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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I shake off this feeling that he does not love me? Could be be using me for something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I am seeing a man from Africa. I don't know how he feels about me nowadays. Nor if he loves me. We only see each other once a week. I am american and am used to a lot of attention when I am in a romantic relationship. He works and goes to sc...

Was I wrong to ask if she would mind scanning her notes? And why did she say yes, and then not bother? And now ignores me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I ...

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up...

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. Sh...

It seems like my girlfriend is getting too close to her male friend, they act like we did when we first started dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Was she testing to see if I'm actually interested? Should I ask her out? Or was she just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

What can I do? I'm in love with a man and I'm in love with my professor who is a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is...

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...

I was supposed to see a therapist. Is it time I now considered this option again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall sem...

Do we stay friends after admitting liking one another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4374 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi, my best friend and I recently revealed we had feelings for eachother, we haven't known each other long but clicked straight away. He's known I've liked him since we met but he only told me recently that he liked me because I admitted I still...

How to get friendship back after breaking trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - i'm the most horrible person in the whole world. i had a best friend(S) of 14 years i lived with for 7 years who did a lot for me, supported me in all ups and downs of life and even paid for my school and bills when i couldn't work just to make me ...

Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...

He did not want to date me but is now jealous that I am dating other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hello Cupids. What is it with men??? I have had a friendship with a guy for a year or more. We have flirted and clearly there was an attraction between us. We get along great, laugh together, have chemistry...yadda yadda yadda......

We don't like her, so we bully her. I think she's going to report us, any advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - in my friendship group there are 20 of us and we're all really close. since about yr6 we've been friends with this other girl,bertha, in yr7 we had a fall out. i felt really bad so i apologised to her face she accepted it, but did not apologise ...

I told her that I liked her despite her having a new boyfriend but the conversation didnt go anywhere, have I ruined our friendship? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - there is this girl that i've known since my college days. today, i discovered that she now has a new boyfriend ( which really came a bit of a shock for me). i never even once thought before that i like her at the that we are attending the same ...

I'm a nice guy is that why I get friendzoned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - I'm what you could call a nice guy. I hold doors open for girls, always treat them with the respect they deserve, and my friends that are girls say that I'm sweet, ask why more guys aren't like me, and why I'm not dating anyone. Yet, even when I ...

I feel guilty that my boyfriend gave up a long lasting friendship for me. I never asked him to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I have kind of a complicated situation... So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now, and he has been in love with his female friend for a very long time. They knew one another in elementary school, and were rather close. Th...

How should I react when he ignores me?...Because I still like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4377 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I started liking a guy in my class... he flirted a lot with me when compared to other girls..after giving it a long thought i told him i liked him... he replied that it's not that he ..but doesnt like me or anything...but it was not a good time ...

Why do I always seem to meet jerks who only wants to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (?) - Guys, what goes through your mind when you meet a new girl and only want to sleep with her? Why do guys I meet only want or try to sleep with me? I met a couple of guys from club online and even "friends of friends". Their only motive is t...

Am I insecure about her sexual connections with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi guys, hope someone can help me on this one? So I've been with my GF for 11 months now and living together for 6 months. We dated on and off for 7 months owing to her going through a divorce at the time and me not wanting to commit to someon...

How do I keep my new friend separated from the rest of my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - i recently made a friend she's really sweet and caring and i want to keep her in my life because i like going to eat with her, go shopping and watch movies and stuff but i don't want to go to parties with her. she's not very fun and exciting. i ...

I know people do move on, but everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I am feeling pretty down right now and would love some advice from other people on what to do because I seem to be losing my friends and boyfriend all at once. I am 27 and I have 2 best friends and a boyfriend of 3 years. I have had other close ...

What would you do if this was you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - Hy. Let me ask you this : what would you do if you had a family but never took a family photo with them, if you had parents who live in the same house but fight everyday, if your friends are 'not.so.good.friends' , if everybody just throws dirt ...

Should I tell the friend to stop the stares and the compliments? My husband is becoming uneasy with what is happening

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - What to do? Here is the situation. I know this guy for probably 12-13 years. He is a friend of a friend. He doesn't live in a same city, but comes to spend week end at his vacation house here once a month. He has a wife, and 2 young children. I ...

I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last week. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last Thursday night. Basically, I do some secretarial work for him at his office a few days a week, and last Thursday night we were working late and after I joined him and a few of his colleague...

I accidentally touched my friends breast and now she's angry at me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - hey all, so the other day, me and my bestie were sitting in the bus next to each other. we were kinda laughing and pinching the hell out of each-other but things got down hill when i ''ACCIDENTALLY'' touched her breast while we were pinching...

Should I believe that my bf is not attracted to this young woman who is going to be his room-mate soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - My bf and I have lived together for the last year or so, and our roommate split suddenly and we needed someone who could move in asap and afford to pay rent. Unfortunately, this wound up being my high school friend (this was honestly the only opt...

