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writes:hii im really depressed at the moment because my bes friend has got another friend who is really close to her they leave me out on things and i feel as if im not wanted i really like my best friend but am really depressed as i am not able to go round her house or play out with her wheras the other girl can and im really jelous. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): Hi hun.
I know exactly how your feeling, i'm a lot older than you but i can remember when i was around your age i was in the same situation with one of my best friends...and it's not a nice feeling at all and i'ts really hurtful. I delt with it by trying to push that jelousy aside, it was really difficult to do and it hurt alot. I went out and made new friends...you can have more than one best friend you know.. and then you probably wont feel that way because you wont have time to. I'ts like someone's already said a true friend is there for eva...no matter what happens. Im nearly 30 now and i still have the 3 same best friends from when i was 12...yeah we've been through some up's and downs in the passed, but it's all part of growing up and as you get older it wont bother you as much.. obviously there sometimes have been a twinge of jealously but because i have a network of friends i'm fine. I really do understand how your feeling tho. take care hun
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reader, questiongirl718  +, writes (1 July 2007):
i think you should tell your best friend how you feel. if she is really a good friend she will try to get you involved.
i guess it all depends on if you like the other girl if you want to hang out with them both. if your not sure and havent really met her then you should try to meet her. if your best friend likes her that much, you should like her too. you can all be friends.
GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU DO!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): like the other one's said if shes a true friend then talk to her, but in the mean time make other friends as well this has happened to me many times before
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Take your best friend to one side and just say "Look, I'm feeling really left out at the moment, I feel like you don't want to hang out with me. If that's the case then just tell me" and she should understand if she's the best friend you think she is. If she takes no notice or carries on, find a new friend because she's not worth it if she's not going to respect you and be kind.
A best friend will always be there for you no matter what. If she doesn't respect that, get into dance groups or youth clubs and meet new people and make new friends, maybe then she'll realise.
Take care x
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reader, sarahbeth101  +, writes (28 June 2007):
well if she is your bff, then you can talk to her no matter what. and say he do you think that we can hang out soon, or something like that. If she says no i am hanging out with someone elese that day say hey you know i am kinnda getting left out. and if she was a true bff she would know what to do.
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