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writes:Hi,I'm wondering if anyone had any tips of how i can meet more people. At school I had 6 close friends but none of them were popular and I enjoy spending time with them, however they don't always like the same things as me. It's not that i want to be popular its just i would like more friends that I could hang out with. I'd also like to meet more guys, because at the moment I'm very shy around guys and I'd like to change the way I act.I've also never had a boyfriend, theres been plenty of guys i like but I've never had the courage to tell them. At the moment theres a guy i like but hes recently started going out with a girl (since Sunday) and he seems to like her. But I'm getting mixed messages from him because a couple of weeks ago he told me he fancied me. Also whenever i go to his work place (a local food store) one of his colleagues keeps telling me that he always talks about me and says I'm the love of his life and that he really fancies me, but whenever i ask him about it he denies that hes ever said anything about me. What do you think???I know this is quite confusing but I'd be happy of any advice.thanks xxx
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Well as for this guy, it sounds like he really does like you, and his denial is normal for most boys who dont want there crushes to find out, but he has a girlfriend so i guess you will either wait or find someone who is single and likes you just as much.
As for meeting people why dont you join some sort of sports club or social club etc. There should be loads of teen and boys for you to meet. Also since they are a friendly setting you can become less shy and more open about yourself.
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