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writes:So I lost my virginity to this guy I'm sort of seeing it was a mistake and although I wanted it I felt pressured at the same time. Anyway we had sex and it was slightly painful, not all it's cracked up to be and I didn't finish no matter what he tried. After having sex 3 times using nothing I was painful and bruised down below so I checked it out and it looks as though I still have my hymen and I don't understand this is because he's got small penis or what? Does this mean sex will always be slightly uncomfortable? Its just worrying me sex will never be this amazing thing, it just made me feel dirty and sore.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (12 February 2014):
That's very common for a first time. Don't worry. I didn't enjoy it till my 4th or 5th time.
That said, if you feel it was a mistake and just felt dirty and sore, you aren't ready for sex!! The sore part is ok, the dirty part is worrisome. I don't want you to go through your whole life feeling that sex is dirtt, that's no way to live.
So I recommend you avoid any more experiments of this nature until your brain matures a bit more.
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