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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How can I meet more people...especially boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if anyone had any tips of how i can meet more people. At school I had 6 close friends but none of them were popular and I enjoy spending time with them, however they don't always like the same things as me. It's not that i want to ...

I think my friends take advantage of me--what can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I worry that my friends take advantage of my kindness and take my friendship for granted, perhaps I'm being too sensitive, but it feels they ask far more favors than they do and they often forget to show their thanks. I have in the past tried ...

I can't stop thinking about my teacher...now I'm dreaming about her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Hi I've written here before about me me not being able to stop thinking about a female teacher not in a sexual way by the way but I just generally keep thinking about her and I posted in my last question how I went back to that school for work ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Ok well my bf cheated on me with my bestfriend not even just once but like 4 times in like a few days and i found out obviously which he is also her ex boyfriend and she cheated on her boyfriend with mine but what do i do its hard for me to be mad ...

Why did she shake my hand? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - what does she mean by this? one day before i left, she stated "i want you to shake my hand." i was going to walk out the door and refuse. however, i did not want to be rude so i just did what she told me and i shook her hand. while i shook he...

How can I tell him that I find his affectionate petting inappropriate in front of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I need some help on what to say to my boyfriend. We have been together 4 9months and i do love him however whenever we are with our friends all he wants to do is touch me, kiss me and cuddle me! i love being with him but there is a time and a pla...

He says he's not the jealous type but he hates me being around his best mate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's told me that he's no way near the jealous type. Yet, according to my friend, whenever I'm with his best mate on my own talking to him (I don't fancy him), it 'pisses him off'. I know my friend's not lying to me about it, because ...

I want to help him but I can't take much more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - BoyFriend Lives with EX WIFE who cheated while they were married. I know in my heart he has not dealt with these feelings of infidelity and I feel like I am caught in the middle. 1 1/2 ago he introduced me to her as she was a bartender at the time. ...

I like this lad but he's my best friends brother...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I was stayin at my best friends house recently when she decided that we should stay in her brother's room because he has a double bed. he came home and was fine with it he said he will just share the bed with us, I was fine because I have grown up ...

I can't stop thinking about him. I tell myself, I need to move on. I don't deserve him for all he's done to us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I want to be able to love again and be loved. The father of my child emotionally hurt me after all I've done for us to maintain a stable living situation. Our relationship at that time was rocky because I couldn't trust him (he's cheated on me), ...

I'm losing touch with my friends and I feel really lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I feel lonely. Apparantly I am on the verge of losing touch with my friends. I belong(ed) to a fairly large group of friends, but lately I've noticed that they rarely contact me. It's always me who calls/emails and suggests meeting up. At first I ...

I have feelings for both girls and boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm in a real difficult position. I have feelings for both girls and boys, but recently mostly girls. I really like a girl friend, she is bisexual, but she has been hanging out a bit with her ex girlfriend as friends, I really want to be with ...

I don't want to push her, but I'm tired of playing the cat and mouse game. I need to find a way to see if she comes to me. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

29 June 2007 (?) - I'm a 46 year old female in love with another female. I am convinced she loves me as well. I told her how I felt about her and she did deny she felt the same way. I am sure that is because she has been married and is confused by her feelings. She ...

Is she serious about not wanting relationships? She flirts a lot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - I have friend who 53, she is a single mother and I have known her for 10 years. She is stunning and easily taken for 30'sh. We both decided long ago that we didn't want a romantic relationship with anyone anymore and have been happy with a close, ...

I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now! I think we were good mates but found out she really fancies my best mate. My best mate has already got girlfriend and hates her. She's used me a lot to get to him, my friend told me everything ...

I have another chance of making a go of it with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - So I am about to go see this girl that I once kinda had a thing with. We weren't together but we acted like it. She kinda treated me bad and then just stopped talking to me. I was really upset. Then I found out she was moving and somehow we started ...

I really care for him and I want to keep him interested and show what a fun person I really am. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - A couple weeks after I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, I hooked up with another guy through a mutual friend of ours. We had a fun night and have since then seen each other quite a few times. Although we kiss and occasionally have sex, we are ...

