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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Am I feeling scarred by women in general or am I just gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Hi Todd here, I posted a comment a few weeks back but only got one comment back, admirable comment, but only one. You can check out my initial question at this link for more info: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-really-...

I am starting to get angry at his attitude!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I have been dating a man for 3 years. I have stupidly "overlooked" some interesting behaviors on his part including: does he like and respect women? (Example: if it's breast cancer awareness month he goes on about how come its all about women? If ...

How do I deal the stress of knowing my parents don't want me home for 5 months before I go back to uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) - I am an extremely calm and laid back person as a rule, but recently I have been struggling with a great deal of things: 1. My parents are having some serious issues with their marriage (I know there is nothing I can do but it is on my mind). ...

How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spirall...

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...

What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...

Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what shou...

Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...

I have never had anyone really love me, I feel rejected and alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I am a gay female, I am not "super frilly or girly" but I am feminine and am attracted to the same in women. Im not the stereotypical gay female, I'm not into the gay scene due to not so good experiences in the past with nasty women. I...

Does anyone have any idea how I can feel less fragile in the mornings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Does anyone have any idea how I can feel less fragile in the mornings? It sounds daft at my age - mid forties - but having brought up a child alone and got up early each morning to sort her out and go to work, I am only now realising that I am NOT ...

Help. My sister has gone off the rails and I worry about her son.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - 12 Years ago, my sister got pregnant out of wedlock and at first tried to move out of her apartment with her friends and home with us. Thankfully, her friends weren't having it because she owed rent money (she had planned to work from home and pay ...

Things were a bit of a blur when we saw each other and I'm not sure how to respond to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Why did my ex contact me, and what should I do?. Last time I saw him, I went to his place. We have met a few times recently. We went out for drinks. It went well at first. I had some cider, which I am used to drinking. However, he gave me some ...

My boyfriend is going through a tough time at the moment .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - How can I help my depressed boyfriend? It hurts to see him so down So my bf have been really distant lately and we had a big arguements cause I was so frustrated and angry with him. I said he doesn't deserve me. and he was really hurt about th...

I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each ...

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...

When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our r...

Hurtful comments from stranger .........

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Today I went to a coffee shop and ordered myself something to drink. While I was about to leave the shop, I walked by a group of guys and they were looking at me and laughing at me. I heard one of the guys said, "did you see that girl?" "Did you get ...

Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...

Some questions about sex and oral contraceptives.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

22 February 2014 (M) - So recently my girlfriend and i have started using oral contraception in place of condoms after getting checked out, we were loving it and i cumed first, as men usually do and because of a lack of condom it was inside her. After 10 minutes or so we ...

All are blaming me for reporting what I had to. What are your thoughts on people be allowed to bring their children or baby to their workplace?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - What is everyone's opinion on people bringing their babies/ children to the work place? The reason I ask is because last week 1 of my colleagues, who is on maternity leave came in with her baby who is 7 months old. We work in a call centre and...

Worried that I'm not meeting expectations and worried about having sex again. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I am so worried that I don't enjoy sex because I'm too worried thinking about whether I'm living up to expectations or being good in bed. I'm 21 and not a virgin but had very little sexual experience all with guys who used me and at the time me b...

Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?

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21 February 2014 (?) - so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too. you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,...

My crush has an incurable illness. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - So, the guy who I'm interested in announced to the class that he had an incurable illness. He told us in november, and it's now February. I'm still not over it, and every day, I just become more and more in love with him. The day he told us, I sp...

I'm scared he will get drunk and cheat on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months. We moved in with each other after 2 months. I'm really worried about the relationship. He's a good lovely person but my gut feelings lead my to think otherwise and horrible things. ...

Why can I not express interest in the guys that I actually like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Why can I not express interest in the guys that I actually like? I'm a fairly confident woman. I have lots of male friends. I'm a flirt and pretty easy to get on with - except with one type of guy. The ones I fall for. Tonight I have made ...

My confidence has really taken a hit, what can I do to bring myself up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi there, so not really sure what the question is, but I feel just awful. After trying online dating my confidence has hit rock bottom. I joined in the beginning of December 2013 and straight away hit it off with a bloke (somewhat older then mysel...

I don't want to kiss my BF because of his bad breath! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - So when me and my bf got together, there were no problems, 'cos we hadn't kissed until three days ago. When we kissed, I couldn't help gagging at how horrible his breath tasted. I didn't tell him, though. So I played along. We kissed regularly and ...

I do love her with my all heart, but what can I do about her cousin with his wandering hands? She will not give me a straight answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I'll try to keep it short, sacrificing a lot of the details so bear with me. My GF and her female cousins have had/have an intimate relationship with a male cousin. Proven thanks to people leaving their facebook messages open for all to see.... s...

Why is this position we use still causing me problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have regular sex, we like to try different positions but our favourite is usually cowgirl where I am on top of him. When we first tried this position I had never done it I wasn't any good and he was doing most of the work. I thou...

