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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is there any way I can get my ex to be more cooperative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am in the process of divorce after ten years of marriage,and a beautiful 17 month daughter. My "ex" won't communicate with me verbally, and the occasional email responses I get in response to anything I ask are usually one or two words long. H...

I have tried for 6 years, but I don't really love him. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I am a 27 year old female married for a year now. I ve known my husband for 6 years now, since the last yearof college. Prior to that I was in a relationship with a very wonderful guy in college for 3 years and due to faults and mistakes which I am ...

I am considering cheating

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have been married for 10 yrs have 2 children but have had an all but non existent sex life during the marriage. I have tried seducing her buying presents doing all the household chores and even explaining that i will have to walk away from the ...

How can I regain my sexdrive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I am going through a depression, which i am fighting it every day. I love my bloke but i just dont want to have sex, my sex drive has gone completely and we have only been married months. I need to go to the doctors about the depression but how do i ...

I'm having seconds thoughts. How can I convince him to put off the wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Me and my other half have been togather three years we have our wedding planned for four months time. Recently i have been having second thoughts. We got together when i was in a very bad time and it's just recently i have been getting back to ...

I'm so tempted to call his wife and rat him out because I feel for her and of course I would get some statisfaction.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for about a year that I met at work. The question I have is and I probably already know the answer. He was seperating from his wife and also has two children with her. Why does he continue to spend time with her and of course ...

He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after ...

I'm tired of faking happiness when I know my wife's getting so personal with someone else... in the Internet. Is this tolerable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, and God Bless you all. This is a good thing that you are all doing. I feel guilty for doing this, but about 6 months ago, I had this strange feeling that my wife was using her computer at work and the computer at home to talk to ...

Is frequent masturbation at 30 normal??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 8 years and married for only 2, our marriege is about to end, due to the fact that i keep catching him in the shower masturbating, he is 30 years old, we dont have sex anymore, except maybe once a month, and ...

I think this is highly inappropriate behavior from a married woman...should I confront her??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a about a year and a half. We dated for three years prior to that and we have a one year old son. She found an old crush on myspace and they have been talking regularly. I've logged into her myspace account and ...

All this negativity is making me doubt whether getting married is the right thing to do - even though we do both love each other dearly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hi my girlfriend (38) and I have been together 9 months and are due to get married in April. My girlfriend found out she was pregnant in January but is afraid to tell her elderly father as she fears his reaction to her being pregnant before she is ...

We have very different views on showing affections. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hi there, my husband, Rick is one of those clingy types; He always wants to spend every waking moment with me. I’ve always thought of him as quite possessive. But I suppose, the most annoying thing about him is that he is always declaring hi...

I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with ...

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...

Why does my husband treat his family this way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive ...

I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and danc...

I am stuck in a marriage and want to get out. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I got married 5 years ago we lived together 2 years b4 that. Just before I got married, I re-met the love of my life who I have known since the 80's. I was confused and scared, so I got married (I shouldn't have) We started up a relationship aga...

How do I get him interested again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been experiencing difficulties in our marriage he tells me a part of him has died and he's not happy anymore. he says that he feels i was never interested in him much and it is definately not true. I was just too busy taking ...

I've made my mind up...what are my rights??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - It is thanks, by and large, to the really helpful replies and other articles on this website that I have now found the strength to tell my unfaithful, lying, controlling, husband that I will no longer tolerate his awful behaviour to me. While I was ...

Am I unattractive, for my husband to prefer porn to being with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - me and my husband have been together for 5 years. lately he acts like I am not even here. i feel like he does care about me anymore. i love this man with all of my heart and i dont want to ever lose him. he doesnt seem interested in me in the ...

Looking back, I see that I was more unhappy then I was happy in my marriage. Should I continue this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband and I always argue on everything, and he is so pessimistic unlike me. What to do? I have been married for 8 years now. we were our first ones and because of that it was very hard to get along! We have huge communication issues. he sees ...

The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...

I asked my husband for a break because he is always out but now he's found someone else... will he ever come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I asked my husband for a break as he is always out. I want him home and he says I'm not coming home. I ask is he ever coming home and his reply is I don't know what the future holds. He wants me to move on but I can't until I hear the words I'm ...

Is my husband having an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband has been working with his female assistant for about 8 months now. Up until the last month, I had not had reason to suspect anything that their relationship was anything other than professional. However, last month, one week he called her ...

Is he a sexual predator? How do I get help for my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 19 years, married 16. She just felt comfortable enough to share with me her "past experiences". She felt she needed to get this off her chest as she felt like a "whore" and useless even though to me she had ...

My husband has lost interest in sex, I have tried every sexy seduction method, what do I do next?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Hi all, I'll get straight into the problem..i'm married for 7years now and i've got three beautiful children and my problem is my husband...he doesn't wants sex anymore i tried everything wearing the sexiest clothes offering massages, scented ...

