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writes:Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" but then if you have the urge, you have the urge. How do I even bring this up? I'm more curious to know if my suspicions are correct... Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 March 2014):
 I solved that problem by letting my spouse know that I don't mind him waking me up for "fun and games" at any time.
he just has to be gentle about the waking...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 March 2014):
 If it makes you feel uncomfortable then next time he does it just ask him what he is doing and keep doing that every time you catch him, he will soon cop on to the fact that you notice he is doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2014): I touch myself at night with my boyfriend sleeping next to me.
He found our inevitably but he doesn't care. Sometimes it turns him on and he joins in.
The reason why I do it is because I struggle to fall asleep and masturbating does help. Better than sleeping tablets!
But in my case, I tend to try it with my bf first because It's alway better when we're together. When he says no, that's when I go solo. Sometimes I don't ask when he's clearly tired. I just go ahead and do what I need to.
My suggestion is, next time he's doing it, grab his package and help him out :-p Then ask jokingly why you're not invited to the party. He'll love it!
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