If I dump him, no one will be my friend - but I don't love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx...

Update:She went away for 4 months and I missed her terribly. Now she's dumped me. What can I do? She now wants to be friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - hi again plz read my other question: She went away for 4 months and I missed her terribly. Now she's dumped me. What can I do? iv tryed giving her space but she txt me last night saying "hope your doing ok" but i didnt txt back. So she phoned ...

My husband spread gossip about me at work. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - After I lost my job I went through a period of depression. Then I went on a weight loss program and dropped 25 pounds, got a new job, looked around and realized I wasn't happy in my dead-end marriage so I got out. Now I've found a new man but my ...

I feel left out because all my mates have boyfriends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Well... i dont really have a problem but i really want a bf! i no its daft but all my mates have one and i am startin to feel left out! i dont want one but i think i need one to fit in! i feel stupid writin this but hey thats what your here for!...

My best friend and her other friend leave me out. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - hii im really depressed at the moment because my bes friend has got another friend who is really close to her they leave me out on things and i feel as if im not wanted i really like my best friend but am really depressed as i am not able to go ...

On MSN we're mates, but she laughs at me with her other friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Right, I have this friend - Me and her often get along great and we have a good chatter and laugh on msn! However, I get the feeling she's embarrassed to be my mate because often I see her sat with another of her mates and they're laughing at me, ...

I want to invite my friend to my wedding, but her partner is a pervert!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Hi am 23 and getting married next year. I have a friend of mine who is in her 40's and I am very fond of her and of course due to this, invited her to my wedding. But the only problem is her partner. He's what you'd call a 'TitsPervert'. I was at a...

He tells another girl online that she's beautiful; I think he's being a hypocrite

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - I have a problem with my bf of 5 months. We are both 18 years old. The other night a friend of mine was browsing one of my bf's profiles and noticed a comment from a girl which had a 3 (symbol for love heart online) in it. My friend then went to ...

Is it normal for a male friend to ask me about my sexual past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Today, on the phone I was talking to my boy friend thad. And we got into a convo about sex. and sex jokes and kissing ect... Well we got to laughing a talking about each other. Well he was like asking me if i ever went all the way. And things like ...

How can I make it clear to them that I JUST want to be friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Oi, I need help, aunts! Okay. Let me start off by saying I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love very much, and who loves me. We are happy together, and things are going smoothly. My relationship at home is not my problem. However, I'm sta...

I love her so much but broke up with her because we will be in different states for a while.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - I met probably one of the greatest girls of all time last summer. We met in stats class and began going out from there on. after a couple of weeks of getting to know each other we started dating and I asked her to be my girlfriend. Around our three ...

I'm also so tempted to just use her, tell her I still love her and have a ton of sex then move away (as wrong as it is).

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - Six years after I met this girl (lets call her P) I am still confused. I think I instantly fell in love with her, she was the complete opposite to me and a perfect compliment to my personality. We were at college together (17/18 years old...

Her husband is okay with her seeing other women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Hi I am 25 years old and there this woman I like but she's married with three kids. Her husband okay with her seeing other women and I have asked her how long shes be in a relationship with a woman and she said to me a few months and that she's ...

He doesn't know if he can be with me because his friends would hate him for it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Just broke up with boyfriend, really like his best friend, best friend likes me, but doesn't know if he can be with me because his friends would hate him for it... he's out of town right now... what should I be thinking? Any hope for something ...

Is there fire with that smoke?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - i am 17 and i like this guy he is 19, but he has a girlfriend. we all no she isn't good for him but there is nothing we can do. i don't no whether my feelings for him are love or lust. when we meet we both can't help but smile at each other, when we ...

My close friends unfairly abandoned me; I feel like I can't finish school

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I'm 16, almost turning 17. A month ago, I was full of life, had lots of friends and my grades were pretty good. a couple weeks later, I got accused of backstabbing by my friends and all of them, now, hate or dislike me. I did not do what they had ...

