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Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.

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Article - (27 November 2012) 1 Comments - (Newest, 17 December 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] writes:

Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down.

Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s completely fine.

We’re all different and that’s the greatest thing because we all have acquired tastes and it’s nice to have a little weirdness in this world. Maybe I shouldn’t keep trying to impress people but instead I should try and make myself happy, I like making others happy but making myself happy should be # 1 because then how would I be able to take care of others if I can’t even take care of myself.

That doesn’t make me a selfish human being at all, you can think what you want at the end of the day I know what I am and what I’m not.

Before judging someone you should really get to know them and we shouldn’t base things off of physical appearance, but instead on their personality. That’s the thing we’re too bothered to do but it is worth the most that way you actually know the person for who they really are. There’s so much beauty inwards acknowledge that fact before calling someone unattractive.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (17 December 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntThis is true. Sometimes you need to put yourself first and there's nothing wrong with that.

I've also noticed if you don't put yourself first at times, then people won't pay you the same courtesy. They will continue to expect the number one position.

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