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I'm pregnant and worried my lack of sex drive will force hubbie to see it elsewhere

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Question - (27 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 36 weeks pregnan and sex has become a bit painful and uncomfortable for me and i no longer enjoy it. My husband realizes this and hasmade it a point to refrain from kissing and touching too much so that he doesn't crave sex altthough we still have sex they are all quickies to keep my pain short lived and my rush to end it makes it less enjoyable for him. I want to please my husband as well as myself and i miss our fourplay, and i am starting to become extremely worried about my postpartum recovery and how i will keep him satisfied then. We do have oral sex but i am never able to go long enough to make him ejaculate. I don't want the lack of sexual satisfaction to cause him to go elsewhere for it. I know my husband loves me and would never do anything to hurt me, but he is a man and i am smart enough to know love isn't enough to keep a horny man flaccid and away from temptation. What can i do to bring some more sexual satisfaction? any oral sex tips or pregnant sex tips would be appreciated?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2010):

Your husband loves you. He will understand. You're pregnant and it hurts. You're a pregnant woman, not a sex toy.

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A female reader, Sharon1111 Australia +, writes (27 February 2010):

Sharon1111 agony auntI am worried that your question is just about sex. I am surprised too that a woman wrote it.

Can't help but wonder if you are really a man or you have been abused into thinking you are just a sex toy.

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