My friend is coming to me with advice, and I don't know what to say to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - My friend split from her first boyfriend a month ago, they were together for 15 months and she is obviously finding it hard to deal with. She has recently said she is starting to feel abit better and realising she can move on, however she messaged ...

Should I propose for a second time? Thoughts please!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - What a god damn cliche I'm about to spew, but it's the truth and I need guidance. Girl moves next door in 5th grade, boy befriends girl. They become best friends by the summer before 6th grade and continue this sexually frustrating relationship ...

I want to give myself the same pain he said I caused him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My friend and I had this experience with this older man and at first he showed me attention, etc. but once he saw my friend he completely forgot about me and started being rude to me and then one time he said he almost died and blamed it on me and ...

Does he not really want me, or is it all in my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Right this is a long story cut short. I met someone a yr ago and for the first couple of months it was all good and then cracks started to appear. He had more female friends than normal, especially one who was his ex that would txt him flirty ...

Girl I like is always with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - I like this girl in college. I've never talked to her and she's in none of my classes. I see her around campus and in the library almost everyday. I'm pretty certain she finds me attractive. We've exchanged repeated and extended eye contact. I've ...

Do I send him a note???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Ok there is a guy at the gym, he is one of the trainers, I am always in a hurry and barely ever get a chance to stop and talk to this guy but I have liked him for ages. Whenever we do talk he is quite shy with me and often looks away when I ...

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basicall...

Minimized our "social circle." Now have only a couple of close friends. Is this common?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - Four years ago I had quite a large group of people who I considered my friends. I met my boyfriend (now fiance) through these people. Around the time that we met, I think I realized that I want to distance myself from these people. There have been...

It seemed like a perfect time for a kiss but she wasn't up for it. Why does she act like she is and then turn off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - A girl friend of mine asked me to go watch twilight. So i went along as I kind of got forced to. She was holding my hand in the film. Squeezing it and than putting both her hands on mine. Anyway she enjoyed the evening. I'm near her road dr...

Why did the evening start out date like and at the end she made it clear we were just friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl in August and we hit it off straight away. So we started going out on dates, going to the cinema, meals out ect, which would always end up with us passionately kissing and cuddling till the early hours. We even performed oral sex on ...

Could u help me define if there’s a chemistry between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - So I’m an Asian living in my country and he’s an exchange student. He’s straight and I’m straight to him and I have no doubt about his sexuality. He has a girlfriend but she can’t sleep with him at night living with her parents. So I usually sta...

Why would he be sending me such mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - There is a guy I know who I like a lot, and a while ago I plucked up the courage to let him know. At the time he was adamant that he wasn't interested in that way but was fine about it, and said he still wanted to be friends. Recently, though, I ...

My girlfriend stalks guys on facebook, meets them and then tells them she has a boyfriend and only wants to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - So I have been dating this girl for a while about 8 months now and we seem to be good for eachother. The relationship is difficult to explain because we live so far away and it gets difficult sometimes. Anyways i have been noticing something about ...

Aspergers syndrome - life experience [summary]

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - Im 27 yrs old, have Asperger's syndrome. Life hasnt been easy for me, though but it has been good. High school was good, but I struggled with the social side, but enjoyed the topics, except for maths , only really liked English and geography an...

What am I? Is what I am feeling a normal part of going through puberty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - ok im 13 going through puberty and i don't know what im going through. I like girls ( I HAVE A GF) but i look at boys sometimes, girls too. Though I only look when im horny. When I'm horny a lot i do masturbate. I look some gay porn pics Now I need...

I need help badly. I'm emotionally torn. Missing my Bf after his father said things that put him into a boys home. My health's been affected. How can I cope better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are very serious. I know I'm in love. Well my boyfriend's dad and him always fight and sometime fist fight. When they do his dad usually hits first, this time my boyfriend hit first because his dad called me a "fat...

Was she trying to hint that I should ask this girl out asap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl early september and we were friends from the first week really. We see each other every few days as we have classes together and we do spend a fair bit of spare time in between together too just chatting etc. I did feel as if she s...

Does building one's self confidence depend on one's own opinion or that of others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - Not sure if anyone will understand my question but here it goes... Confidence = Not being needy, being comfortable in your own skin, knowing you can obtain what you need Does confidence, and therefore becoming a more sexually attractive guy, co...

Could my best friend have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - Recently I have begun to wonder if my best friend has feelings for me. Some of the things he does make me wonder and I was just wondering if you would be able to tell me whether these could be signs that he does? One really important piece of ...

How do I get over this mental attachment, this relationship to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - I have had feelings for a man for almost a decade now, but until recently I have never done anything to encourage any emotional response from him due to the fact that he is married. However, my life has been turned upside down now that I have ...

Hooked up with friend... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

20 November 2012 (M) - I may be completely outrageous here but this is my situation. a long time crush just broke up with her bf of 6 year (he cheated). i took the opportunity to comfort her but i definitely had feelings for her. we started hanging out as friends once a ...