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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I'm feeling anxious since the break up. How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3893 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I came here last week for some help over a really painful break up I'm going through. The one where my girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental illness (depression, anxiety and eating disorder). I received lots of very helpful ...

My girlfriend defecates during sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years and ever since the beginning she has had a problem during sex. It doesn't matter what position we try, each time during intercourse she poos. I've asked her if she is doing i...

My boyfriend doesn't take into account the fact that I'm very sensitive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for eight-ish years. Some of those were long distance; about half were not. We've had some instability in the relationship, from my breaking up with him multiple times but we've also had some good times. About a year ago ...

Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and b...

My mum is depressed and having trouble at work, and I'm not sure how to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, Just need some advice on how to help my mum. She suffered with depression, had medication and seemed to get out of it. Just recently she seemed to have slipped back into the depression. She's having trouble at work as they'...

My boyfriend seems to be touching himself while he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" ...

May have to drop out of college, is there any hope for me if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hey! I'd like to share something with you all and just gain some opinions and maybe some stories from others who may of not been able to continue with there education. As most of you guys already know I have Bipolar, and ontop of that I a...

Didn't know I was pregnant so missed out on the early pregnancy care

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - ive just found out im pregnant. thing is, I could highly possibly be around 26 weeks gone. I say this as months ago I missed a couple of periods but then they came back, pretty normal so I didn't think anything of it. recently have been getting ...

My boyfriend seems more interested in crossdressing than in me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 2 years and we had sex every day then everything stopped and nothing happened negative between us. I was shocked and beyond upset one day I found erotic pictures of him dressed completely as a woman. He started ...

My husband's anger issues are worse now that he's ill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. Im asian, my husband is german, we came from diffirent culture, id adjust to much to his culture. My husband is a cancer patient. We just find it out two months ago. He is normally loud and aggressive before but its more so worst ...

He's a healthy man of 21 so why is he having erectile dysfunction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We were originally in a semi-long-distance relationship (we'd spend about a third of the year in the same town) but I moved in with him about 6 weeks ago. We've been having sex for over ...

I love my teen sister, but do not like her behaviour.She disrespects our parents and causes mayhem. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. My younger sister is 13 and she is currently causing a lot of problems for my parents. I am in my 20's so there is a big age gap, but whenever I go home she almost always plays up. She swears at parents,...

8 months and I am still beating myself for the break-up. help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My bf of 8 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend. he said "We are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's gonna go anywhere." He said he originally planned to just let it fade away. He said he has been thinking for a few weeks and that I ...

Difficulty ejaculating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - So I've had a real issue with ejaculating during any sort of sexual activity with a partner throughout my whole life. I can ejaculate eventually, but it just seems to take a long time (1hr+). For the longest time I was pretty happy about it, I can ...

Should I have unprotected sex to please my guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please can you give me advice - my boyfriend and I have a great relationship, however he now wishes to make love without using condoms. I am not happy with this, as by his own admission he slept with a lot of women in the past . I just want our...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

I feel lonely and alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Basically I feel very lonely and alone in life. I unfortunately lost my mother a few years ago and it's just me and my father. I'm grateful for my father but he is literally the only person in my life. A lot of my family live in different states and ...

His colourful past adds to my anxiety about my body!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I'm a very insecure woman. Throughout my dating life, I've had nothing but rejection and hurt. As a teenager, I was constantly rejected in favor of prettier girls. I've always felt ugly. Then I had a long relationship with a guy for whom I made MANY ...

Hpv in a long term relationship. Is cheating involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman. I have been with my husband for four years. I have had regular Pap smears my entire life. I have been tested for hpv every single year since I was 28. My hpv tests have always come back negative. Last month, I ...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

I need some help getting through a terrible break up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

26 March 2014 (M) - I've been suffering through a terrible break up and I need some encouraging words and help to get through it. My gf and I were together about two years. We split on Sunday because she couldn't handle a relationship anymore. She deeply suffers f...

My Gf finds flatulence disgusting. I am afraid to share a bed with her because of it. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - i cant sleep at night with my gf, we have been together for two years now but we are LD, we have reach a very acceptable level of comfort with each other, but i cant still pass gas in front of her, not yet. she finds it disgusting. Every nigh...

Since starting my new job I feel like I'm thick. I want to improve, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I've been feeling really down. After graduating from uni I finally landed a full time job. Not something too challenging but with opportunities.. Until I found out I can't even do the simple things. From day one I always felt the managers were ex...

I struggle with losing weight!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old female and I'm in my second year of college at a community college. Throughout my life (and even now) I'm struggling with being very overweight. I know it's my own fault that I'm overweight but I find it really hard to lose the ...

Are dentists used to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - This may be odd but I get really embarrassed gagging at the dentist, especially as he's quite young and nice looking. I'm assuming dentists are used to people gagging throughout their treatment or do I look like an idiot? Before anyone misinter...

I am already pregnant. So how do my husband and I handle his parents who flipped about the pregnancy because my husband is disabled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with the things going on in my life at the moment. I Will tell u the back story. My husband and I were involved in an accident a few years ago and it left my husband significantly physically disabled and I'm now ...

I'm covered in body hair and feel depressed about it. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - okay so this is awkward to talk about. Well im 15 years old and im hairy as hell! This is so un attractive specially when im around guys i jist keep my head down cuz i feel awkward. hair is covering 100% of my body! :( its actually a thick and i fe...

