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writes:How do I go about asking a friend if he has nude pictures of my wife? I have reason to believe he does, as he alluded to it once years ago. They would have been made years ago when she was younger by an old boyfriend {not the guy with the pictures). She doesn't know about them or she would have told me. Before we married she told me about the guys she was sexually active with {all friends of mine)so there would be no secrets.I think the guy wanted me to have them when he told me (in so me words) about them, but I didn't know how to respond.(naked pictures of my wife possibly having sex with a friend, know what I mean?). Anyway now years and years later I'd like to have them since I never made any of her and after watching some old home videos I can't believe how hot she was. I enjoyed hearing her tell about her sexual adventures that she shared till she realized how turned on it was making me, and the thought now of watching her get it on with another guy years ago is really cool. How could I broach this subject with him...they may not exist and it would be embarrasing even though he knows she was sexually active, even though he never got any from her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): drop it- nothing good long term is going to come of this...
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 Talk to your wife about them. If they exist, she likely knows about them unless they were taken without her consent.
Just because she did not tell you does not mean she does not know. She might have felt that you would not be able to handle the full truth. The fact that you did not know how to respond to your friend is a sign that you would not have been able to handle it...if so, then she felt uneasy telling you about them.
Have a talk with your wife that you suspect that a friend has copies of pics of her. If you can not even talk to your wife about it, what makes you think you will be able to handle seeing the pics.
If you REALLY want pics of your wife...why not take them now with her? This has been on your mind a long time, but you haven't been able to bring up the topic with her in all these years...are you really sure you can handle those pics of the past? Does not sound like you are ready.
My experience with this is that I took lots of pics of my lovers whenever I could, and whenever I meet women that have nude pics from past relationships that the feel their current husbands/boyfriends could not handle seeing, those women give ME those pics for safe keeping. For all you know, your friend might have gotten them from her.
Learn to handle truth, and present yourself as a man that can handle truth. I think it is sad that you never did with your wife something she did with past lovers.
-Frank Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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reader, weparley +, writes (27 February 2010):
Let it go bro. The title of your story is "I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!"
Key word in this is "YOU THINK"... You yourself isn't even sure this is so. "Let it go"
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2010):
I wouldn't go there to be honest. You're setting yourself up for jealousy. You don't know what's in the photos, and it's best left in the past. I'm sure she would not be so happy if she found out you had asked about those photos, which she probably is hoping have been left in the past. And I'm sure she wouldn't also be happy if she knew you thought she was hotter when she was younger. What is in the past is in the past. Your wife is who she is now. Don't look for those photos.
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