I have an uneasy feeling about my husband's use of Cialis and his locked cell phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - My husband has been secretly taking cialis for some time now. At first my brother in law would give them to him, but as of July last year he has a prescription. Problem is, he uses them even when we are not having sex. I found one in his pocket, he ...

My self-esteem issues are getting in the way of my life! Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hey Guys! Little situation I need some help with and your input would be great. I am a 17 year old female, and I am currently at college and I have Bipolar as many of you may know. Before I share my problem...

I feel stuck and I would very much like your advice on how I can improve the quality of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

18 February 2014 (M) - I don't know where to begin. I feel empty inside. I don't have any friends and I've only been with a girl for like a month back when I was a freshman in college. Back when I was younger(I am 25 now), I use to blame all my problems on my identity as ...

How do I find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 February 2014 (M) - I am 48 years old I never had a girlfriend nor a serious relationship I am not a bad looking guy but I feel very unwelcome when I try taking to women or asking them out I made a fool out of myself Friday I asked out one of the waitress at the ...

His penis doesn't really stand up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Im 24 and Me and my boyfriend recently just started having sex, and I noticed that his penis doesn't really stand up. He can be fully hard but it still kind of flops over. I don't know if this is normal and he doesn't really seem to care about it. I ...

How to save a relationship from being destroyed by depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have officially been together two months today. I know that may not seem like a very long time, but things became serious very quickly. We met in September and it was love at first sight the moment we walked into class (he is a ...

Am I really gay or just scarred by women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Hey I'm Todd, I’ve never had any luck with women. Ever since I was a little boy girls never seemed to like me. Many girls seem to give the impression they like my looks although I’ve rarely ever heard anyone say it, besides my mom’s friends. N...

I have the most amazing partner in life, can I stop having random dreams about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm 22. To cut a long story short(er), last year I broke up with my ex after having discovered he'd cheated on me numerous times during our 3 year relationship. To make it worse, I had no clue nor did he do anything that raised my suspicions, ...

Grandparent died, boyfriend left and I had a melt down at work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Im hoping for some good advice regarding my current situation. Just recently I lost my last grandparent, who I loved very much and meant the world to me. I am overcome with grief. today, my partner walked out saying he was fed up of my `diva li...

I feel I let my boyfriend down after he made an effort for Valentines Day. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - I feel useless, I let my boyfriend down. What should I do?. I don't know if he will forgive me. He knew I haven't been well for a few days, but for some reason, he still bought lots of food for Valentine's day, and bought me some presents. Earlier ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Me and my common-law husband been together for 5 years and just had our first born, and he is still releasing himself to early, maybe 1-2 mins max, and i dont get to finish or sometimes anywhere near finish. He never had this problem before with his ...

Why do I keep getting crushes on my teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I've had crushes on about 6 different male teachers but I'm not sure why, my parents are a lot older than most and I have never had a boyfriend or male friend, I don't have any brothers either. I've got really bad anxiety and I worry about things ...

My ex is pregnant, she told me just after we broke up. I offered my support and she rejected that. Anyone else been in this situation? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

13 February 2014 (M) - Well here it goes, recently I got back with an Ex girlfriend who I had dated a few years ago, and I can genuinely say that I loved her then, and that things appeared to be going well second time round. Then it all went downhill. One weekend and ...

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

This question has 94 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

13 February 2014 (M) - I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

He keeps invading my personal space.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I work on campus in a computer lab, and really enjoy working with the students. But there is this one man (at least twice my age, maybe more) who comes into the lab occasionally, and he is overly-friendly with me, and it makes me uncomfortable. He ...

Is sex always going to be this uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3940 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - So I lost my virginity to this guy I'm sort of seeing it was a mistake and although I wanted it I felt pressured at the same time. Anyway we had sex and it was slightly painful, not all it's cracked up to be and I didn't finish no matter what he ...

My husband's secret porn addiction is driving us apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for twelve years I have recently checked out the history on our co on our computer and noticed a lot of porn sites which he has been on for about a year. I have also looked at his phone which is hardly ever out of his ...

Have I just not met the right friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

12 February 2014 (M) - Over the years, I have found it difficult to see the good things about myself. This needs to change. So, firstly, would like to lay these out on the table: I am determined (when I want to be), I am friendly, I have a good sense of humour, I can get ...

Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like me for who I am?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - This is a really hard question to ask because I'm fairly certain of the answer, but I was wondering if I will ever find some one because of my size. I'm very small for my age (18), I look much younger I'm very thin. Are there guys out there that ...

How do I end this obsession that's threatening to ruin my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Please believe me when I tell you that I have a very loving and beautiful relationship with my boyfriend. We might get married later this year. I had a crush on a colleague and it spiraled out of control and became an obsession. I avoid him like t...