While we were apart, he slept with a lot of girls, including one night stands and gave me an STI when we reconciled. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi everybody any advice will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend had been together four years when I got into a university in a different country to do medicine. It's a five year course and I would be living four hours away from home. After much...

I'm virtually going to be homeless and this man has hurt me more than I can say! I'm so lost and afraid, how do I cope?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, would love some advice as this issue has gotten to bad its tearing me apart. A few months ago I was a single mum with a one year old. Then a friend ive known for years came into the picture and long story short we moved in with him. I g...

I want the money that my Dad saved for me while I was ill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

20 March 2014 (M) - I have been on abilify for four years and have been slowly getting smaller doses. And I want to be off it cause of increased urinating, tremors muscle twitching. I was on Geodon for a while. I am really hoping to get off of it next week cause I got ...

I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

20 March 2014 (?) - Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...

Is this a good time to tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I've been casually dating a guy I work with for nearly 6mths now. We both work shifts so we see each other when we can. Its great and we get on really well. He had a heart attack 2wks ago and it was touch and go for a while. This has made me realise ...

Need tips on how to lose weight, put together healthy meals, and exercise. Advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - Hello! Basically I have struggled with my weight throughout most of my life, I have always been a bit chubby even as a child. I got really big when I was about 13/14 but managed to lose about 2 stone and ended up get...

My anxiety gets in the way, what I do to learn to just smile, enjoy being with her and take it as it comes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

18 March 2014 (M) - I have recently started dating the best girl I've ever met, and I am finding it hard to switch off. I enjoy my time with her, but I have been plagued with anxiety problems from previous breakups and I find it hard not to feel the same about her. ...

Do I have a chance to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3907 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship where we loved each other deeply. Until I had OCD. My compulsive behavior caused a scratch on us. She got depressed and I was there, but I noticed she was avoiding me. For three months she doesn't knows what she ...

What's happened to me? My desire to work has lessened, I'm less happy than I used to be, I'm not interested in the same activities I used to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I've noticed something about myself in the last few years that I don't like. My desire to work is lessening. I can't hold a job for more than 6 months, because I just lose all interest in it. I've had a pattern for the last 3 years now: going to ...

I've told him that he should see a counselor, I don't want to just give up. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3907 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Recently my boyfriend and I have been arguing more frequently than usual, it is getting close to exam season and we both have lots of work so I have put a lot of this down to stress. He has always had a problem with self esteem, literally to the...

Is 26 too late to start a new life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - I've suffered from serious bouts of depression and anxiety related disorders since I was 18, and used to binge drink regularly to alleviate my woes. I'm almost 26 and I don't know how but i'm managing to overcome this mindset which has made my life ...

Since the beginning of this year all we've done is argue, I'm 18 and have a boyfriend and I want a social life aside from looking after her, she treats me like a child and it really annoys me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - My mum has COPD, emphysema and diabetes, all of which she has had now for 4-5 years. She's on oxygen 24/7 and needs a lung transplant. Since then I've had to grow up and take her role, cooking, cleaning, shopping. Over the past two years she's go...

Would a blood test tell if she were still pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - this is a kind of medical question so i only really want to know if its possible. so basically in early January my sister told me she had just miscarried at 3 and half months. however since then she has yet to get her period. she also has gained ...

My Bf is depressed about his parent's recent divorce. His behaviour towards me has changed. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend are the same age and have been together for one year. We really do love each other a lot. However, his parents recently got divorced, and he is very depressed about it. Lately it seems that all I can do is upset him. If he says/does...

Old me vs new me. He loves how I used to look. Should I stay with him, now that he's so critical?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - I have had a boyfriend since highschool six almost seven years. We have a daughter together, and in the first 5 years of our relationship I was in shape and fit and he was chunky. Now the tables have turned and he is the one in shape and im the ...

He saysI am too emotional and I find him to be a cold fish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I am not sure about my boyfriend. We have been together a year and see each other often. The next step is moving in. I do find that he's not very good with emotions. He thinks I'm too emotional and I find him cold and dismissive sometimes. I find ...

I want my lazy husband to leave my house but he wont go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - hey I'm 39 years old married to a man who is 36 years old we been married for 10 years and have to children together I had two children's from my own things were good until my husband lost his job since tat he become different he don't wanna find a ...

Why am I pushing this good man away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I have been dating a man for 6 months. Everything has been great. He's very sweet, very gentle, and would do anything for me. I find myself pushing him away within the past few weeks, distancing myself for no reason....picking small fights, turning ...

I am not allowed in his best friend's house and have to sit in the car!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone I need some advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. And we live together. But living together isn’t the problem. The problem is his mom and his best friend don’t like me at all. I’ve met the only once and ...

I feel like my dreams are dying ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I'm 29... finding myself and becoming skilled at something... discovering my talent or passion... if it was going to happen, it would have happened by now? I feel like my dreams are dying, because I don't have any special talent or quality to de...

I feel lost and need help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - The feeling is unbearable, it echoes throughout my inner Psyche, it's always been under radar and often it only takes something minor to trigger this thing I have called low self esteem. My problems first started in the early stages of my chi...

Have any women on here gone to a bar alone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some ...

My husband throws temper tantrums every day!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - The problem I have is that my husband regularly has pointless, angry outbursts and I'm the only one around to hear them. In front of other people he's as quiet as a lamb. We love each other. He tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves me e...