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writes:i am 17 and i like this guy he is 19, but he has a girlfriend. we all no she isn't good for him but there is nothing we can do. i don't no whether my feelings for him are love or lust. when we meet we both can't help but smile at each other, when we do spend some time together it's great fun he always makes me laugh and makes me feel valuable. i don't no what i should do. when i tell him to do something like not getting drunk on our graduation he did it and at the end of the night he came up to me to show me he wasn't drunk.maybe there is something there i don't no.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Love is a very complicated painful thing, but it can also be one of the most wonderful things in the world. It is hard to understand and know what to do even if you have had a boyfriend in the past as each person is a new experience. We all mess it up at some point in our lives.
Do what you feel is right. That's the best you can do. If this guy is happy with his girlfriend, no matter how bad for him everyone thinks she is then be happy that he's happy. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for all your replies i still don't really know what i should do. why is love so hard to understand. i never had a boyfriend so i don't know how it works. i take all of your comments seriously and all of them were good in different ways thank you so much guys. i will probably be back soon
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reader, tasha556 +, writes (27 June 2007):
 sounds like there is summing there but be careful you may have it wrong and he only likes you ask a friend. you could tell him you like him the next time your alone together.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 I guess since you are on good terms with him, you might tease him once in awhile and say, "What are you doing with that girl, when you could be with me?" You could also try pointing out why she's no good for him, but I doubt he'll ever see the light. Be his friend for as long as you can and let him know that if he ever breaks up with his g/f you would like a chance to be with him. Then just see what happens.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
Tell him you like him. Obviously when the girlfriend isn't around. Don't make a move on him though. Maybe he does like you but isn't sure which is why he's sticking with the girl who's bad for him.
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