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writes:A couple weeks after I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, I hooked up with another guy through a mutual friend of ours. We had a fun night and have since then seen each other quite a few times. Although we kiss and occasionally have sex, we are not dating. We are simply two special friends who care about one another. My problem is that I feel as though I am boring around him and that he will lose interest. I am a quiet person. I try not to be, but it is hard. It can sometimes take me awhile to open up and let others in. I told him this and he said he doesn't mind waiting, but it still gets me worried. Does anyone have any good ideas on fun, interactive activities that will help me feel more comfortable, at home cuz we don't have a bunch of extra money, or on some really great conversation starters? I really care for him and I want to keep him interested and show what a fun person I really am. Please help.
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reader, Brandi +, writes (29 June 2007):
 I think that you should be who you are. If that is not what he likes forget it he does not deserve you. You need a man that likes you for you.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 If he meant what he said that he didn't mind waiting then just relax and enjoy what is going on. Don't try to be loud and out going if that isn't you just because you think it'll keep this guy interested.
Things for you to do at home? Get a movie in or watch an old one, few beers or bottle of wine.
Have a chat with this guy and explain how you feel. He sounds like he's interested so I'm sure you haven't got a problem there.
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