My boyfriend hasn't let his female best friend and I meet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's best friend is another woman, who doesn't seem to be interested in getting to know me. I've asked to meet her to no avail. He spends time either with her or me and never with both of us. I know there isn't anything going on between ...

Do I talk about my feelings with her? Or just let it go and continue talking with her as we have before.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6388 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I told my friend that I liked her a lot and she is okay about it. She says we're still friends. Is there a reason why she wouldn't be so freaked out by me telling her I like her more than a friend? I'm going nuts about what I did and even more so ...

I don't know if she likes me or is using me but I need to find a way to get a definite yes or no or a yes with a timescale like when she will be ready!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - So I've liked this girl since August. We've met for lunch once and it was awkward. I let her know how I felt towards her before this. But then lately I have had to visit her work a lot and she has just smiled and talked very quietly to me. Then ...

My 3 female fellow students want the 4 of us to go on holiday together but I don't think my girlfriend is too keen on the idea seeing as she wouldn't be going.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - Hi! I ask to get some opinions. I study maths and have three female fellow students I used to learn with for the past two years. My girlfriend of just over two years studies history at the same university. She knows this friend. And all of those ...

Why am I always attracted to guys much older than myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I've always been attracted and have dated pretty much always older guys, far older than me. Like I'm 18 but the guys I date are around 30 of age. Why is that? Is there a reason why I'm attracted to older guys?...

Will I ever be any more than my neighbour's friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - Next door neighbor - women and I have had a friendship/sexual relationship on and off for the past seven years. About 16 months ago she came to me and told me she loved me and wanted a relationship. At the time she was depressed and not happy with ...

When I told her I liked her, she said she didn't want to lose me as a mate! How can I convince her to give us a try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get ...

I am jealous of how happy my ex and my friend are together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - hiya. I recently decided to end it with my bf but now he is going out with a close friend of mine. I am finding it really hard to see them together. We are in the same group of friends which makes it even more difficult. Whenever i think about them ...

How can I make him trust me so we can have a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids I have a very frustrating relationship with my current "friend with benefits" I like this man, and want a real relationship with him, however he tells me that he won't let anyone in and won't trust anyone because he's been hurt too ma...

How can I help my old friend out of the rut she's in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - hello everyone i have a problem with my best friend. you see weve been friends since 7th grade now weve been outta high school for a year and all but she is i guess going through this rough patch and i dont know how to deal or help her. you see as ...

I got her to kiss me, but now I don't kow what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, First time I have written; I really like my friend a lot, even though she has just gotten with someone recently. The thing is I told her and she wanted me to kiss her so I did. She felt guilty afterwards because of our friendshi...

All my guy mates end up fancying me and then when I reject them, I lose them as friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - my love life is such a puddle at the moment so is my life in genereal im in sixthform and at the start of the year i was having an absolute blast i loved every minute of it i was so popular everyone wanted to be my friend i had all the guys falling ...

I spent a peaceful night with my friend...now I'm confused about where we stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - I have a female friend I feel very comfortable with. Last night I was at her house. We lost track of time and I realised I'd probably miss the last transport home. She said I could stay and I said yes. In the morning I felt very contented w...

How do I say no to dating him without ruining our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Okay one of my best friends, Cat, recently broke up with her boyfriend. Now he claims that he's in love with me and recently broke the news to Cat. She asked me if I had feelings for him and I said I obviously didnt. Now he wants to ask me out...how ...

My friend I've flirted with for years has told me he's gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - me and my boy mate have been mates for 3 years now when we get drunk we always fool around and every1 always asks when we are goin to get it 2gether now he has just told me hes gay and im love with him and i have not got a clue what to do help...

My mates think I'm gay and won't talk to me now that I have a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

24 June 2007 (M) - Me and my mates used to joke when i was single about me being gay because i played a gay in the school play. However when i met my girlfreind they thought i was joking when i told them and they ignored me from then onwards. I made new freinds with ...

I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...