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writes:I overheard a conversation of my husband feeling on another woman's breast. When I confronted him about he lied? By the next day he told me the truth but still denied certain parts of the story, claiming he was embellishing for his friend. This incident happened according to him in December but he was talking with his friend about it just recently? What should I do?
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reader, jabey  +, writes (20 February 2008):
Explain to him how deeply hurt you are, and that you are crushed to hear that he has been discussing another womans breasts. Explain that in order for you to feel special and loved you wish to beleive this does not happen. Im sure if he is a decent man he will shower you in love and understaanding.
my next point is to say that Im afraid most men discuss other women and their body parts. Yes even when they are in happy loving relationships.
men are visual creatures and they detach visual stimulation from emotion. They will appreciate the female form and often discuss this with other men. But I hasten to add this does not mean they do not find you amazing , attractive and wonderful, and does not mean their love for you is any less.
Understand that it is unfortunate that you overheard this and he will hide the truth as he knows it will hurt you,but it does not mean he wants this other woman he loves you and you have him xxx
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