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

I continued writing to him, yet he did not answer, what could he be thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - hi all i posted yesterday but am telling you how it continued, because im so confused. ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children together. ive felt for years that things have been very one sided and that i wasnt respected so nearly a ...

How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...

No reply from my affair since Valentine's, why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - hi all ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children.the past year has been real tough for us as i asked for a seperation because i felt we had drifted apart. within this time while going out with friends i met a younger man than me 6 years ...

I do love my husband but he revealed to me after marriage he is against having children, time is running however so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and have reached a stage in life where my biological clock is ticking. i feel the need to have babies but my husband doesn't agree. when we were dating he never mentioned that he didn't want children..but now he is ...

What are the benefits of marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - In the week when Paul McCartney and Heather Mills agree monetary settlement, the question of fairness and behaviour arises. What are the benefits of marriage, if any? Isn't it just an unfair contract where if one party breaks the terms, the other ...

I had a one night stand a week before I got married and the guilt is tearing me apart...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I am recently married but before I got married just a week before.... I am very upset to say that I had a one night stand... I was extremely drunk and do not even remember kissing this guy yet deep down inside knew that I was with this guy... there ...

Has my husband slept with this internet friend? Just how close are they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Hi, A few days ago I found out on my husband's e-mail that he is having an internet female friend. Going thru the mail he has talked to her about our 2 year old son, described himself and has asked her out for lunch. She sends him her personal...

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) - Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...

I feel threatened by my wife's ex, with whom she maintains contact. How can I drive these feelings away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - My wife has an ex...I have have always been able to put my past relationships away, to an imaginary place of non-existence. I can't seem to do it with hers...It hurts...they have contact by email and phone(at her work). I feel betrayed... I wi...

I love my husband, but I want to be single and independent again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I am so generally fed up. I just dont want to get out of bed most day. I lost my job recently and havent worked since. My daughter and i moved in with my bloke and his daughter over two years ago and nothing has been right since with them, the kids ...

I feel his ex calls him more often than is healthy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - My husband has a child with his ex. Of course they have to communicate about the child but she still finds it necessary to call him at least once a week about something completely unrelated to the child. Last week it was a question about ceiling ...

He never says "I love you", not even to our daughter.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - Can a marriage survive this way? We've been married for only 5 months, and we have a 10 month old daughter, and I am due again next month. We love eachother, and have known eachother for a long time. The thing is that there is no intimacy in our ...

I am in so much confusion thinking my husband maybe bi or gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and recently learned that my husband has been viewing porn on the internet, what makes matters worse is it mostly involves other men not women. He told me it's normal for this to happen when I confronted him about it ...

I overheard my husband talking about feeling another womens breasts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6149 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - I overheard a conversation of my husband feeling on another woman's breast. When I confronted him about he lied? By the next day he told me the truth but still denied certain parts of the story, claiming he was embellishing for his friend. This ...

My wife is overweight and I don't feel attracted to her anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - I'm married for 13 years. My wife and I have an 8 year old child. I feel like I'm trapped because I no longer find my wife attractive. The main problem is her weight. She weighs more than I do (83kg). She's packed on the weight ever since the c...

Trapped in a loveless marruage and I want to end it...but I can't leave my kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - Dear Readers, I have been in a loveless marriage with my wife for the past 11 years. Please don’t judge me, but there has never been any sort of love between us and therefore I have always cheated on her which she is fully aware of but doesn’t ...

Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...

Has my wife performed oral on another man???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - Hello, I am a married male and recently found out, by investigating my wife's internet history log that she had a secret Hotmail account that she was keeping from me. She has an Outlook email account as well, that we share for friends, business and ...

How can I make my marriage work when I am always having to prove myself??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I feel like a crybaby, i am a strong person normally but for the past year i have done nothing but try to prove to my husband of 4yrs that im not cheating on him. I love him and have never ever done anything to make him think i would have cheated....

She went off birth control without telling me, now she's pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2418 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - My wife and I had talked about waiting to have kids for at least one more year. Well, on the day of love feb 14th she dropped the bomb on me that she was pregnant and that she went off birth control without telling me. She says she didn't think she ...

Do dreams reveal inner fantasies and if so how can I handle my wife's??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6151 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - On occasion my wife talks in her sleep. Sometimes I can't make a word out, other times it's a normal conversation. But a few times it was sex talk. The problem time is this,, I awoke to her moaning and stuff and then said "oh ya Jay, FU-- my ...

I never realised I was unhappy in my marriage until I met this old friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - I'm a 49 year old man, married for 26 years, unhappily for the last 12 or so. About a month ago I received an e-mail from a high school friend through one of those reunion websites. We knew of each other but never dated. She just asked how I was ...

It's all wearing me out emotionally...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - My husband has a very fiery temper and when he gets angry he can be very rude and swear and shout and insult me, calling me 'thick' and a 'bitch' etc .. I have told him so many times that this hurts me and upsets me but the next time we argue it ...