m totally frustrated, because I just don't get ...

How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...

Please help me before I do something I regret! I'm sure he has cheated and it is driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for about 2 years now,everything has been going very well.We loved each other like crazy,beginning of this year 2010.I started noticing my husband started to act very strange e.g when we are going to bed he will switch of his ...

Should I leave my husband so I can be happy with the friend I have been in love with for years, or stay in order to keep my family together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - my husband of 4 yrs had an affair with my little sister but i really do love him and we have 3 beautiful kids.On the other hand my best friend of 5 yrs told me hes tired of watching me hurt and he has always loved me just too scared that if he told ...

Loveless marriage - stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have posted previously on my situation and I have tried to stick it out but have reached the end of my tether. My wife and I are less than 2 years married and have an 18 month daughter and she is 7 months pregnant. Our marriage has become loveless ...

Wife went down on old man just to come to the USA....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I love my wife, but now I just found out that my wife sucked the d__k of a 59 year old man in order to get a VISA to come the final time to the USA, the time that she met me and married me! I knew she wasn't a virgin, but I'm caught up on two...

A miserable and unwanted desperate wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been married for close to four yrs, and am very disappointed in my marriage. Since the beginning I have so miserable with my husband. We have the same age (26 yrs). My husband is a very explosive with a bad temper. When he gets mad the ...

Is there an amount of time I should wait for his pain to subside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I really appreciate all the advice and answers that have been given. I have one more question to ask the men. If your wife slept with someone else while you while separated from each other. Could you take her back if she had changed? I made a lot of ...

Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious....

My husband's porn use has affected me badly..is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Okay, this is going to be very long so please bear with me. When I first got with my boyfriend in August '08, I made it very clear to him that some very bad things had happened to me in the past concerning sex when I was only young, and that bec...

A womans need to feel desired and my husband falls short of that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 12 years. During that time he has never complimented me or shown much attraction to me. Actually he has made negative comments about my looks, like my breasts arent perky or my skin has scars from pregnancies ...

I want to make it work with my husband but can't stop thinking of this other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Me and my ex-lover Steve broke up almost a 1 year 6 months ago. Since then I have tried so hard to move on and get on with my life but I am finding it really difficult. I hate to admit but there is still a part of me that loves and cares for Steve ...

I feel guilty about asking my mum to move out when I got married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I wanted my mom to be on her own and get her apartment after I got married. She finally got one and will be moving soon and I feel sad and guilty now about this, I thought that this is what I wanted but now, im not sure. I have mix feelings about ...

How can I put him past me if he is now coming to me in my dreams? I feel like I have lost my one true love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for going on 19 yrs.. been together for 23 yrs. I had a horrible childhood. An abusive alcoholic father. When I got with my husband I was almost 18. Never had the feelings of "TRUE LOVE" with him.. thinking back.. I feel I ...

Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't...