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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I told my friend that I liked her a lot and she is okay about it. She says we're still friends. Is there a reason why she wouldn't be so freaked out by me telling her I like her more than a friend? I'm going nuts about what I did and even more so that she's not going nuts! She's sort of in a relationship with another girl. I feel awkward talking to her now. It has changed everything. Do I talk about my feelings with her? Or just let it go and continue talking with her as we have before. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 June 2007):
If you told her you liked her and she said you're friends, that what you are. I know this isn't easy at all, but, don't push it. Continue to be her friend, just as usual, if you feel comfortable with it. If you don't, walk away in silence. Believe me, this is what works.
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